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Passages. . .

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Industry Observer CalDRE #01165532

 

Passages. . . 

 

A while back I was reading an article and it made mention of author Gail Sheehy.  It had been years since I heard any

reference to her and immediately thought of her best-selling 1976 book, Passages.  

 

Coincidentally, I was thinking of passages  of one particular kind.  About a  year ago, my nephew announced he was "leaving" Facebook. 

 

I have never been that active there and certainly understand the disillusionment that can set in with the site.  However, I see a major advantage with it in one aspect.  And that it serves as a reminder of birthdays(of course, for those who include such information as part of their public profile). 

 

I wish I could remember each and every birthday but have long ago given up that dream.  Anyway, knowing those dates are "there" offers a bit of comfort when such things are easily forgotten. 

 

I do recall my nephew's birthday month as November but was unsure of the exact date.  I asked my younger brother(his father).  Of course, even today, I think of my brother as a teenager at times even as he is well into his early middles if we are going to reveal such things. 

 

It turns out I was right about the date.  And as far as time goes and the passage of it, I have my moments of clarity.  Haha. 

 

While social media has its shortcomings as well as its advantages, it's nice to know there are still options available to highlight the passages we encounter each day. 

 

 

The image in this post is fro canstockphoto.com.

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

CalBRE # 01165532

P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Michael,

We have our birthday reminders on our calendar, and we just add them as we have more firends to celebrate...It shows up at the corner of my screen to let me know.  As far as FB is concerned, maybe once a month for less than 5mns.  A

Nov 17, 2020 10:47 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Michael-I haven't been on Facebook for over 2 years when I started traveling. I have used Instant messaging to stay in touch with a few people that aren't on Active Rain.  As far as birthday reminders that is a nice reminder if you want to have people wish you happy birthday.   Actually your mention of that made me smile.  I think you might remember why.  BTW- I tightened that loose screw l 🤪 

Nov 17, 2020 12:19 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Sheri Sperry - MCNE® - in my own fantasy-type world, I could control so many other things.  Cue - the evil laugh for sound effect purposes.  

Kathy Streib - I don't know how to measure the time spent on FB so I use my patience(or lack thereof) as an indicator.  

Ron and Alexandra Seigel - that sounds handy.  

Sharon Lee - our conversation brought forth many revelations.  

Nov 17, 2020 01:03 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Indeed.  

Nov 17, 2020 01:50 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

For the most part, I've stayed active on Facebook.  However, I have noticed a few of my friends have left the platform this year.

Nov 17, 2020 05:28 PM
Abby Stiller
TOP SELLING REALTY - Cape Coral, FL
SW Florida (239) 284-8637

Your nephew is not alone Michael Jacobs my sister left fb exactly 4 years ago after being bullied for her beliefs...she is so happier without fb now.

I also like the fb birthdays reminders as it's hard to remember all of them haha.

Nov 17, 2020 06:54 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Sharon Lee - you got that right!

Myrl Jeffcoat - is there an award for bravery on FB?  Just curious.

Abby Stiller - I have known others who have left the platform or have reduced their participation for many reasons.  

Nov 17, 2020 07:31 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Michael I see all my friends and acquaintance, relatives' Birthday thanks to FB... just to be clear I do not acknowledge half of them sadly  due to being so busy with other unimportant stuff:)Endre

Nov 17, 2020 10:24 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Michael.

Dates are difficult for me to remember.  My short term memory is fading, however I can tell you unimportant events from decades ago

Nov 18, 2020 12:19 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

LOL. Wonder if that is good or bad. 

Nov 18, 2020 05:02 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Michael,
Social media is what we make of it. I ignore and/or block those who want to spew hate and disrespect.  I definitely appreciate the birthday reminders because that is a special day in everyone's life!

Nov 18, 2020 07:16 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Endre Barath, Jr. - there seems to be a neverending supply of stuff.  

James Dray - I know what you mean and am surprised at those little detials that come to my mind and becomes a part of my speech. 

Sharon Lee - ah, keep you wondering, huh?  

Carol Williams - the "ignore" function is noteworthy.  

Nov 18, 2020 07:29 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Of late, I've certainly thought about quitting any Facebook interaction, but realized, I have the power to use it in the way I determine. People can be blocked or unfriended quite easily. I enjoy seeing the photos and updates from friends and family who live far away. 

Nov 18, 2020 09:23 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Ha Ha that can work BOTH ways.  

Nov 18, 2020 10:41 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD - each of us have that power and that is good, very good.

Sharon Lee - indeed.  You are right. 

Nov 18, 2020 02:35 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

The birthday reminder is a HUGE benefit on Facebook.  However, like anything else, it's only as good as the data put in.  Have had friends put in a fake birthday to thwart identity theft and some that won't do it at all. 

My real go to for birthday is my Google calendar.  Figured out how to make recurring events.  That's the only way I'm able to remember some of them.  I am just no good at that stuff.

Nov 19, 2020 07:18 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Michael, Facebook is good for some things, and am not as active as I once was.  I too use it for birthdays and to keep up with my clients if they are on FB.

Nov 19, 2020 07:52 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Chris Ann Cleland and Joan Cox - I'm okay with FB being a birthday reminder. My expectations of it beyond that have definitely changed over the years. 

Nov 19, 2020 08:16 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I find a journal does the trick for me 

Happy Saturday afternoon Michael Jacobs 

Nov 28, 2020 03:58 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS - when we are fortunate to find what "works" for each of us, I would consider that a win.  

Nov 28, 2020 04:14 PM