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I'll Be True As Long As You -- And Not One Minute After

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Commercial Real Estate Agent with Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker AZ BR 528507000

Whole lotta SHAKIN' goin's on about Buyer Broker Exclusive Agreements and I thought I'd weigh in (@ fighting weight of course)! 

I've used them and not used them. 

Why? 

Because of the task at hand AND THE PERSON being contracted.

Most of my people are loyal to a fault. They understand the efforts that go into a project. The value of the real estate professional contracted to work with them. The value of time. 

Some are going to put you through changes. They may not be clear on what they want 'yet', or various 'grief factors' could trigger a need for additional assurance. They may be known 'flutterbyes' who call every damn sign and get amnesia about who they are working with.

But MOST OF ALL, the reason I RARELY will sign a buyer to an exclusive, is

I may not want to give them MY exclusivity.

When you sign a contract, YOU are on the hook, as are they.

This is also why ALL my listing agreements have a 7 day mutual kickout clause. 

I could find it's not worth any more of my energy, and decide to release them. I've done it more times than I can count. With the exception of a major change in the client's situation (a death in the family, for example) I have not had a client exercise their option yet. 

Interesting that the folks who would NEVER swerve you have no need for anything more than a handshake?

I don't have time to micromanage disloyal folks! Not in my business and not in my life.

I realize that many states require an exclusive for both buyers and sellers. So far, ours does not. 

There's an old Irish toast:

"Here's to me, here's to you, here's to love and laughter.
I'll be true as long as you and not one minute after!"

Kinda how I roll . . . YMMV of course.

 

 

The fish jumped off the hook
didn't I babe?
Who's zoomin' who?

Comments(4)

Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Candice - Admittedly, I don't know many Irish toasts but there is a genuineness in the one you selected to share that can't denied:

"Here's to me, here's to you, here's to love and laughter.
I'll be true as long as you and not one minute after!"

Jul 22, 2021 10:26 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

Interestingly, the first time I ever heard that toast (as I am Italian, not Irish and 'Salud' or 'A Sante' is the toast of choice) was in the classic astrology book Linda Goodman's Sun Signs. I think she was talking about Aries . . . LOL the things we selectively remember!

Jul 27, 2021 07:18 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I am with you there and I have rarely had a buyer-broker agreement signed.  I understand the purpose of them, but my feeling is that bad people are going to do you wrong whether they have signed something or not, haha.

Jul 23, 2021 05:25 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

And when the bad people do their bad thing, for me it is just easier to lose their number than to sue them for a commission and have to go through that. Like I had said in QA . . . once EVERYONE MUST do it, we'll do it and it will change EVERYTHING. But for now . . . we go by the Braille method and feel it out! LOL 

Jul 23, 2021 06:30 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

I have never had a buyer/broker agreement signed. I have lost a client on occasion but I do not think those clients would have honored a buyer/broker agreement anyway. 

Jul 27, 2021 06:32 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

Yep. Then you gotta go to the trouble of suing them and develop a reputation as the guy that sues their clients. We have to pick our battles.

Jul 27, 2021 06:38 AM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Candace, that's  a fun toast! I have used once or twice the Buyer-Broker agreement, but I don't any more.  I always have the Agency Disclosure signed, so that it's clear whom I represent.

Aug 15, 2021 08:27 AM