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Last Night I Lost Sleep Over A $100 Bill

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KD Realty - 408.972.1822 CA DRE#01366594

Last Night I Lost Sleep Over A $100 Bill

At the end of a long day I stopped at a local restaurant to get dinner to go.

Prior to entering the restaurant, I opened my wallet and counted my money.  I counted four $20 bills, one $10 bill, and several $1.00 bills.  While it is not uncommon for me to carry $100 bills in my wallet, I typically do not. I certainly did not have a $100 bill in my wallet last night.

I placed my order and handed the cashier a $20 bill. She held it up into the light checking for counterfeit money. I jokingly said "fresh off the press."

The total for my order was $9.45.  She handed me back $90.55.

I said to her "I suggest you check the bill I gave you - I gave you a $20.00 bill."

She said:  "No you didn't. You gave me a $100 bill. Did you think I was just being generous?"

$100 billActually, no, I think you may have made a mistake. I did not enter the restaurant with a $100 bill. She insisted that I did and never once re-checked the bottom drawer where $100 bills are stored.

It bugged me driving home. I bugged me while I was eating dinner. It bugged me while I was blogging and commenting last night. It bugged me while I placed my head on my pillow to slumber through the night.

It bugged me when I woke up this morning. I stopped thinking about it during my Zumba class this morning. As soon as I returned home it began to bug me again.

I called the restaurant and asked to speak with the manager. I asked if their drawer was short last night. I explained what happened and felt the clerk made a mistake. I did not want the young lady to lose her job over it and wanted to return the money to the restaurant today.  I know that is what I would want someone to do if I had made such a mistake and/or if I were the owner of the restaurant.

I was as sure as I could be that I did not tender a $100 bill. The only way to know would be if the restaurant drawer was short $90 and some change. Of course, the drawer might be short more, if the clerk made other mistakes with change that night.

Could I use the $90?  I sure could. Today, I am returning it to the restaurant. It is not mine and I want to sleep tonight.  The manager thanked me for my honesty.

It feels far better to do the right thing than it does to know that I have something that does not belong to me. Keeping the money would feel like stealing. Just because someone made a mistake does not make it mine.

This is what I call personal integrity.  I cannot say I do the same thing when a real estate agent makes a mistake or fails to disclose a material fact that harms my client. When that happens, and it does happen more times than one would think, I also do the right thing and ensure the agent pays for their mistake and makes my client whole.

What you see is what you get with me. When you hire me I've got your back, front, sides, and center. My niceness is not to be confused with weakness. I am willing to fight for what is right.

If you are considering buying or selling a San Jose home or Silicon Valley home, and if honesty and integrity mean anything to you, then give Kathleen Daniels a call today at 1-408-972-1822.  

Last Night I Lost Sleep Over A $100 Bill  - By Kathleen Daniels, Broker-Owner KD Realty - Certified Probate Real Estate Specialist - Selling San Jose and Silicon Valley homes

 

 

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Comments(38)

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

It is goodness ... and you have it in  you too, Lottie Kendall.

Debbie Gartner - I have no clue. Our brains process funny sometimes. Or the eyes play tricks on us. It was one of the new bills that have the blue line. I speculate that she had not seen a new $20 before and assumed it was a $100 because of the blue line.  I really don't know.

Tammie White - I did urge her. She was so insistent. The place was crowded ... lines were forming ... I could see her stressing even before I approached to place my order. In the end the restaurant got their money back! 

Aug 11, 2014 11:29 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I know it is for you too, Roger D. Mucci.

Mr. George Souto - self deprecation does not wear well on you. I believe I've said this before, I think you are one handsome, and sexy man.  I am not hitting on you. I am just stating a fact.  I know you would return the money as well. Everyone who left a comment here would do the same thing.

Aug 11, 2014 11:32 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Bruce Walter - you are so funny.  Tomorrow I will be eating pizza ... what an excuse I created to eat pizza by hosting a meet-up at High 5 Pizza.  Guilty pleasures ... I will work it off in Zumba on Wednesday.

Aug 11, 2014 11:35 AM
Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Kathleen, enjoy your meet-up and pizza!  Zumba will take care of those calories so-eat up,  and you will still be able to hit the silk in the Fall!

Aug 11, 2014 11:45 AM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Kathleen,

Doing the right thing is always the right thing to do...

Aug 11, 2014 01:03 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Kathleen, Things like that would bug me too, especially when you try to do the right thing and they don't want to let you.  Seriously, a $100 bill is such an exception to be carrying that I'd know also.  I don't have much use for them and would rather have the 20s.  Glad it all worked out! 

Aug 11, 2014 01:35 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kathleen, I seldom have $100 bills in my valet and like you I would know when I do...so my integrity is not worth loosing over $90 ...no wonder we are friends, Endre

Aug 11, 2014 02:52 PM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Kathleen~ Seems strange that they weren't able to tell you if the drawer balanced or not. I've been a cashier in a restaurant and we had to balance at the end of every shift.

BTW, I would have returned it. It's just the right thing to do. Good karma!

Aug 11, 2014 03:50 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Kathleen -- I'm sure you will be sleeping a bit sounder tonight -- and richer in spirit....

Aug 11, 2014 03:53 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Honesty is always the best policy-and makes for pleasant dreams.

Aug 11, 2014 04:01 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Kathleen. As time goes on and you share about situations like this, I can understand why I continue to follow blogs. I honor your level of integrity. Your clients are very fortunate to be working with you.

Aug 11, 2014 07:02 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathleen,

I too honor the level of your integrity. This story speaks volumes of who you are and how you travel through life. You clients are indeed fortunate to have you represent them:).

Aug 11, 2014 10:44 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Donna Foerster - they were able to tell me the drawer was short $90.56.  I don't know where the extra penny went (LOL) ... I don't have it.

Aug 12, 2014 12:47 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks so much for sharing this story. Doing the right thing is one of the keys for successful real estate transactions.

Aug 12, 2014 03:40 AM
Janice Ankrett
Burlington, ON
Staging Professional

Kathleen, I would have done the same thing. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't at least try to correct the misake.

Aug 12, 2014 10:28 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Kathleen

The integrity and ethics are far more important than the money. It was absolutely the right thing to do. It would have driven me nuts. I would certainly know if I had a $100 bill in my pocket as I expect you would to from your description. We have to live with ourselves and look in the mirror each day. The restaurant must be impressed with your honesty and integrity!

Jeff

Aug 12, 2014 12:04 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

Great story of integrity Kathleen. It does not surprise me one bit that this bothers you. You are a woman who does the right thing for herself and her clients!

Aug 12, 2014 04:27 PM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

I had this happen to me many years ago and the clerk became ENRAGED that I dare suggest she make a mistake.  I went to Customer Service, asked to speak to the manager, explained what happened and gave him the overage I had gotten back as change.  I did let him know, though, about his clerk's unreasonable behavior when I was just trying to help her out and do the right thing.  It's harder to do the right thing sometimes than people think!

Aug 16, 2014 12:38 PM
The Villages Realty
The Villages Realty - San Jose, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Hi Kathleen.  Just dropped by to see what your latest writings were about.  Good luck.

Jan 30, 2017 06:12 AM
Eagle Ridge Realty
Eagle Ridge Realty - Gilroy, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Hi Kathleen.  Nice post loaded with some good information.  I suspect it will bring some business your way.

Jan 31, 2017 09:04 AM