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Our son has grown up so fast.....Midnight Mass

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 225179

I just wanted to post this and I hope my words do justice.  We have made the tradition the last seven years to make the Mass our youngest (now 18) was singing.  I have written before of the blessing that the Lord has given Kevin, his uplifting vocal gift.  He works very hard at his singing and I have the depleted bank account to prove this, and worth every penny.

The past 6 years he has been part of the wonderful Youth Group Band (my guess ages 14 through 19) at St. Joseph's Church in Downingtown.  To watch him grow up in the band, as well as all the other children has been a great pleasure in our life.  The energy and spiritual uplifting sound emenating from that group moves all who attend.  As Kev has grown he has taken on a larger role in the group, my ability to keep a dry eye has diminished......yes I am a sober when I hear his voice singing God 's praises.  Last year his solo was a time that I felt I could never be prouder of him.....I was wrong.

While the Youth Group allowed me the opportunity to see the changes he had, not just in his singing abilities, he has become a very devote spiritual person, very professional in his appearance and such a courtious young adult.....the number of people who have approached his mother and I with wonderful comments again make me hold back the tears of satisfaction that we have been able to raise such a child. 

This year at midnight Mass Kev chose to be part of the Adult choir and worked very hard over the last few weeks to be ready for part of the choir.  His part as it came to be was to Cantor the Mass....what an honor.  He made such a presence on the Alter, this little boy from the Youth Group has been become very quickly a man. 

As it must seem very evident, and hopefully my words have done justice, I am very proud and honored to have Kevin as my son.......Dear Lord keep him safe and healthy, watch over him as he moves on to college next year and finally keep him in Your light as he journeys through life.

Love,

Dad

Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate
Dan, thanks for sharing this beautiful update on your son. God Bless!
Dec 25, 2007 01:47 AM
Rosario Lewis
DDR Realty - Newburgh, NY
GRI, SRES - DDR Realty - Orange County, NY
Our children are are greatest blessings. Joy of the season to you and yours.
Dec 25, 2007 01:51 AM
Charlie Ragonesi
AllMountainRealty.com - Big Canoe, GA
Homes - Big Canoe, Jasper, North Georgia Pros
Mine is now 22. How did this happen ! I was there . Did I miss something? Not really thankfully. He is great at 22 . He was great at 2. Merry Christmas. Yes they do grow quickly
Dec 25, 2007 02:06 AM
Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island
DAN - This was a beautiful tribute to your son and your relationship.  I'm sure that most parents can relate to your feelings.  Thank you for sharing this story.  You picked the perfect day to do so.  I hope that you all have a very Merry Christmas and a happy and healthy new year.
Dec 25, 2007 06:00 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
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Missy,

I am very fortunate....and blessed.  Thank you for your continued support of my blog.

Dec 26, 2007 03:26 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Rosario,

I hope that you and yours have the best the holidays have to offer.

Dec 26, 2007 03:27 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
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Charlie,

Yes they do grow up fast.  When they stick to a certain program it is just amazing to see them change their roles as they mature....all my best to you and your family.

Dec 26, 2007 03:29 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Adam,

Family is the key to success here on earth......they know you for what you are and accept it.....those outside of the family could never understand most of what make us tick.

Dec 26, 2007 03:31 AM
Jan Evett
The Premier Property Group LLC - Rosemary Beach, FL
Broker Associate, 20 years+ in real estate

Hi Dan,

I just had to come over to visit your blog after the nice comment you made on mine.  Nice post here... would love to see some photos of this wonderful young man.  I left a comment for you over on my post, and it is my New Year's gift to you... that all your wishes come true.  God bless in you in the New Year.

Dec 26, 2007 06:45 AM
Matthew Rosov
Amerisave Mortgage Corporation - Laurel, MD
Certified Mortgage Planning Specialist
The joys of fatherhood - thanks for sharing, Dan.
Dec 27, 2007 02:33 AM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

To the proud dad, Dan, congratulations to your son for all of his musical accomplishments.  It sounds like the Lord has really blessed your son with talent and discipline. 

Your write up is a very nice tribute to him.   I too have been blessed with wonderful sons, one which will be going to college next year also.  It is hard to believe how fast they have grown up.   May God bless you and in your family! 

Dec 29, 2007 09:16 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation
I am so glad you commented on my post this morning - that's how I found you - because I love all the posts of yours that I have read.  I decided to comment on this one because I have a singing daughter, and I can certainly identify with the feelings you experience when your son performs.  Unfortunately, our little girl now has a career unrelated to music, she's too busy to perform in community theater any more, and we have to settle for listening to old tapes and videos.  Maybe some day...
Jan 02, 2008 01:55 AM
Tom Plant
WINEormous.com - Murrieta, CA
Dan - Your pride in your son shows through in every word. You've done a wonderful job raising this young man.
Jan 03, 2008 12:00 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Jan,

Thank you for your comments....I will post soon with some photos....

Jan 03, 2008 02:09 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Matt,

Through all the good and bad times.....I would not change one day of being a Dad.

Jan 03, 2008 02:10 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Sondra,

They do grow up fast and the world around them scares us parents much more than these young people.

All my best to you and your family in 2008 and beyond.

Jan 03, 2008 02:13 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Margaret,

Kev too has said that music (despite many hours and dollars of training) will be a minor in college.....he wants to teach and study to become a Youth Minister.....so right now the singing is at most third on the list....I hope and pray that he stays with it.

Jan 03, 2008 02:16 AM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Tom,

Thank you for your kind words....he has made us proud and I hope for his continued growth in his manhood and his spiritual growth.

Jan 03, 2008 02:18 AM
Roberta LaRocca
Simply Vegas Real Estate - Las Vegas, NV
REALTOR®, Broker, Salesperson, NV. Lic BS.507
Dan, This is very touching.  You are obviously very proud of your son and you have every reason to be proud.  You have done a great job and so has your son!  Congratulations.
Jan 05, 2008 04:07 PM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Roberta,

Thank you for your kind words....I am proud and hope Kev has all that is good in life.....he works hard at everything he does.

Jan 13, 2008 08:18 AM