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9/11 Ten Years Later- Let Us Pledge to Not Forget

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9/11 Ten Years Later- Let Us Pledge to Not Forget

US FlagI have been thinking about writing this post for a year now.  Thinking and dreading it.  I was not in New York, DC or Shanksville PA that day, nor did I have a personal connection with anyone who perished ,  And yet I knew that I would need to write something.. not for points, not for Google or SEO... but for me.  I needed to allow my mind and feelings to go where it did not want to go.  

 The first line in my journal that day was "A day that started out normally, turned out to be one we will always remember."  Like many others, I had friends stranded in cities across the country because flights had been halted and all planes ordered to land. My husband was supposed to have flown to Houston this day, but the trip had been rescheduled.  I could not take my eyes from the news, and in fact stayed up watching until I could no longer remain awake.   Our world... everyone's...was forever changed. 

 For days,I had a permanent lump in my throat .  I thought of what might have been.  The senselessness of the acts were overwhelming... the heroic stories I heard caused my heart to swell with pride ... and the tragic tales of all of the people whose lives were cut short brought me to a state that my husband had never seen.  I am the positive one in my family... I am the one with the smile on my face... but it was gone those first few days. 

 Later when we all learned that many of the hijackers had lived here in Delray Beach and Firefightersour surrounding areas while preparing for that fateful day, anger set in. One of the apartment complexes where they lived was only 5 minutes from my home.  They used our public library and walked along Atlantic Avenue and ate in our restaurants.  

 I went through the Kubler-Ross 5 Stages of Grief all in 5 days, except the 5th step...Acceptance...that was the hardest to take. 

Yet, for this day and the deaths of those who perished to have any meaning whatsoever, we must never forget September 11, 2001. Not just what happened or where we were, but remember how we came together as a country... came together as proud Americans. 

  I remember reading of the shoe store owner who opened his store and handed out tennis shoes to the ladies who were trying to make their way from the area on foot and had only high heels to walk in. 

 I remember being uplifted with a feeling of pride when I saw members of Congress on the steps at Capitol Hill spontaneously begin to sing "God Bless America".  

 And I will never forget the scene of citizens running from the wall of eerie smoke as the Towers came down.  There was not the chaotic panic you see in movies... no...people ran but they ran together.  

 We came together as a nation.

  Ten years later we are slowly recovering from an unheard of economic crisis.... divided by an unwillingness to compromise by many and crippled by a political tug-of-war in which common sense has lost all meaning. 

 So on this, the Tenth Anniversary of 9/11, I ask you to think about those horrific days but also remember how we came together as a Nation of ONE.

 

 

 

 

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Kathy Streib
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Comments(30)

Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Kathy, the solidarity of the country was palpable - I know we all feel loss but it is even more tragic that we have in many ways, fallen apart as a country since that day.  How to positively recapture the solidarity is the challenge.

Sep 11, 2011 02:30 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

What a lovely post written from your heart BARFF.............that day changed our lives forever and brought us together as a nation.  It's a day that none of us will ever forget, nor should we..............

Sep 11, 2011 02:55 AM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Associates - San Antonio, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

Thank you for writing this Kathy.  I am not sure why this 10 year anniversary seems to be more painful than any other, (except for the day it happened).  I have been grieving a lot the last few days.  It seems to me that a lot of people are having a really hard time for this one.  We lost a lot that day as a country...it was almost like we lost our child like innocence and we grew up as a country that day.  

Sep 11, 2011 03:09 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks so much for writing this post, Kathy.

"With just a small act of service, or a simple act of kindness towards others, you can both honor those we lost and those who serve us still, and help us recapture the spirit of generosity and compassion that followed 9/11." - Barack Obama  

 Life is good!

Sep 11, 2011 03:12 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Kathy..

We all changed that day. We were taken into a different, less pleasant world.

 

Featured in the Group "Whacked!!!"

Sep 11, 2011 04:04 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Your thoughts were so beautifully expressed here Kathy... I had a lump in my throat and a pain in my heart that day too, as well as right now while reading your post.  It's amazing how our feelings can jump off a page and become so real, even 10 years later.  Thank you for penning this post and for bringing to life the pain, agony and loss we felt as a Nation.  We'll never forget those beautiful souls who lost their lives that day.

Sep 11, 2011 06:08 AM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Kathy - There have been some beautiful tributes today....poems, pictures from that horrible day, tours of the Memorial.  Yours is beautiful in the way it portrays the grief that many of us still feel for the loss of innocents and innocence. 

Thank you.

Sep 11, 2011 07:17 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Congratulations on the Feature, my friend.  (and I knew because of the Called Shot ;) ) . . . you captured the heart of it.

Sep 11, 2011 08:07 AM
Beth Lester
Beth Lester Designs - Torrance, CA
Home Staging & Interior Decorating

Beautifully said, Kathy.  I'm thinking of our friend who lost his dad in the Pentagon.   So much waste....evil met by much goodness.

Sep 11, 2011 09:48 AM
Nancy Conner
Olympia, WA
Olympia/Thurston County WA
Kathy this is beautifully said. This ten year anniversary that seems to be hitting many of us unexpectedly hard, but I am hopeful we can use these memories to recommit to a renewed sense of unity and compassion.
Sep 11, 2011 10:17 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

I will never forget when that happened, I was in the classroom and we were having a history lesson when the media specialist rushed in and told me to turn on the tv............it was unbelievable!

Sep 11, 2011 10:27 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Kathy, I was at work when it happened and the first person who called in that something had happened was a collegue.  At first, we thought, it was an accident, but just minutes later we knew that wasn't so.  We had a TV in our conference room at the time for presentations and we hooked it up to our internet connection so we could watch the events as they unfolded.

Sep 11, 2011 01:19 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Barbara- I feel as you do.  I am always uplifted when I hear of the many stories of survival and the acts of kindess that were and continue to be shown. 

Hi Josh- it has been a long day of watching the various Memorial observances.  

Gary- I think you said something important.. and that is that we grew up a little.  Let's hope we continue to grow., 

Toni- I really was dreading this and I know what you mean about just not being able to. 

Marco- all of us were impacted, not only here but in other countries as well.  

Carol- you're not alone.  This has been in my head for a while but almost decided not to write. 

Mimi- thank goodness she was ok.  I can't imagine what you were going through. 

Kristine- I know what you mean.  We almost went to one but I wanted to stay close to home. 

Joanna- I agree.  We are a nation built on dissension but always with one common goal in mind. 

BARFF- thank you and you know how I felt about your post.  You were here guardian angel.

Brenda- I know what you mean about our feeling it more than in years past.  I think part of it is because of the significance of it being a "milestone" and because they unveiled the different memorials. And, I think it nudges us into the next step in this journey.

Roy- what a perfect flower for this day. 

Richard- I keep thinking of Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz when she realizes they're not in Kansas anymore.  Our innocence was definetly lost.,  Thank you for the "Whacked" Feature.

Mel- your words mean a lot.. Thank you.

Suzanne- thank you so much.  Even today, hearing from the children who have grown up without their fathers or mothers... it just brings it all back. 

Mimi- thank you my very dear friend. 

Beth- oh how very sad.  There are so very many stories and all of them are so important, and should be, to all of us. 

Wendy- I like what you said.." recommit to a renewed sense of unit and compassion."  We need to do just that.. every day. 

Barbara-Jo- that must have been so frightening... trying to control your emotion and try to take everything in at once. 

Sep 11, 2011 01:34 PM
Anna Dovger
Add Value Home Staging LLC, 281-704-6607 - The Woodlands, TX
Home Staging -The Woodlands, TX

Kathy, thank you for this beautifully written post. This day is in every one's heart

Sep 11, 2011 01:38 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Silvia- I think we were all glued to those sets for days.  I know I could not tear myself away. 

Anna- Thank you.  I hope we can keep this day in our hearts and pass that memory on. 

Sep 11, 2011 03:44 PM
Katrina Cole
The Jonathan Arnold Team of Inlanta Mortgage - East Grand Rapids, MI
Inlanta Mortgage, Business Development Manager

Thank you for taking to time to write such a heartfelt post.  This is a day we all will remember exactly where we were when it happened and the images that are etched in out minds forever.

Sep 11, 2011 04:56 PM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Kathy--your post is very moving and so well written.  My sister and her husband lived and worked not far from Ground Zero.  I could not reach either of them for 8 hours.  The not knowing was so nerve-wracking.  I remember being glued to the TV for days.  My husband literally had to come in and drag me away from it.  I think I was in such shock that something like that could happen.  In October we flew to NYC to visit my sister and visited Ground Zero.  You could not be anywhere near that site without bursting into tears and seeing everyone else in the same state.  I will never forget that day. 

Sep 11, 2011 05:05 PM
Janice Ankrett
Burlington, ON
Staging Professional

Kathy, I think it hit me harder yesterday than when it happened. It was all so surreal back then. I feel for the people still suffering because of that day. Good post.

Sep 12, 2011 01:51 PM
Mike and Adie Realtors
(909) 476-9600 www.WeLoveMorenoValley.com - Moreno Valley, CA
Realty Masters & Associates

Hi Kathy,

Great post. The men and women of this fine country that put their life on the line and those who lost there lives will never be forgotten.

GOD Bless America

Sep 15, 2011 06:01 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Van Dyk Mortgage- thank you for stopping by.  I think that Sunday was hard for so many and it's been hard for most everyone to express their words. 

Janet- I hope to go to NY to see the memorial some day.  I can't imagine how that anxious you must have been that day.. not hearing from your sister and her husband.. and being so far away.  I'm glad you go to visit NY with your sister. 

Janice- what was hard was re-living everything with all of the programs around that day.  We have to watch them though so we won't forget. 

Mike- When I think of the first resonders.. the firemen and women and policemen who risked their lives for us, I am heartsick. 

Sep 15, 2011 06:19 AM