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My beautiful daughter Abigail Elizabeth

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

 In January of 1995 I purchased Lane Realty.  So here I was a single mom with a beautiful, smart 6 year old that had to spend many many MANY hours going to work with mom.  She wasn't one to complain and she always supported me emotionally.  Yes, you can get support from a child.  She learned to answer the phone and take great messages very early on in life.  She's now a senior off at college.  Today she is going to the Georgia vs. Alabama game and so far we've talked on the phone about 6 times. 

I'm going to UGA!! GO DAWGS!!!

 Look Mommie- I solved the Rubik's cube!

 This is one of my favorites.  She took dance for about year.  I also love this picture, because that little worn chair was mine when I was a little girl.

 My mom can't come to the phone right now, but I could take your name and number have her call you back as soon as she is free.

I'm the pink power ranger.  My mother worked on this costume for weeks.  It's still in the closet and I full well intend that my grand daughter (assuming I get one.... one of these years) will wear it.  But Abigail has always been a defender of right and helpful to others.  In the first grade her teacher called me to make sure I didn't mind if Abigail stayed inside during recess to help another student in her class with reading.  It was Abigail's idea.

 We rented this fish for the magazine cover.  Abigail was sooooo excited to help me out.  We sold the lot I was advertising in 7 days.

 She's always been about... I CAN do it.

 This was "senior day" of soft ball in 2005.  And she'd been in an awful wreck earlier in the month and had a metal plate and 4 screws holding her left thumb on, but that didn't stop her participation in John Milledge's 4-PEAT.  They were state champs for the 4th time Abi's senior year.

 Here she is on the side lines with water and towels at the football game.  And yes, there were shorts up under that shirt.

 This was one of my favorite of her senior photos. Had that devilish look she sometimes gets.

 She graduated in May of 06 among the top of her class.  National Honor Society, Beta Club, Honor Grad!  I was a very proud mom.

 And she's never been afraid to try anything.  She loved swimming with the dolphins.

I wanted to share my daughter with you.  And I'd like to share a poem I wrote to her a few years ago.

To my Daughter, My Friend.

No one could understand my relationship with you

We're different from other mothers & daughters, it's true.

For such a long time, being only the two of us,

Loving, playing, teaching, learning, making a fuss,

You will always be my itsy bitsy tiny baby

Am I ready to let you grow up and leave? Maybe.

No words can express the pride that fills my heart,

Leaving the nest with your own life to start.

Setting your own goals and always making the grade.

Learning so much from mistakes you have made.

You possess beauty, love, passion and grace,

no matter if you are in camo or lace,

When you are troubled, I wish you peace,

When you want to quit, just don't cease,

When you are sad, remember times of joy,

Make your way and create, don't ever destroy.

And forever and ever whenever you feel alone,

Remember your mom, you can always come home.

I know you will have success in all that you do,

Know always and forever, how much I love you.

Mama.

 

My little Abi will be getting her undergrad degree in August of '09.  Just three years and three months after graduating from high school.  I'm very proud of her and I wanted to share.

Hope you enjoyed meeting the light of my life.

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Great pictures that tell the story of her growing up.  It is hard to be an empty nester.

Sep 27, 2008 09:08 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Congratulations on raising such a beautiful young woman.  They all grow up to fast and as single parents we develop extra connections with our kids that is very special.

Sep 27, 2008 09:12 AM
Mary Warren
Las Vegas, NV

Tammy - what an awesome tribute to your daughter!  It brought tears to my eyes.  It's obvious you are very proud of her....and I trust she feels the same way about her mom!

Sep 27, 2008 09:13 AM
Sharon Fleming
Real Living Realty Unlimited - Port St Lucie, FL
Realtor, Port St Lucie-Florida

Being a mom of three beautiful little girls, this post touched me.....You have a great relationship with your daughter and it is evident that you instilled great morals and respect in this young lady....She will go far!  Look at the Role Model she has....She was destined to become great!  Good luck and GOD Bless you and yours!

Sep 27, 2008 09:34 AM
Dave Hamill
EXIT Realty Legacy - Prescott, AZ
Prescott, Arizona Real Estate

Hi Tammy,

From a proud father of two daughters, I know somthing of what you've expressed here.  Congratulations on having done so well and on being so very blessed.  Best wishes to you and your Abi.

Sep 27, 2008 09:43 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

When Abigail was 14 I remarried a very wonderful man who has been a great dad to her.  He has two sons that I love very much.  But this empty nest thing is kinda hard.

 

Sep 27, 2008 10:24 AM
Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww....thank you so much for sharing these photos with us. She is beautiful, Tammy. I KNOW that you are a proud mommy. The poem is precious. I love it! GBU & Abi!!

Sep 27, 2008 02:05 PM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

My wife and I are just now talking about having children, and your post makes me already worried about our boy or girl growing up. Take care.

Sep 27, 2008 02:11 PM
Sharon Fleming
Real Living Realty Unlimited - Port St Lucie, FL
Realtor, Port St Lucie-Florida

TAMMY: Thank you for the post on my blog :)  You said I looked young like your daughter well BLESS YOU!  I am 34 and I have 2 birth children (10 &12) and 1 adopted (16 almost 17).  SO when you said she was off to college it hit home, I will be dealing with this soon enough!  Thanks again!!

Sep 27, 2008 03:58 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Hi Tammy: What a positively beautiful tribute to your daughter. And a woman with a middle name of Elizabeth will likely go far in this life. :)

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Sep 28, 2008 02:38 AM
Tiffany Burke
Group one real estate - Corpus Christi, TX

Hi Tammy, brought tears to my eyes.  I wish I had a relationship with my own daughter, you are very fortunate, please don't forget it.  You must be very proud.

Sep 28, 2008 04:24 AM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Ahh what a bittersweet time for you.  Letting go......is possible because of the wonderful job you've done in raising her.........As a single mom it can be extra tough when they leave........she's beautiful......sigh..........so much of life is about letting go...

Sep 28, 2008 06:55 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Elizabeth- It's a family name, but one I love as well.  It was my mom's father's mother's name and on my dad's side was his mother's sister's name. 

Tiffany- I truly am fortunate and I have always realized how special my girl was and been thankful for who she is and our close relationship.  I'm also very close to my own mom.

Liz- Letting go was really easy... I'd spent all that time making sure she was prepared I know she's ready.

Sep 29, 2008 04:37 AM
Angelia Garcia
Pure Realtors - Dallas, TX

What a treasure! You are the mother of the year.  She turned out great!

Sep 29, 2008 04:43 AM
Stephanie Jacques
Better Homes and Gardens The Masiello Group - Keene, NH
Stephanie Jacques Kleine

This scares me, gives me shivers, makes me happy, joyous and sad! My daughter is 4. I'm without words just looking at your daughter grow!

Sep 29, 2008 06:16 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Angelia- Thanks, but it's really that I was blessed with a fantastic child.  I'm also very fortunate that my parents were there to help me when I needed it as well.

 

Stephanie-my only advice to any parent is raise them up in the way of God, pray a lot and make them as independent as you can, you will reap the rewards from it later.  Good luck and God Bless you and your daughter.

Sep 29, 2008 07:17 AM