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Buyers: We're the Tie That Binds But We Don't Know it All

By
Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty

THE AMBIGOUS RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN BUYER/AGENT AND BUYER/LENDER
As real estate agents and brokers, we carry a lot of weight on our shoulders.   This is particularly true when we work with buyers and we finally have a contract in place and begin the process of navigating through to closing.  To the buyer, the responsibility of the lender and the responsibility of the real estate agent can be quite confusing to say the least.  Of course, as agents, we are the tie that binds in a manner of speaking, but we should be careful to let others be held accountable for their areas of expertise.

ASK THOSE WHO KNOW BEST
Buyers will look to us to have all of the answers and as the source of primary contact for questions.  I don't have a problem with that at all.  But I do try to make my position clear at the onset of the buyer/agent relationship and make it clear who will be the best source of information.  As a matter of fact, I put it in writing and in brief, it goes something like this:

While we can give very general information with regard to the mortgage process and the loan itself, the following aspects can best be addressed by your lender or mortgage broker:

What will my interest rate be?
What does closing cost emcompass?
How do I lock in my interest rate or at what point will it be locked in?
Can I get a Good Faith Estimate?
Do I get a copy of the appraisal?
How much will my mortgage payment be?
Why do I have to keep providing the same information over and over again to the lender?
How much money will I need to bring to closing?
Who do I give the money for the appraisal?
When can we close? (as in the lender has to give the clear to close first)
How long does loan approval take?
What documents will I need to qualify for a mortgage loan?

YOUR RESPONSIBILTIY TO YOUR LENDER
If your mortgage lender/broker needs documents from you, then the lender/broker should be requesting these documents from you directly and not via your agent.  Because all request should be met in a timely, it helps to have direct contact with the lender if you have questions.  It's okay for the lender to keep us in the loop (with regard to their request), but ultimately the lender/broker should establish clear guidelines as to what their role is in the entire process and outline what to expect from them.

It is impossible for me to be more informed than the lender or mortgage broker with regard to mortgages and the mortgage process.  However, it is part of my responsibility to ensure that the process is going smoothly.

As a buyer you should know what to expect and from whom to expect it.  Although we may like to think that we have all the answers, we really don't.  We are hear to guide you through the homebuying process and that process includes pointing you in the right direction.  Don't get me wrong, we love when you ask questions and please don't stop, but know that there are many parties in a real estate transaction, and we'll see to it that all of your questions are answered and answered by those who are experts in their fields.

 

Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Excellent, Charita.  I love to work with the mortgage lender throughout the escrow process so that we are a team, each doing our best to get the buyer to the ultimate goal, a smooth clean and successful purchase.

Feb 17, 2010 02:17 AM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

As the agent, broker you are  suppose to have all the answers about the property, seller's plans to move, what is going with the place in the sale, etc. You deal with real estate day in and out. It is your bread winner. And if you don't know the property, inside and out, you get the anwers to questions asked as the the lead reindeer in the real estate operation. A salesman/woman knows the product he/she is selling right? I don't know should not be three words you use very often and when you do, you get right back with the answer. You even better call before the question is asked, to stay ahead of the curve.  When a buyer gets in to a bank, you are hopefully part of the process going in, know the bank and program the buyer is ideally suited for after like with a seller during a listing, listening, writing it down, staying on top of the real estate movie. Not back out in the lobby again talking or grabbing another bag of popcorn, getting candy and missing out the good, bad and the ugly of the movie being shown to your empty seat.

Feb 17, 2010 02:25 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Hi Jane.  A smooth process is the ultimate goal and it does takes a team effort and fortunately I've worked with lenders who appreciate that I direct appropriate questions to them rather than trying to fully address them myself.  It makes everyone's life a little simpler.

Feb 17, 2010 02:28 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Andrew that's quite a powerful response.  I probably should have included in my post, my responsibility with regard to the "property" which your response mostly addresses.  One of the things that really irks me is when I come across a mortgage broker or lender that tries to do my job.  For example, I send them a contract and they try to sell my buyer another house.  I think they appreciate it when I make every effort to let them do their job.  It's called mutual respect. 

I hope that you and I are actually on the same page here, because I was in no way implying that I shuck my responsibility and didn't keep abreast of the many aspects of the real estate transaction.

Also, admitting that I don't know something is one of the things that I consider to be my strengths and I take pride in that.  I also take pride in finding answers to questions for which I don't know the answer.

All responses are important to me and yours is as well and I hope I did not misinterpret it.

Feb 17, 2010 02:43 AM