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Friends Don't Advise Friends About Real Estate

By
Real Estate Agent with Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc.

whisperYou Love Them... They Love You...  But...

HOME SELLERS:

Those loving friends of yours are shaking their heads and saying that your listing price is too low... the commission you're offering is too high... and you chose the wrong agent.  You believe those friends mean only the best for you, and that's why you rely upon them even though they have no professional expertise in real estate.  Of course, they'll quickly tell you they have all the right answers (from reading the Washington Post and watching CNN):

  1. Raise the price of your home - Quick, before someone makes an offer.
  2. Drop the commission - Why pay more, when you could pay less? 
  3. Fire your agent - Hire the discount broker and/or someone who will advertise in the newspapers and give you a magnet for your refrigerator.

 

To all of you, I have a single word of advice:  NO!

 

FRIENDS OF HOME SELLERS (AND BUYERS):

If you love your friends and truly care about them, please keep your advice to yourself.  Here's why:

Pricing is an art.  It requires a lot of factual knowledge AND experience that you simply don't have.

 

Whisper

You may not know how many homes sold last month, and whether that is more or fewer than the previous month or the same month last year.

You may not know how long homes are taking to sell, or what it will take to sell more quickly than the average.

You may not know how many homes are competing for the same buyers, or the details of those homes' size, features, and location.  In fact, you may not know that information about your friend's home.

You may not know the average or median sold price last month, and whether that is higher or lower than the previous month or the same month last year.

You may not know today's financing requirements, including the trends with appraisals and underwriting. 

You may not have a professionally-developed Buyer Profile to enlighten your opinion on whether or not the agent's marketing will be effective.

You may not know what commission rate and/or bonuses are the current trend or what may catch the eye of buyer-agents with live warm-bodied clients.

You may not be proficient in technology and realize that 80% of today's home buyers begin their search on the Internet (not in the classifieds or driving around looking for "sale" signs).

You may not know what other "comparable" homes sold for recently, or what the terms of the sale may have been.  (In the Crofton market, the average last month was 10% below list price - not counting any closing help or other concessions.)

You may not know the prices of competing properties for sale, including short sales and foreclosed properties priced significantly lower than other active listings and recent sold comps.

You may not know the professional qualifications of the agent advising your friend, possibly years of experience and hundreds of successful real estate transactions.

You may be relying upon your own unique experience in pricing a home or choosing an agent - 3 years ago.  If you haven't sold a home (or 2 or 3 or 10) in the past 30 days, you are not qualified to judge what may be effective NOW.

All of these factors go into pricing a property for sale, and a seller cannot afford to be wrong.  Overpricing will only backfire!  The same considerations apply for home buyers, from their perspective, when they choose an offering price.

Chances are very good that your friend's listing or selling agent is better qualified to advise him or her than the best and most well-intentioned friend.  Have faith in your friend's judgment... he/she is capable of making an informed decision based on the facts of today's local market.

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Give your friend a hug and your moral support - but please don't give real estate advice (even if he/she asks your opinion).  No doubt your friend sat down with an agent, or perhaps several agents, and learned a lot about the local market (as opposed to the regional or national market reported in the media).  Together with the listing agent, your friend probably considered the pros and cons of different pricing strategies, marketing plans and commission options (sellers) or contract strategies, offering price and financing options (buyers).  After some stress and maybe even some agony, your friend made a decision based on facts and the professional recommendation of his/her agent.

Please respect his/her decisions and encourage patience.  In this market, a LOT of patience is required on the part of home sellers and buyers, and that is easier with the moral support and encouragement of friends.  Making them second-guess their decisions is not helping.

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Copyright 2008.  All rights reserved.  Margaret Woda


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Comments(87)

Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

Margaret - excellent point - I too agree with Gary's point and with Peggy that the more they talk with friends, the more confused the person  becomes. Pricing a home is an art, and pricing it too will indeed backfire, especially in today's market.

Feb 18, 2009 03:49 AM
Chris Penner
Serving Abbotsford, Chilliwack, and the Fraser Valley - Abbotsford, BC
Real Estate Consultant - Keller Williams Valley Realty

Great post Margaret. It is to true, and this is how come there are FSBO's out there mind you not as many has there have been but there still are lots of them out there. They think oh, I can sell a house no problem. I have done it 3-4 times before. I sold it in 30 days for asking price before.

Wrong. They left money on the table every time. Realtors know this and people the higher Realtors to help them now this.

So keep up the good work and continue to raise the bar and remind people why they higher Realtors to help get there home sold.

Cheers!

Feb 18, 2009 05:02 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Margaret,

Another great post. I try to not advise my friends as I want to keep our friendships.

Feb 18, 2009 05:18 AM
Kristi DeFazio
RE/MAX Advantage - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Rea lEstate 719-459-5468

Very good post!  I think friends are good for support and for listening, but not for action plans on selling unless they are experienced and knowledgeable!

Feb 18, 2009 06:09 AM
TIM MONCRIEF
Tim Monciref - Austin, TX
Over 2,000 homes sold…..

 

In the past few months things have changed considerably....as negotiations on commissions has completely stopped and sellers are now listing to us on pricing.  The question that we ask is do you want your home on the market....or in the market, as we are not taking listings just to have home ON the market.

Feb 18, 2009 06:21 AM
Scott Baker
www.eHomeReports.com Coldwell Banker Realty - Liberty Township, OH
Realtor Homes for Sale Cincinnati/Dayton Ohio

Loved the graphics and the post. It is amazing how many neighbors suddenly become Real Estate experts once their neighbor's home is on the market. I listed a condo once where the neighbor boasted that he used to be a Realtor and that the condo was listed too low by $10,000. I told my seller, the fact that he "used to be a Realtor" should tell you something. He couldn't cut it as a Realtor and you want to listen to him now??? She listened to me, after one $3,000 price reduction 21 days later, to where it should have been to start, it sold EXACTLY where the market stats said it would.

Feb 18, 2009 07:02 AM
Cherimie Crane
Cherimie Crane & Associates - Beaufort, SC

Margaret,

 I love this post! The "freindly advice" most sellers are getting from HGTV inspired Realtors in the making is frightening at best!

Feb 18, 2009 08:12 AM
Eldad Moraru
www.findbuyers.com - Chevy Chase, DC

Usually the advice from the all knowing "parents" is the hardest one to "deal" with. I had one the other day, buyers were purchasing here in MD and they were quoting advice from dad who lives in India. Fortunately they ended up choosing to take my advice as the local professional. :)

Feb 18, 2009 08:23 AM
Kelly Young
The Platinum Group Realtors - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Real Estate ~ 719-226-0126

What a great reminder and how so true.  Here's to your post being well ready by a lot of "friends"....

Feb 18, 2009 09:22 AM
Chris Olsen
Olsen Ziegler Realty - Cleveland, OH
Broker Owner Cleveland Ohio Real Estate

Hi Margaret -- Excellent advice, and it's amazing how many Monday morning quarterbacks are out there!

Feb 18, 2009 10:05 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

A timeless topic for real estate professionals, as evidenced by all your comments!  Things are changing so quickly that even three-month old "comps" may be outdated, so it's imperative to base one's pricing decision on current info.

Feb 18, 2009 10:47 AM
Donna Yates
BHGRE - Metro Brokers - Blue Ridge, GA
Blue Ridge Mountains

I wish everyone in real estate, professionals and consumer's wanna be, those thinking about real estate or has ever bought or sold or even thinking about buying or selling could read your post.  Another words, I think you have a message here that everyone needs to read.

Feb 18, 2009 11:23 AM
John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance

Great information Margaret.  Its already been featured, so I guess there is no need to flag it.  I'll just bookmark it for later use.

Feb 18, 2009 01:05 PM
Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

Margaret- Wow- your knowledge and how you share it is exceptional. Great post as always.  

Feb 18, 2009 03:15 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Margaret!  I just had to stop back by and say that your comment about setting time constraints REALLY hit home with me--I have been very lax about keeping to my schedule because every time that I have a few minutes, I'm on AR--no longer going to the gym, no longer getting pedicures, ... you get the point!  I JUST took my final CRS course and am on a 1-year coaching program and THe most important lesson that I learned this week--you MUST operate on a schedule.  I have been doing VERY little of that and I applaud you in your effort to save your health and do just that!

Congrats Margaret!  You're my hero!! ;-)

Debe in Charlotte
Feb 19, 2009 02:39 PM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

Debe, that's so sweet of you - You're right... it's a constant struggle to have the discipline to manage our time.  After one week, I've done over $1.5m of business so obviously it's working.

Thanks for ALL the comments!  No doubt this is a topic close to EVERYONE's heart! 

Feb 20, 2009 07:23 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

Debe, that's so sweet of you - You're right... it's a constant struggle to have the discipline to manage our time.  After one week, I've done over $1.5m of business so obviously it's working.

Thanks for ALL the comments!  No doubt this is a topic close to EVERYONE's heart! 

Feb 20, 2009 07:23 AM
Michael Sahlman
www.HomesForVIPs.com - Keller Williams Realty - Miami Beach, FL
e-PRO - Miami Beach Florida Luxury Homes

Great post! You really hit the nail on the head here. It is an issue that needs addressing and the way you organized your post and hit the salient points made for a great read and a bookmark. You mad ea number of points that explain why Sellers pay us the BIG BUCKS! Really enjoyed it.

Feb 20, 2009 11:32 PM
Mike Klijanowicz
Cummings & Co. Realtors - Perry Hall, MD
Associate Broker @ Cummings & Co. Realtors

Hit the nail on the head with this one too!  Isn't everybody an expert in real estate?  That was part of the problem of what got us into this mess to begin with...

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