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Do You Throw Them or Pass them By?

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

 

 

Everyday we're given choices where we base the decision on whether it will really make a difference. How often to you find yourself saying, "it's not job to do that!"? Picking up the trash instead of walking by. Recycling instead of trashing, turning off the light, conserving water usage, walking instead of driving,etc. Character is as important when we're alone as when we're in public. What are private habits are, reflect in our public persona. Pending your spirituality, actually "someOne" is always watching.

 

Opportunities to make a difference are like the starfish in this story...

 


An old man had a habit of early morning walks on the beach. One day, after a storm, he saw a human figure in the distance moving like a dancer. As he came closer he saw that it was a young woman and she was not dancing but was reaching down to the sand, picking up a starfish and very gently throwing them into the ocean.

"Young lady," he asked, "Why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?"
"The sun is up, and the tide is going out, and if I do not throw them in they will die."
"But young lady, do you not realize that there are miles and miles of beach and starfish all along it? You cannot possibly make a difference."

 

The young woman listened politely, paused and then bent down, picked up another starfish and threw it into the sea, past the breaking waves, saying, "It made a difference for that one."

 

The old man looked at the young woman inquisitively and thought about what she had done. Inspired, he joined her in throwing starfish back into the sea. Soon others joined, and all the starfish were saved.

Each and every day we make a difference... be it in the lives of your family, the lives of your buyers and sellers or in the life of a stranger...Spring has arrived and brings an awakening for fresh new life.

Will you be a Star Thrower? ~ Author Unknown

 

 

It's like George Bailey learned in the classic film "It's A Wonderful Life", we never know the full reach and affect of our love, influence, our words, our kindness or our negativity & neglect. It's a choice and it's cumlative. You are either making deposits into or withdrawls from relationships; I hope to end with a big balance!

 

 

 

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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Thomas- you're right, each day we are presented with choices.  When we take our morning walk along the beach, I am so proud of my husband because he will go over and pick up a beer can or trash that someone else has discarded.   The starfish story is one of my favorites. 

May 07, 2013 02:51 AM
Frank Harper
Idaho Family Real Estate - Boise, ID
Broker/Owner, Realtor, GRI, SFR.

I agree everyday we are faced with decisions and choices that can great effect how are day will be. We have to remember that we have the choice to decide to make it a better day, a better world. It all starts with looking within ourselves and making the right choice, the good choice!

May 07, 2013 03:16 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Kathy & Frank, thanks for "choosing"  to drop by for the latest read on my blog. I appreciate your comments. Design a great day of choices!

May 08, 2013 12:26 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

One of my favorite movies, "It's a Wonderful Life". I just love stories with a purpose, and the starfish story is another good one I had not heard yet. I hope someone thinks I am making deposits and helping other people.

Aug 30, 2013 08:51 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I like to think I'm a thrower and I do my part. Sometimes I don't think "my part" makes enough of a difference and it's discouraging.  Example, when I go out to my mailbox I pick up trash passers by have dropped and I do this daily and they keep throwing it out.  Vicious cycle.  But yeah, I do my part... I'm a thrower of star fish.

Aug 02, 2014 02:17 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Tammy, true character doesn't require an audience. But, it's required daily of us, so keep doing the right thing; someone is always watching and the daily practice helps strengthen who you are. We all like "strokes" but sometimes our good deeds go unnoticed by all but ourselves...and that has to be OK with ourselves with true character. I will say it though: "Thank you for picking up the trash, because Mother Nature appreciates it at the very least"! Thank you for reading and keep doing your best; give it out in slices, it comes back in loaves.

Aug 02, 2014 02:23 AM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

If we all do our part in the throwing of starfish, collectively we make a greater difference Thomas.

Aug 02, 2014 02:46 AM
Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

This was a wonderful story and am glad I took the time to read it.  Very inspiring.

Aug 02, 2014 12:45 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Thank you for stopping by folks, neat to see readers several months after the original post! Thanks for re-vitalizing this post from May 7, 2013!

Aug 02, 2014 01:10 PM