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Delray Beach- Looking Back

 

This week we received copies of a book written about my grandparents and a particular time in history that was not hidden from us but never really discussed much.  As a child, I remember hearing all kinds of stories about when they lived in Arkansas and Mississippi. But for the most part, they did not appear to hold grudges or place blame on others.  

 

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Life consists not simply in what heredity and environment do to us but in what we make out of what they do to us. Harry Emerson Fosdick


 

It wasn’t part of their makeup to dwell in the past.

And, I began thinking of all that we’ve inherited from my grandfather, grandmother (Kate), my aunt, uncle and my mother as well all those who came before us.

 

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To understand and reconnect with our stories, the stories of the ancestors, is to build our identities. Frank Delaney

 

 

If your parents are still with you, I encourage you to consider sitting down with them and capturing their recollections and history.

 

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Heredity is what sets the parents of a teenager wondering about each other.       Laurence J. Peter


Childhood has a funny way of making you not interested in where you came from.  It’s not until you get where you’re going that you wish you knew more about the roads that led up to your beginning.

 

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Insanity is hereditary; you get it from your children. Sam Levenson

 

 

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Have a weekend learning of your past.

 

 

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Comments(30)

Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Kathy. How exciting to have a book to reconnect with your family. You are right about spending time with our folks hearing their stories and learning what made them. Too late for me.

Oct 21, 2016 11:09 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I have been interested in family history and genealogy since I was a kid.  I agree with you 100% about getting your family members, especially the older ones to sit down and tell their stories.  There are so many in my own family I wish I could bring back and spend an afternoon on a lawn chair.  I have so many questions.

CONGRATULATIONS on having this blog FEATURED in the PHOTOS group!

Oct 22, 2016 12:47 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Good morning, Kathy --- some excellent quotes and a gentle reminder that there's no time like the present to discover some interesting things from the past.  

Oct 22, 2016 12:59 AM
Bill Roberts
Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate - Oceanside, CA
"Baby Boomer" Retirement Planner

Hi Kathy Streib Being the oldest living member of my family, I have no one to ask, but I am interested anyway. Too bad I waited so long.

I would love to read your family's book. And I know you are Chinese, not Japanese. their experiences in Turn-of-the-century Arkansas would  be very interesting to read.

Bill Roberts

Oct 22, 2016 01:31 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

James Dray I know that they lived in Elaine, Arkansas but not sure of the other cities. 

HI Lise Howe not offended at all.  Actually, my mother had to carry a card showing that she was Chinese.  During the war, my father and one of my uncles were in the military. 

Oct 22, 2016 02:16 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

My mother and I were going to write a book detailing the family's history. We did not do it.  Not anyone left on my side to read it.  A

Oct 22, 2016 02:17 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Barbara Todaro you are very lucky to still have your mother.  I can remember listening to stories but at the time, all that my cousins and I wanted to do was to go out and play. 

You're so right Dorie Dillard 

Oct 22, 2016 02:19 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Rebecca Lewis I understand.  I wish we could still ask them questions.

Sally K. & David L. Hanson your mom must have been a hoot!

A big project but so worth it. Joe Pryor 

Oct 22, 2016 02:32 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

I agree Sheri Sperry - MCNE I know very little about my father's family.  Larry's mother did the family tree and thank goodness for that. 

That's for sure Harry F. D'Elia 

You are lucky to have him Wayne Martin 

Oct 22, 2016 02:33 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sheila Anderson I would love to have that time back when we would sit around the kitchen and talk.

Thank you Myrl Jeffcoat And, as I get older, I wonder if the stories I remember were true or just in my head. 

Oct 22, 2016 02:36 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Michael Jacobs time keeps marching forward (unless you have a time machine) and it ticks along no matter who you are. Wished we'd taped those stories. 

Bill Roberts it makes me appreciate what they went through and what we have now. 

Ron and Alexandra Seigel that is so sad.  Write it anyway!

 

Oct 22, 2016 02:39 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathy what a lovely post to read this fine Saturday morning.  I remember hearing lots of stories from my aunts and uncles whose grandparents came from Europe. The 'old country' is what they called it and they always wanted to be part of the new country and it's customs. My older brother did an extensive geneology history of the family and it was very interesting to read.

Oct 22, 2016 03:54 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Anna- I'm glad that your brother did the research. I did have my DNA tested earlier this year just for fun. 

Oct 22, 2016 04:20 AM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Oh it is so true...and the tapes that play in our head (good or bad) are for us to deal with...I know my father was 19 when he was at Iwo Jima and he did not talk about it at all with us until he was 80...it was also so interesting to hear from his Marine buddy who was a columnist for the Daily News...he wrote a beautiful story on their relationship which told me so much more about him & his strength...thank you Kathy.

Oct 22, 2016 06:37 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Kathy - I still remember the stories my grandmother used to tell us about growing up and then raising her family during the great depression. Those experiences shaped a whole generations attitudes and behavior, and hence our as well.

Oct 22, 2016 08:09 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

My parents are still here but I'm not so sure they would be of much help as far as history goes. Sometimes it's hard enough getting them to remember last year.

Oct 22, 2016 08:28 AM
Mark Loewenberg
KW of the Palm Beaches - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
KW 561-214-0370

very good point to make so you can learn from your past and enjoy the company

Oct 22, 2016 10:19 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kathy when my parents were with us we heard many great stories about my grandparents and their parents... as well as Diane's parents and their parents... now there are so many questions we would love to ask  from all four of them...Endre

Oct 22, 2016 03:32 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Kathy Streib What a great post!  I find genealogy fascinating.  Wish I could go back and ask so many questions.  

Oct 23, 2016 11:10 AM
Wayne Johnson
Coldwell Banker D'Ann Harper REALTORS® - San Antonio, TX
San Antonio REALTOR, San Antonio Homes For Sale

Kathy-Good point and as our mother ages her short-term memory is pretty shot but her long-term memory is great. I've been capturing some of her family recollections.

Oct 23, 2016 12:26 PM