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Before Activerain and Now---A Walk Down Memory Lane

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Home Stager with Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island #888

Before Activerain and NOW.....A Walk Down Memory Lane 

What can I say about life BEFORE Activerain?  There have been so many profound changes since I began my journey here and so many stories I could speak of.

Of course Activerain and blogging have had a huge impact on business and that's wonderful.  Still, when I think of this new site I stumbled across in 2006, it was just a SITE I was signing on to; at least, that's what I THOUGHT

I'd been writing articles on the advice of my webmaster.  Some of them, actually, weren't all that bad.  Sitting at the computer for long hours with no interaction, though, can become almost tedious.  There were days I'd have to force myself to write and it wasn't FUN. 

A Google Alert brought me to Activerain.  I would normally sign up to sites that were free and allowed me to leave a profile. When I first began to write on Activerain, I automatically assumed people knew what Feng Shui was---and wasn't.

I couldn't have been more wrong. 

There were more misconceptions then I'd ever imagined.  From some of the mail I got, I realized that people were very misinformed about Feng Shui.  There were a few people, though, that read what I wrote.  Just a few people that had an interest in it and I realized I'd inherited the "Stubborn" gene from my mother.

I never, ever would have imagined I'd make real friendships...."forever friends" as Jo calls them.  I wouldn't have guessed that so many people would travel a road with me over time and help me with their comments and calls.  I would have never thought Activerain would have such a profound PERSONAL effect on my life.

It was because of the wonderful members here through their encouragement that I fought a VILLAGE-and won!  I shared ups (being found on Activerain and getting a radio spot or a small write up in The New York Times) to the personal trials including the loss of a family member, my mother's dog Avanti.

I have friends I can call and who call me; we CARE about each other.  We are there for each other.  It's much more the personal aspects that have given me so much more then I've ever dreamed of.  I actually can't imagine life without Activerain.

I wrote this post which included adding a new family member as a Direct result of Activerain:   My BEST ActiveRain SUCCESS Story:    He Had me at Hello : )   I realized when writing this that I never did a follow up.

Pierre came into our lives.  He brought my mother's spirit back and gives her a reason to get up in the morning.  He's brought joy to ALL of us.....as have the members of Activerain.  THIS is life AFTER Activerain:

Family Pierre...he never leaves his mom.

 http://www.LongIslandFengShui.com

**Carole Provenzale has been a New York Feng Shui Consultant since 1997 and is the Founder of Feng Shui Long Island & New York.  On Site Feng Shui Consultations provided for New York City (Manhattan), Queens and all of Long Island.   http://www.FengShuiManhattan.com for NYC Feng Shui Consultant Laura Cerrano

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Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 

 

Comments(33)

Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Carole,

This beautiful story brought a warm smile to my face and I'm smiling still...in fact, I'll likely be smiling all morning. Your Mom looks just beautiful and Pierre has certainly found his rightful home there by her side (and judging from the photo, he certainly is content and happy to be with her).

I'm endlessly thankful that you found AR and that our friendship was born....more than words can ever say.

Jo

Oct 17, 2009 01:36 AM
Bill Gassett
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA
Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

Carole there are so many that feel the way you do. I know I have learned more in my few years here than I did ten years prior. It is so great to learn and of course meet lots of great people.

Oct 17, 2009 02:15 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Carole - thanks for sharing these memories and experiences. Like you, I have learned a lot, and also been able to share.

Oct 17, 2009 04:29 AM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Carol, Your post is a wonderful walk down memory lane. Of all the sorties I have written and read, there was one line that I think best describes ( for me and so many others including you ) what ActiveRain is to us. "I would have never thought Activerain would have such a profound PERSONAL effect on my life".

It's personal. The place is personal, the relationships are personal and of course the overall affect in our lives is personal. Each of us have so many stories and established friendships and ActiveRain provides us with a real home (our own personal place) in cyberspace.

Well done!

Oct 17, 2009 05:21 AM
The Somers Team
The Somers Team at KW Philadelphia - Philadelphia, PA
Delivering Real Estate Happiness

Carole - What a great testament and personal story !  I know Stephanie and I have similar feelings.   Active Rain before and after is a vast difference for us as well.  We are so grateful as a result of it.  I can tell how grateful you are as well.  Is just awesome.  You rock !!  ~ Chris

 

Oct 17, 2009 06:48 AM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Hi Carole, Pierre is such a cutie! I think I missed the earlier story about how you got him. Activerain has been so amazing for all of us!

 

Oct 17, 2009 09:19 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Carole - What a heartwarming story!  And the picture of Mom with her little constant companion is priceless!

Oct 17, 2009 11:20 AM
Laurie Mindnich
Centennial, CO

Carole, you have no idea how far your "reach" is for those of us that you've touched with "FUNG" shui.

I've actually reviewed some of your blogs before rearranging...and you never knew it! THANK YOU.

Oct 17, 2009 12:30 PM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

Carole ~  I have learned so much from your wonderful posts.  I am glad that I had the opportunity to meet you on Active Rain and truly consider you a "forever friend."  Active Rain is an incredible journey which had lead us all down paths we could not have ever imagined.

Oct 17, 2009 01:32 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Carole, what a heart felt story. I think I met you from the start and as I have told you many times you have been quite the educator to me on feng shui.

I remember the posts on Pierre. So glad to see him doing good.

Oct 18, 2009 12:42 AM
Kate Wheeler
Country Homes and Land Murphy NC Realtor - Murphy, NC
CCIM - Murphy NC Real Estate for Sale

Carole, I loved your story about getting Pierre.  And I was thrilled to find the Feng Shui group since it's been a topic I've been interested in for years. 

Oct 18, 2009 08:55 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Jo, I'm thankful I found it as well!  I can't imagine NOT knowing you :)

Bill, Wow, I've leaned a lot from being here as well.  You're right, it's been an education.

Mike, Many of these people do the same.  Learn and share what they've learned.  They are SO helpful and it's wonderful.

William, You are absolutely right.  Many people I haven't met in person but spend hours on the phone with.  They are still FRIENDS and good ones at that.  Someday I hope to meet them all.

Chris, Look what has happened to you both!   Talk about Success Stories....your achievements grow every day and I couldn't be happier for the both of you.

Lizette, It truly has....quite a journey as they say.  And it's certainly not over yet :)  I have a feeling we have a LONG way to go!

Myrl, Pierre came at a good time for my mother.  He's certainly a little well loved dog :)

Laurie, No, I never knew.  Goodness, I hope it worked and brought some good things your way!

Joan, I too feel as if I have known you forever and you are a 'forever friend'  --  in the rain and out!  I expect to be heading up to New England next year and would love to meet you!

Missy, You were here long before I was, I think.  I joined in October in 2006.  We had 6,000 members and I thought that was HUGE!  Funny, who could have imagined what would happen here?  :)

Kate, It's a wonderful group and I'm glad you joined!  Feng Shui for Real Estate....there are some excellent people and posts in the group!

Oct 19, 2009 12:39 AM
Donna Yates
BHGRE - Metro Brokers - Blue Ridge, GA
Blue Ridge Mountains

Carole:  I'm glad you found Active Rain which in turn allowed me to find you.  I've learned so much from your interesting and educational posts.  The story about Pierre is so wonderful.  I must say, you have made me really want to visit New York City one day.

Oct 19, 2009 10:50 AM
Bob & Leilani Souza
Souza Realty 916.408.5500 - Roseville, CA
Greater Sacramento Area Homes, Land & Investments

What a sweet walk down memory lane, Carole...I especially love the photo captioned: "Pierre...he never leaves his mom." :)

Leilani

Oct 19, 2009 06:48 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Leilani,  Welcome to Activerain!  I know you're going to love it here.  It's amazing how this site can effect us on such a personal level as well as business!

Oct 20, 2009 12:18 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Donna, I hope you do come, I promise you won't be disappointed here!  And I do plan on visiting the Blue Ridge Mountains that are so spectacular on your posts.

Oct 20, 2009 01:32 PM
Russel Ray, San Diego Business & Marketing Consultant & Photographer
Russel Ray - San Diego State University, CA

I've certainly enjoyed being a part of your journey.

When I was a junior at Texas A&M University with Alpha Phi Omega, I instituted a service project where we would take our pets to visit our elderly in what was then called a Nursing Home. It was unheard of at the time, but I knew how much animals affected me and my grandmother, and I thought it could brighten up the spirits of our elderly by having both young college students and their pets visit. The project lasted for many years until pets were determined to be unhealthy in nursing homes. Huh?

Oct 20, 2009 02:47 PM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Hi Carole...My thanks to Active Rain for giving me the opportunity to meet you.

Pierre is looking wonderful and your mom looks so happy.  I'm glad they are together.

Kate

Oct 21, 2009 12:11 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

I see you entered the Contest :)  I remember very well asking you all about Feng Shui, and because of you I was able to help a few of my own clients with their concerns over a house.  I also remember when you had the flood, and was fighting the Village, and then your moms dog passing away, and the story of Pierre.  I guess these are the reasons so many of us stay.  Yes, we learn tons here, and yes our business has been helped, but for some of us we want more.  And Active Rain sure has "more", like friendships :)

Oct 21, 2009 06:13 PM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Making friends here was the last thing that I expected when I joined, but I can certainly say that I was pleasantly surprised by how many people I have met that I now truly consider to be my friend.

Oct 22, 2009 02:14 AM