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Jingle Bells, Jingle All The Way!

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Managing Real Estate Broker with Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions"

Christmas is a time of celebration no matter how difficult the economy, or personal issues we face.

I have two favorite holidays, Thanksgiving and Christmas.  Most know that I don't care about the commercialization of the holidays.  I was really unhappy about stores opening at 3 am just to beat another store to the buyers wallet!

I reflect during the holidays.  I reflect on those that have passed before me.  I reflect on those that had made my year special.  I look forward to seeing family members.

I look forward to private times with my wife.Merry Christmas From Flexit Realty www.GaryLWhite.com

I think about those that can not make ends meet.  My wife and I talked about an adopt-a-family program today.

So many families are going to be short this year.  Many are going to lose their unemployment benefits at the wrong time.

We as one family can not make a difference for all those affected but we may be able to make a difference to a single family that thinks there is no way they can have a Christmas dinner or presents.

We have a wish-list column in our local newspaper.  I was taken back by what people have the brass to ask for as part of their wish.

A new car, a bedroom outfit, a new dining room set, a house full of carpet.  One person even asked for a new home.  I know if you don't ask you don't get but with all the people in need it seems over the top to me.

We just paid for a hockey team membership for someone else's child.  The boy is a good hockey player but would not have played the sport he loves without help this year.  Parents are laid off and could not afford the cost.  We donated anonymously and the family has asked everyone to find out who could have done this.  They don't know us but we know the coach socially.  The boy is not a starter but is a great kid according to the coach. 

The pleasure is the smiles.  The gifts are gifts.  Helping make a surprise that changes what seemed impossible...we do that every day in real estate.  The thing we don't do enough of, change lives by example.

Have a Happy Holiday season.  Change a life this season...lead by example.

Thanks for stopping by.  www.GaryLWhite.com

James Harner
Considering Selling Your Home? Call 610-310-7646 first - Royersford, PA
James Harner Group - Philadelphia PA Real Estate

Great way to spend your holidays, Gary! Adopting a family for Christmas is a great way to show what the season is all about. Have a great and meaningful holidays!

Dec 06, 2010 12:44 PM
Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

Hi Gary,  I love your attitude and your actions.  Good for you and your wife for being such a great example and truly making a difference in people's lives!

Dec 06, 2010 01:23 PM
John Puplava
ABC Home Inspections,L.L.C. - Prescott, AZ
ABC Home Inspections,L.L.C.

Gary--You have a great attitude with the Holidays...I love how you and your wife is making difference in people lives...Thank you for sharing

Dec 06, 2010 02:00 PM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

Gary, I'm with Ricki!  I was also appalled at the stores opening so early. I TOTALLY amazed me that people would camp in line on Thanksgiving day for stuff.  Personally I would much prefer spending the time with my family; stuff is just stuff.  It was thrilling to spend another Thanksgiving with our son.

Dec 06, 2010 03:10 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!

Hi James, it is very difficult to make a choice on who to help with so many needing and deserving families.  The approach is a delicate issue.  Many feel they should not accept charity, if your efforts are positioned as a personal gift it makes the gesture acceptable.  Thanks for your comments James. 

Dec 06, 2010 10:04 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!

Ricki, our goal was to focus efforts where we could make a difference, hoping others that are able would follow our lead.  Thanks for the nice comments Ricki.

Dec 06, 2010 10:06 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!

Hi John,  making a difference one family at a time is something we all can do no matter how little or large the effort,  it all counts.  Thanks for your comments John.  Have a Great Holiday Season.

Dec 06, 2010 10:12 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!

Hi Marchel, hope all is well with you and your family.  How many tours of duty has your son done now?  If I remember your daughter also flys International flights.  Hopefully you will be able to spend this Christmas with them as well.  Thanks for you comments Marchel...Have a Wonder Holiday Season.

Dec 06, 2010 10:22 PM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Gary - You are right on target. There are folks who are in need and those of us who can help, even if modestly, can bring a smile to anothers face. And isn't that what is it all about? Merry Xmas!

Dec 07, 2010 01:01 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

GARY, Our son did two tours of Iraq.  He got out of the Army a year ago June and is now a Sophomore at Texas A&M in Ocean Engineering. He mainly commutes as he has a steady girlfriend here in Spring. What a joy it is to have him home for all the holidays.

Dec 07, 2010 01:23 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!

Hi Gary, Happy Holidays to you and your family.  I was in Melbourne last month to see friends and race my sailboat up at Eutis.  It is about giving when we have so much.  Thanks for the comments Gary.

Dec 08, 2010 01:22 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate Services You can Trust!

Hi Marchel, Happy Days...it isn't easy for people like your son.  Many civilians will not know how to relate to a combat veteran.  I am thrilled he is already in school and moving on.  Thanks for the comments Marchel and tell him Thank YOU from a Vietnam Combat Vet.

Dec 08, 2010 01:30 PM