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I Need Google + Circles In My Real Life to Help Me Know Who's Who and How I Know Them!

Reblogger Lenn Harley
Real Estate Agent with Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate 303829;0225082372

WE DO HAVE GOOGLE + CIRCLES IN OUR REAL LIVES.

They are known as "Brain Imprints".

Brain imprints are what help me become a champion skeet and trap shooter.   It's the old and accepted theory that "Practice Makes Perfect".   Or, at least better and better, depending on how intense the practice.  Back in the days when I competed, I was at the range 4-5 days a week.  Why?  Practice, practice, practice.  Fact is, many of us get a real "RUSH" when doing something well.  Makes us want to get better and better.  

Real estate practice or staging is the same.  While we do learn from our mistakes when we make one, we also experience the "rush" of success when we have a good sale, or outcome or receive a check for our services.  I always say, "Thank You" to the listing agent and seller at settlement. 

Then, my commission check is deposited into my bank account. AND. . .
The experience of that transaction is deposited in my "experience account" as little brain imprints!!

How does one learn??  By repetition. 
How does one become better??  By more repetition and practice, practice, practice.

I recall that this, Brain Imprints, was one of the topics for one of my very first ActiveRain blog posts. 

SEE:  EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT REAL ESTATE PRACTICE I LEARNED FROM B.F. SKINNER

IT'S AS SIMPLE AS LEARNING TO OPEN THE FRONT DOOR.
I observed many years ago that new agents who took control of their real estate practice early on were more likely to succeed and sell a lot of real estate.  One of the advantages these new agents had over others was that they were motivated to learn the skills needed on a daily basis such as:

Making appointments with consumers
Making appointments to show
Finding the homes to show
Opening the front door of homes

Posted January 24, 2007. 

There has been some discussion of late on ActiveRain posts about "training vs. experience".    I've been challenged by members who dispute my reliance on experience.  Fact is, training gives one a foundation with which to practice what they have learned.  However, only experience will develop those little BRAIN IMPRINTS that make any task easier and more efficient.

Courtesy, Lenn Harley, Broker, Homefinders.com, 800-711-7988.

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Original content by Kathy Streib

I need Google+ Circles in My Real Life to Help Me Know Who's Who and How I Know Them!

Two PeopleHaving lived in different cities I'm always running into people that I think I know.  Problem is I'm never sure if I know them from living here in Delray Beach; my hometown of Houston or from a few other cities I've lived in.  Or... maybe I don't really know them at all! And do I know them socially or from my work.  

So as not to offend anyone, I make it a practice  to always smile and say "Hello" as if they're a long lost friend.   To some they may be wondering the same thing when they see me... or they may just think I'm some nut case that says hello to everyone. 

Growing up in Houston, I had my family and everyone I knew through them... then people I knew from grade school .... then college friends.  And, oh yes, there were my social group of friends; you know.. the ones you partied with, dated, went to movies, etc.  Then graduate and you have to add another group of people you know... your work group.  

You see someone and quickly your mind starts clicking like a computer... images begin to pop up in your head as you try to figure out if (1) you really do know them and (2) how you know them.   

 Wouldn't it be nice if we had a "Google + Circles" in our head.  We could quickly sort through to find out who someone is.  Do I want to tell this person some information or are they in the group that doesn't get my juicy tidbit.

Circles 

Are you using your Circles?  And, if you are.... how do you like them???

Want to be in one of My Circles??  Or Want Circles of Your own??

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Comments(13)

Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

thanks Lenn, Kathy always has great things to share...good re-blog...i do agree with you that unless you have the experience in some way the imprint is not THERE!

Aug 25, 2011 02:32 AM
Yvonne Van Camp REALTOR
To Buy and Sell Real Estate, see me at Southwest Missouri Realty - Springfield, MO
"Home"work, I have the Answers!

No doubt about it, no two transactions are the same.

 

Aug 25, 2011 02:33 AM
Laura Gray
RE/MAX Realty Group - Gaithersburg, MD

Lenn

No matter how much "knowledge" someone has , experience is always the best teacher in any endeavor

Aug 25, 2011 02:35 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Ginny.  Thanks.  We begin with training and then put it to work.

Yvonne.  That's for sure and I learn from each one.

Laura.  I agree completely.

Aug 25, 2011 03:07 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Right on the money Lenn.  Practice and then execution will always be the keys to success.

Aug 25, 2011 03:24 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Yes, you need education + practice.  In college, I majored in Psych, specializing in behaviorism and cognition.  Love BF Skinner.  What you're talking about is a "learned behavior."  And, you must learn by doing.

Aug 25, 2011 04:01 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Paula. Indeed.  New agents are well off to learn this early on.

Debbie.  Folks would be surprised at the skills that can be "learned".   However, it takes motivation. 

Aug 25, 2011 04:07 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Changing a brain imprint once it's there is so hard Lenn. There is a man I know and everytime I see him I want to call him Harley and that isn't even close, I struggle every single time to come up with his real name!

Aug 25, 2011 04:18 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Wanda.  Oh!  Names are hard.  That's pure memory.  I'm lost with names.  However, skill building is something I can do.

 

Aug 25, 2011 05:09 AM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired
Good Morning Lenn, As I was reading your post you made such valid points, I wasn't expecting this to be a reblog ,:-). Your part of the post would stand very well on it's own. BTW, the ones that were complaining about experience likely din't have any, LOL.
Aug 25, 2011 05:14 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

William.  I thought of making it a post, but thought I'd give Kathy some "juice".   She's a good blogger and takes my rants about staging with a lot of class. 

I've posted many times about experience vs. training and am very serious when I say experience trumps training.  My gauge of an agent's experience is how many transactions have they closed. 

Of course, some will always give an example of the agent with 35 years in the business who is terrible.  All I can say to that is one anecdote doesn't mean diddly.

Aug 25, 2011 05:24 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Lenn- many thanks for reblogging.  I think a lot of what we think we don't remember is stuff we didn't take the time to remember or commit to memory.  I'm bad with names but pretty good at faces and a person's "story".

Aug 25, 2011 06:41 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Kathy.  Names are totally lost on me. 

Sep 02, 2011 11:45 PM