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POINT "A"..... LEADS TO POINT "B"....BUT CAN YOU....."C"...?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

The hustle bustle of everyday life is upon us now more than ever. When we wake in the morning, our minds race to meet up with our thoughts and we go through mentally... where we must go to physically.... and then we prepare for the journey. We jump in the shower, do the the necessaries, dress for success, coffee up, and then hit the road.

The day I am describing above is a typical day of the 365 days in the year. Is there anything that makes it special or stand out from let's say the day before or last week? We find ourselves rushing from destination to arrive and then only to leave again......But did you take in the journey? Did you notice the details....the simple things?

Did you set aside moments to reflect or look around wherever you went? Did you notice others coming to and fro just like you? Did you hear or see anything special to make this day different? It is different you know.

How about you? Did you contribute to something or someone so that at the end of this day, someone else was touched by you? It doesn't have to be a big deal. Perhaps a smile, a kind word, or maybe you held the door for someone....come on, you know what I am talking about. You just stopped doing that's all......

I once got to a parking space before someone else did, he saw it and I saw it and was able to maneuver just a little better than the older gentlemen. I pulled in and parked and then I saw the look on the elder mans face and I rolled down my window and said, I'm sorry sir, is this your space? He said, yes it is (it wasn't). I pulled out and found another place. Ran into him later in the same building and we exchanged glances. We said a lot without saying a lot.....if you know what I mean.

I often come across well dressed people who pride themselves on looking and giving their best. I take the time to acknowledge them because they took the time to want to be acknowledged and it is time well spent for both.

You can go through your days so that they all look a like. THINK: one big blur.......boring blur I might add. Or you can mark each day with a special memory....something that you create and give of yourself.

The opportunities abound and I would hope that the next time you wake-up in the morning,......that is the last time you take a day and..... make it into a day like every other day. INSTEAD....Make it a day like no other day!

I know we go from point A...to....point B and this must be done, but I want you to C....... this time around......

Larry Bergstrom
Crescent Realty, Inc. Spanaway, WA. - Spanaway, WA
CNE, CRS, GRI

Richie, a post from the heart - I like it. Now that I've read this I'm taking deeper slower breaths.

Aug 26, 2010 02:21 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Larry....then I have hit my mark....Go for the quality that you so richly deserve and settle for nothing less than that....my dear boy.....

best

Aug 26, 2010 02:23 PM
Emily Medvec
eXp Realty LLC - Santa Fe, NM
Broker | Realtor | Serving Santa Fe & Northern NM

Fortunately, a zig and a zag here and there brings more satisfaction than going in a line from A to B to whatever follows. Thanks for the reminder we make the path we follow.

Aug 26, 2010 02:26 PM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Every day, and I mean every day, I try to pay a compliment to at least five people.  And every day I try to interact with five people. It is difficult because people are very wary and weary these days even in my small community.  But it is wortth it.  I have found many buyers and sellers this way. 

That is not the intent however.  But, it is a nice by-product. 

Aug 26, 2010 02:27 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hi there Emily....well said and it is easy to get caught up in things....boy do we know that. I remember visiting the country recently and my city boy mentality failed me out there. It woke me up to realize that there is a lot going on and how I hang out in such a small portion of it. No more......thank you Emily.....

Aug 26, 2010 02:29 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hello Suzanne...then I could learn form you. Suzanne, we must discipline ourselves to not become ordinary...but extra-ordinary as life is.....We will not pass this way again. Let's really do it right...shall we? Best to you Suzanne

Aug 26, 2010 02:31 PM
Randy Ostrander
Lake and Lodge Realty LLC - Big Rapids, MI
Real Estate Broker, Serving Big Rapids and West Central MI

I love morning. It is another chance to travel through the day seeing what challenges and triumphs are ahead. Game on.

Aug 26, 2010 03:10 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Randy...well said. We share the same beliefs......it is curtain call prep time. the show is about to begin and we star once again with different co-stars every day......let's do it...!  Thanks for a quality comment....Randy..

Aug 26, 2010 03:19 PM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Richie,

I have truly been on this lately.  It's like "Look around and what do I see?"

What  is there that I'm not seeing.

Life seems to fly by at times and it is important to not let it be that blur.

Thank you for putting your thoughts into words for the rest of us to read.  You have true talent at doing that.

 

Aug 27, 2010 01:09 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Judi dear....you and others like you bring this out of me......befitting that I should be thanking you as well. Don't be mundane. We are not part of a huge cattle drive......Everyone of us deserves our own planet.....the question is ....are you up to running it?

High regards dear lady....

Aug 27, 2010 03:20 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

What we contribute to those around us may never be made obvious to the eye, be it good or bad; however, what it can do to the heart and soul is another matter altogether.

Aug 29, 2010 02:23 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Tish girl....well said and good introduction to "faith". If you look at around at anything, there is an activity going on on the molecular level that you just cannot see with the human eye......BUT IT IS THERE. It doesn't check in with you and it performs like clockwork. If not, we would be dead. The power of acknowledging yourself and others in just a normal everyday "awareness" is grossly underestimated. Find the flow. I am reminded of parents I used to see at my children's soccer games. Some had a wonderful time while others were there to do battle. Why? Instead of the kids playing for the right reasons,..... winning at all costs was pushed on them.....very unattractive and it shows......keep things simple and on track......and everything works real well. Join it.......

P.S. without the "heart & soul"....mankind is just another animal

 

Aug 29, 2010 03:16 AM