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Time for Gratitude: Staying Positive in Business & Life

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Tomorrow’s Thanksgiving!

Unfortunately, a lot of people are less thankful than they are rushed, harried, worried, and just barely hanging on.

I get it. There’s a lot of pressure on adults around the holidays. It’s not like when you were a kid and you could just show up at the Thanksgiving table and Christmas tree and receive all the goodness!

However, there are ways to stay calm and collected even in this stressful season. Here are some ideas!

Keep a Gratitude Journal

Gratitude has incredible benefits in every area of your life. Studies show that consistent gratitude can give you improvements in your health, happiness, productivity, social life, and even personality.

One quote I saw that really made me think was “What if you woke up today with only what you were grateful for yesterday?”

Don’t think that a gratitude journal has to be extremely difficult. Studies show that you can spend as little as 15 minutes three times a week writing down what you’re grateful for and get all the benefits.

It’s more important to record the details of what you’re grateful for than it is to make a long list. Don’t forget to be grateful for negative outcomes you were able to avoid! I’ve been thankful more than once for a close miss in the car, for instance.

Focus on Only Three Big Things a Day

One thing that causes a lot of stress is trying to do too much at once. I know I’m not the only one with a to-do list as long as my arm, especially during the holidays!

When we don’t finish everything, we just roll it over to tomorrow. But tomorrow has its own tasks – so the list gets longer and longer.

Why not throw out the never-going-to-do-it-anyway list and just focus on three major things each day? Create a list of three for your business and three for your personal life. If you finish those, everything else is gravy!

That’s a much better way to stay productive and motivated. Not only that, it will force you to decide what’s truly important on any given day.

Smile More

Sometimes you just don’t feel like smiling. Did you know that if you smile anyway, your emotions will improve?

Simply moving the muscles required to smile activates neuropeptides in your brain. You also release all the feel-good transmitters, such as dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin.

Smiling – whether you feel like it or not – can improve your mood, relax your body, and even reduce your pain. It’s all-natural with no side effects. You don’t have to psych yourself into it. Just SMILE!

It’s incredible how much things can change physically just from smiling. It also impacts others. When you smile at someone, they often smile back automatically. Then THEY get all the great benefits as well.

Use This Holiday Season to Boost Positivity, Peace, and Gratitude

Tomorrow would be a great day to start practicing these tips. But there’s an even better day – today!

Why not just sit back for a minute and smile? Write down five things you’re grateful for. Whittle your to-do list down into the three most important things.

You’ll be amazed how much better you feel.

 

By the way, remember that business purchases you make in 2018 can be written off your taxes next year. Don’t let the end of the year pass you by – stock up on real estate marketing today!

 

This post originally shared on PrinterBees' Real Estate Marketing Magazine.

Anne Corbin
Long and Foster - Lake Anna - Spotsylvania, VA
Serving Lake Anna & Central Virginia

Interesting. Yesterday morning, I had doubts. By afternoon, I had perspective. Today, I have hope. Each second, minute, hour, day brings varied emotions so it is important to stop and contemplate a bit. It is all in how we think about something that makes the difference. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 22, 2018 07:05 AM
Nadine Larder

That is really cool Anne! Thank you for sharing. :-)

Nov 24, 2018 12:11 PM
Anonymous
Mishal

I need this positivity today. I am trying to be more grateful everyday, Thank you for a great reminder.

Nov 22, 2018 07:41 PM
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Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

 

Wonderful Post.  I must try the Smile several times a day.  I needed the positive outlook this morning.  Thanks

Nov 23, 2018 07:11 AM
Nadine Larder

You're welcome Rose - I hope this holiday season brings you many smiles!

Nov 24, 2018 12:11 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Nadine, Sorry did not swee this this past week, no internet at cabin and hot spot was not working.  Good information.

 

Nov 26, 2018 08:08 AM
Nadine Larder

No problem, I hope you had an amazing holiday!

Nov 26, 2018 07:13 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

I think it's easy to be grateful--easy to take basic things for granted (food, health, home, family) that many pp on the planet do not have.  I like the 'focus on three things' advice--makes the long to do list easier to tackle!

Nov 26, 2018 01:15 PM
Nadine Larder

Great insight Mary! Thanks for you comment. 

Nov 26, 2018 07:12 PM