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Real Estate Provides Freedom, Friendships

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Austin Texas Homes, LLC 453249

Yesterday, while I was out and about, I spoke with two of my ActiveRain friends on the phonePaul Slaybaugh called me and we chatted for awhile, then he had to go because he was busy with his two sons.  I later called Adam Waldman and he had to call me back because he was watching "Hard Knocks", the Dallas Cowboys training camp show on HBO, with his son. 

After speaking with each of these guys, I thought about the time flexibility that real estate can afford to us, and how fortunate I am to be able to make a good living in a business that allows me still to have ample time with my family. 

As I was driving, I stopped at a light near my office and looked in my rear-view mirror.  I noticed an older lady driving and speaking in a very animated fashion to the younger lady who was her passenger.  I don't know if she was a real estate agent or not, but it reminded me of many meetings that I have had with clients, driving them around and getting to know them. 

You mean I can actually get PAID to make friends?

In a sense, yes.  I certainly can't claim that everyone in real estate conducts their business in the same way that I do, but I typically end up befriending my clients during the sales process.  Additionally, through my online social networking efforts, my friendships have begun to pay dividends in the form of solid referrals, one of which I closed last week. 

In my humble opinion, the essence of good marketing begins with personal networking. 

I have owned my own brokerage for almost four years, and I always tell my agents that clients are not typically brand-loyal when it comes to real estate.  In other words, most people are more interested in their agent as a person than with the specific company affiliation.  Of course, there are exceptions, but generally people tend to use the agent that they like and who provides the necessary information. 

When it comes to real estate sales, WE ARE the product.  Rather than being traditional salespeople, we are responsible for selling ourselves as people first.  To my way of thinking, this should be the easiest sale of all.  If you are not comfortable in your own skin, this is probably not the right field for you.  However, if you can manage to package yourself as the likeable, honest provider of local info, you are well on your way to capturing the business. 

As real estate agents and brokers, we are business owners first and foremost, and I think it's important to keep that in mind when dealing with our clients and potential clients.  If you treat it as an actual business, you don't sweat each individual transaction, because you are focused on the larger goal of growing your business over time, and maintaining your reputation so that you can keep the doors open.

In a nutshell, self-employment is not for everyone, but it is the only choice that I can imagine making if I had it to do over again.

Copyright 2008  Jason Crouch   Austin Homes

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Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team

JASON:  I'm with you, brother! I have always recognized that the very first sale I ever make is myself. IF I am not successful doing that...I'm not going to be successful at selling the prospect anything else. GREAT STUFF!! GBU!

Aug 30, 2008 02:53 AM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate

I think both go hand in hand....sometimes I'm told they picked me because of me...not the name of the company but I've also had people tell me they saw the name of the company behind me so they figured I was a good agent to work with. I like to become friends with the clients but sometimes you have to know when to step back and let them be.

Aug 30, 2008 03:03 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate
Not a bad gig at all. There are days when I barely get to look at my family, but there are also days where I clear my schedule for a day at the park. Yesterday, it was daddy day care. This weekend, it's full speed ahead with work. The bottom line is that I choose how it all fits together, not some corporate drone. I typically end up with a new friend at the end of a transaction as well, and I couldn't imagine another profession which would allow such a possibility. Excellent post for highlighting why we do what we do, my friend.
Aug 30, 2008 03:21 AM
Katharine Carey
eXp Realty - Bellingham, WA

Jason- I love talking to people I don't know and it always amazes me how much I can learn from them. Sitting behind the desk makes me crazy, I would rather be out meeting new friends! Love your post and the one about fathers. You are a gift to the rain. 

 

Aug 30, 2008 03:25 AM
Ron Tarvin
Residential, Investment properties, rehab projects, property management, luxury homes, new construction! - Katy, TX
Broker, Katy, Houston, Cypress 77450,77494,77095

It is funny to me, Jason, that one of the most attractive features of being in the REAL ESTATE BUSINESS is also the one feature that puts most agents OUT of the business.

That flexibility that you speak of is certainly attractive.  I mean, yesterday, I  met a seller and took a listing and 2 hours later, I stopped by Toys R Us to pick up a toy for a birthday party my family is going to on Saturday.  I did my work and I had a little flexibility to pick up the present and relieve stress from us on the day of the party!

However, I know a lot of people who put that "personal flex" first and business second, leading most times, to disasterous consequences!

 

Aug 30, 2008 03:48 AM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

I love the friendships and connections I make with my clients, if I can get paid and enjoy the process what better job to have? I have developed some great relationships that will last longer than the job I did and I am truly grateful.

Hope you're well in Austin,  Jason!

Aug 30, 2008 04:00 AM
Stacy Jones
West Little Rock Title Company - Little Rock, AR

I also love getting paid for what I love to do. Being self-employed is full of ups and downs, but never a dull moment. And yes, we are the product -- you have it right!

Aug 30, 2008 04:58 AM
Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX

Jason, I'm right there with you. The freedom is the greatest. We have the ability to say "no" and we won't get fired. Making long term relationships along the way is the best. Both with clients and other Agents.

Later in the rain~Deb

Aug 30, 2008 05:27 AM
Anonymous
Not Yet Licensed

It is funny to me, Jason, that one of the most attractive features of being in the REAL ESTATE BUSINESS is also the one feature that puts most agents OUT of the business.

Hi Jason,

Freedom is one of the things that strongly attracts me to real estate.  However, Ron Tarvin makes a great point.  Having freedom and time flexibility also demands self discipline.

Aug 30, 2008 07:11 AM
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Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time

Jason, I LOVE being a real estate broker. I also love working from my home. TLW would say that I work all the time since real estate is constantly on my mind and I am constantly on the phone BUT I mostly conduct business in my PJs or sitting out by the pool. It doesn't get any better than that.

If folks understood that the product we are selling is ourselves their business would much easier. How hard can it be to listen to people and then help then achieve their goals?

Well done Jason.

Aug 30, 2008 08:39 AM
Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton
Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC - Hilton Head Island, SC

Love the freedom of the real estate career but with that comes the responsibility of self discipline.  That's always a challenge for me.

Aug 30, 2008 09:06 AM
Lisa Friedman
Alliance Realtors - Bedminster, NJ
Central New Jersey Real Estate

Yes Jason, it is an amazing business that we are blessed to be in.  The flexibility and the friendships that we make really make it seem like less of a 'job'.  Like you, I often think "I get paid for this?  I'm just out having fun with some nice people on a nice day". And I do become friends with so many of my customers during and after the sale.

By the way, as of yesterday I have joined you in the 100,000+ Points Club!!  (See my blog).

Aug 30, 2008 10:17 AM
Gail Robinson
William Raveis Real Estate - Southport, CT
CRS, GRI, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT

Jason,  Meeting new people and making friends has been one of the most amazing benefits of being in real estate.  I hadn't even thought about that aspect when I entered the profession.  I did consider the flexibility in hours and that was one of the main draws for me aside from my long-standing interest in real estate.  I got a call from another real estate agent in my firm yesterday morning.  We hadn't spoken in over six months, but she called to bend my ear about a frustration she was having with a client.  I thought it was great that she felt completely comfortable to call me and trust me to keep her issue confidential.  We may not run into each other for another six months.  I also have colleagues I can call and do the same to.  I appreciate the support network of other real estate agents, just like you do.  We are very blessed.

Aug 30, 2008 03:31 PM
Gail Robinson
William Raveis Real Estate - Southport, CT
CRS, GRI, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT

Jason,  Meeting new people and making friends has been one of the most amazing benefits of being in real estate.  I hadn't even thought about that aspect when I entered the profession.  I did consider the flexibility in hours and that was one of the main draws for me aside from my long-standing interest in real estate.  I got a call from another real estate agent in my firm yesterday morning.  We hadn't spoken in over six months, but she called to bend my ear about a frustration she was having with a client.  I thought it was great that she felt completely comfortable to call me and trust me to keep her issue confidential.  We may not run into each other for another six months.  I also have colleagues I can call and do the same to.  I appreciate the support network of other real estate agents, just like you do.  We are very blessed,

Aug 30, 2008 03:31 PM
Larry Lane
Your Agents in Wichita | Wichita Homes - Wichita, KS
Homes for Sale in Wichita KS | Lane Team, Wichita Homes for Sale

I like this part of your post best: "When it comes to real estate sales, WE ARE the product. "

Aug 30, 2008 03:41 PM
Julie Chapman
Julie Chapman Broker - Ormond Beach, FL
Daytona Beach Shores, Florida

Jason,

Our business grows because of the relationships we make and our reputations are our business.....you did a great job of embracing the entrepreneurial spirit....

Aug 31, 2008 12:11 AM
Gena Riede
Riede Real Estate, Lic. 01310792 - Sacramento, CA
Real Estate Broker - Sacramento CA Real Estate (916) 417-2699

Jason, I totally agree. I think that most consumers care more about the person rather than the company. And we are lucky that we are in a job where we make friends. Not everyone is as lucky as we are...and I love my boss...me.

Sep 02, 2008 04:54 AM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)

SHERRY - I also enjoyed these particular pictures.  Thanks for your kind comments.

Sep 06, 2008 06:35 PM
Allen Keith Hebert
Register Real Estate Advisors Conroe - Kingwood, TX
Kingwood Humble Atascocita Spring Huffman The Wood

Real estate may provide a degree of freedom to dictate your schedule.  I have found to be successful you are working long 60+ hour weeks.

Sep 06, 2008 07:37 PM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)

TO ALL: I never got a chance to come back and thank you for your great comments.  Please rest assured that I read every one of them, but I often run out of time trying to respond these days.  Have a great rest of the week!

Sep 11, 2008 03:43 PM