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Gratitude is..................#2

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

I have always believed that anything I have ever done has prepared me for anything I will ever do. So it is in that context that I am grateful for the myriad of experiences I have had, both good and bad. I wish I had been more gutsy in my youth but alas I wasn't. It was a time that was very different than today. Girls became secretaries, wives, nurses, or teachers and that was the norm. I became a teacher.

If I were growing up today the sky would be the limit and actually while I believe limits are self imposed there were exceptions. Ruth Bader Ginsberg is on the Supreme court and she is an example of someone who did not buy into norms. I admire her. She really had no role models, but was focused and determined.

I am a bit old for law school now, but actually considered it in my forties. The road not taken. I couldn't afford the time and cost away from work then. Today it doesn't much matter. I am grateful for the work I had and the difference I made to others. I wonder what opportunities will come in the future and I look forward to embracing them.

When I bought my current really old new home in the Berkshires I transformed my yard into something that brings me joy. I didn't really know the difference between a weed and a perennial but I learned. Life is about learning and I am really grateful I can still participate.

 

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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheila,

You are quite the lady, and I have enjoyed your gardening achievements, and all your travel adventure.  What a lovely photo.  A

Nov 11, 2019 07:05 AM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Good Morning Sheila... I thank you for the hearty laugh... Not being able to distinguish weeds from perennials is a common dilemma for greenhorn gardeners. I did have that problem myself that I ended up pulling everything from the ground like a maniac to start from scratch. 

Nov 11, 2019 07:07 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you very much Alexandra.     :)           Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 07:10 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Maria. I'm glad you got a good laugh from this. It wasn't funny for me in the beginning, but looking back it is all good. TY        Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 07:12 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Sheila,
What you have done is your yard is beautiful. I know you take great pride in it, as you should!

Not everyone can be a "pioneer" but I'm certainly grateful for those who were so the rest of us could finally realize there are really few limits.  I've done a little pioneering of my own but nothing like RBG.  Happy Monday! 

Nov 11, 2019 08:37 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Carol. You are right not everyone can be a pioneer but I admire them too. Thank you.      Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 08:57 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Yes, the possibilities were certainly different back in the day. The vast amount of learning experiences are out there now, and you have traveled many roads and expiences. Let the journey continue...

Nov 11, 2019 10:57 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks so very much Sheila. We aren't there yet but it is a very new world, both good and bad.        Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 11:06 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Through the ages you've learned a lot and you keep learning. Once a teacher, always a learner and an achiever. 

Nov 11, 2019 11:14 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Patricia.      Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 11:15 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday afternoon, Sheila.

We have a nice day in Maryland and I have been out doing yard work. 

Nov 11, 2019 11:45 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Roy. It is damp and there will be some snow later here. Enjoy the evening.      Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 11:52 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

 Sheila you are living proof that keeping on keeping on creates things of beauty!! Just look at your gorgeous garden!  It's great to keep learning new stuff!

Nov 11, 2019 03:20 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you so much Anna. You are kind and I'll take it. :)   Have a lovely evening. Sheila

Nov 11, 2019 03:24 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

My very best friend who turned 70 this year went to college and got her law degree in her 30s.  I was certainly given great opprtunity than my mom and my daughter, more than me. but I prepared her to take on the world and make her way.  She has made me proud.

Nov 11, 2019 09:11 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi again Tammy. I think your friend is to be admired. I couldn't make it happen. TY    Sheila

Nov 12, 2019 04:14 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

HI Sheila- I had no idea that you had not been into gardening before you bought your home in the Berkshires!!! I love seeing your photos of your garden!!! I thought about going to Law School after grad school but I'd had enough of school at that point.  

Nov 12, 2019 06:17 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Kathy. I learned a little gardening in my first home in NJ but perfected my knowledge here. Law school would have been nice but I didn't have the money to do it when I was serious. TY   Sheila

Nov 13, 2019 03:22 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Love this entry Sheila Anderson I, too, feel that everything I have ever done has prepared me for what I am doing now.

 

Nov 29, 2019 06:18 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Margaret.......      Sheila

Dec 02, 2019 11:44 AM