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The rational mind can’t get it done.

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Real Estate Agent with YourStories Realty Group MA# 9517963

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There is a belief that you can think your way out of any circumstance and this is just not true. Granted your rational mind is an invaluable tool to live a life, but it is not the way you can control your destiny. A rational mind said the world was flat, man couldn’t fly, we cannot travel to the moon and back. The rational mind was not able to cure cancer, or create the internet (no matter what Al Gore has said). The rational mind allows you to gather information and store it for later use. It allows you to remember your wife’s name and where you live. It allows you to go to work everyday and finish rational tasks, but that is not really controlling circumstances, that is living with them.

Circumstances like our economy, lack of jobs, policing areas in the world that are not our own are being approached with great rational minds that just seem to not be getting the job done. I ask, so how is it going?

tas_daz_flickrI think it is time to step away from the rational mind and move into the feeling mind, the emotional mind, the part of the brain that controls your feelings and delivers your results. Take all your rational knowledge and ask yourself, “Am I getting what I want?” If your answer is no, or you are just ambivalent about this question it is time for you to stop relying on your rational approach and begin to feel your way to your success. By feeling your way to success I mean get a clear and colorful picture of what you want—today. Get that picture so vibrant in your head that each action you take today is with the understanding that you already have what you want—it is yours! At the end of the day you may or may not have attained what you wanted, but your darn sure got closer to it than you would with your rational mind scoring you against past events and predicting your future from that perspective. There are times in your life you have to turn off the rational mind and grow through your feelings and desires. Give it a try today and let me know how you are doing? I will do the same.

 

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Larry Lawfer, Realtor®YourStories Realty, It's all about you,

Larry Lawfer

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Leslie Ebersole
Swanepoel T3 Group - Saint Charles, IL
I help brokers build businesses they love.

My feeling mind wants to take a nap and avoid real estate today, but my rational mind is pushing me out the door to go see a client. I guess I'd be happier if I got the two aligned.

Aug 04, 2010 03:50 AM
Larry Lawfer
YourStories Realty Group - Newton, MA
"I listen for a living." It's all about you.

Leslie that is good.  You realize you are vibrating in two separate ways.  Go with your rational mind until after the meeting, but spend some time with your feeling mind later.  Why do you want to take a nap?  Why do you want to avoid?  In those questions you will find answers that will align both parts of your self.  Thanks for the comment and good luck at your meeting.

Aug 04, 2010 03:58 AM
Malcolm Johnston
Century 21 Lanthorn Real Estate LTD., Trenton, Ontario - Trenton, ON
Trenton Real Estate

I guess we all have a little Captain Kirk and Commander Spock inside our brains fighting for control of our minds. Commander Spock always figured out the coordinates very precisely, but it was Captain Kirk who always got the girls.

Aug 04, 2010 08:29 AM
Janet Sebile
Coldwell Banker Apex, Realtors - Rowlett, TX

Ration, reality, is constantly changing.  I think it's very important to really know yourself and what you want.  

Aug 04, 2010 02:43 PM
Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

Good morning Larry,   This is going to be a great day for growth.  Our dreams are becoming reality to day! :)

Aug 05, 2010 01:55 AM
David Monsour
Keller Williams Keystone Realty - Gettysburg, PA
ABR - www.realty-insights.com

Good stuff as always Larry.  I wonder where you get these topics sometimes but they always seem to come together to make complete sense.

Aug 05, 2010 03:06 AM
Larry Lawfer
YourStories Realty Group - Newton, MA
"I listen for a living." It's all about you.

Good morning to your today Ricki, and yes, let's kick it good today.

Thanks David,  My blog today over on TruthandService.com is about More Blog ideas. You will see it here tomorrow.

Aug 05, 2010 03:16 AM
Mike Hendren
Mike Hendren Photography - Cloudcroft, NM

Excellent post, Larry - well thought out and clearly written.  It really hits home with me due to some circumstances that I just can't get my "rational mind" around.  So, it's time to get back to basics and feel / see my way to the goals I'm seeking.

I think this one is definitely worth a "reblog".

Thanks,

Mike

Aug 08, 2010 02:30 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Larry, Mike's reblog brought me here, great post indeed. I know the premise of creating my own reality, unfortunatly have of late created a not so good one. I need to focus and put the good stuff back in my life!

Aug 08, 2010 03:42 AM
Larry Lawfer
YourStories Realty Group - Newton, MA
"I listen for a living." It's all about you.

Thanks to both Andrea and Mike, I will visit your blogs today to see what you are up to.  I know that what we think is not so much what we feel, and it is what we feel that dictates our actions.  We all know our actions dictate our results.  So lets get to focusing our thoughts on what we want and feeling good about it.

Aug 08, 2010 06:19 AM