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The Networking Song That Never Ends

By
Services for Real Estate Pros with Happy Grasshopper

Sitting in this restaurant, drinking this bad coffee.
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

Its 7AM, haven’t eaten anything
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

First comes the president, then all the intros
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

Everybody stand up, everybody sit down.
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

Now it is my turn, what will I say today
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

I do a great job, you should all refer me
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

Now its time to keep score, what did you do last week
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

Everybody leave now, I’ll see you next week
Oh what a wonderful day this will be.

REPEAT, REPEAT, REPEAT


Maybe you love networking, maybe you hate it.  I go back and forth depending on the day.  I’ve been to every group imaginable - After hour social groups, business referral circles, mid-day community groups, professional associations, women’s groups ...

Some aspects of networking are great.  I’ve met some really good friends, I’ve done business with several of the people I met, I have even got a few really great referrals. Yet, I still have mixed feeling about them.  For 2 years I went to a weekly meeting with 50 members.  About 5 visitors also attended each meeting.  2 years x 5 visitors a week + 50 members = 570 people.  I also attended an addition meeting each week as a guest.  Each of those meetings has at least 15 attendees.  2 years x 15 people a week = 1,560 people

That means in 2 years I met 2,130 people, I spent an average of 6 hours a week commuting to and attending the networking meetings or 624 hours total.  When I stopped networking I probably kept in touch with about 30 of the people I met. 30 out of 2,130 people.

Millions are invested in advertising so that businesses can reach an audience.  Networking helped me meet a huge audience of people.  It just failed to teach me how to gain mindshare with them.

I'm not the only one that was losing out, of those 2,130 people I met, only a handful tried to reach out to me.  The most common way was to simply add me to their e-newsletter list.  This is a mistake because there is nothing about an e-newsletter that makes me go, WOW, what a nice person.  I'd really like to get to know them better.

Happy Grasshopper provides a unique solution to this problem.  It offers an easy, inexpensive way to keep your name in front of people you have just met so that you can start to build a relationship with them.  Rather than sending a message that is obviously just trying to sell them something, Happy Grasshopper helps you send personal messages that help open the door and build mindshare.  You started networking to grow your circle of influence, if you aren't following up, you are wasting your time.

Here is to following up and getting more out of your networking!

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Charlie Ragonesi
AllMountainRealty.com - Big Canoe, GA
Homes - Big Canoe, Jasper, North Georgia Pros

There is something about today and the posts. There are so many posts that are making me smile or laugh. Yours is really cool and creative thanks

Apr 08, 2011 01:24 AM
Chuck Carstensen
RE/MAX Results - Elk River, MN
Minnesota/Wisconsin Real Estate Expert

I think the connection with someone is important.  The ones I am connected with on a more friendly basis are the ones that send business my way and I sent business back. 

Apr 08, 2011 01:26 AM
Bob Jakowinicz
National Realty Centers Livonia--Bob Jakowinicz - Livonia, MI
Michigan Real Estate Agent-- MI Real Adventures

At least you were doing something and be pro-active.  That experience probably helped you learn a lot about the networking scene

Apr 08, 2011 01:32 AM
Mechelle Cranford
Sell, Buy, Invest, Relocate, Distressed Properties - Charlotte, NC
Residential Real Estate-Wilson Realty

hehe...I love this!!

Apr 08, 2011 01:34 AM
Liz Murray
Renaissance Home Staging & Redesign - Chandler, AZ
Professional Home Stager

I think you have done the "math".   You are incorrect in assuming that Billboards gain mindshare.  .. I am a CRMC, and studied multi-media.  What works, and what doesn't based on your objectives.

1.)  Billboards work if you are introducing a "new" product.

2.)  Billboards work if you want to give directions, and that is why Hotels use them on a freeway

3.)  Billboards will work if you have 100% showing of the boards.  Sticking them out in a cornfield may not work or accomplish much.  Don't make an ego buy.

But I have to ponder something.  I wonder if you broke any records.  What is your sphere of influence.  I often wonder about this?  I'm just starting a business, so I'm trying to make my mark.

Apr 08, 2011 08:08 PM
Ronald DiLalla
Century 21 Discovery DRE 01813824 - Anaheim, CA
No. Orange Cty Real Estate

Thanks, I checked out the website and signed up..Hopefully I will have the same success as you have had....thanks again.

Apr 08, 2011 08:18 PM
James Harner
Considering Selling Your Home? Call 610-310-7646 first - Royersford, PA
James Harner Group - Philadelphia PA Real Estate

who wrote that song? its now stuck in my mind! HELP!!! 

Apr 08, 2011 09:59 PM
Bob Zorechak - ABR, GRI, e-PRO
Keller Williams Realty Metropolitan - Morristown, NJ
Sells Homes in Morris/Somerset/Hunterdon Cos., NJ

Very creative post.  I will have to try Grasshopper.

Apr 09, 2011 01:30 AM
Happy Grasshopper
Happy Grasshopper - Tampa, FL

Thanks for your comments everybody!

@Liz - you are absolutely right about billboards.  I was trying to make a connection between a businesses need to gain an audience and networking's ability to deliver an audiencee.  I selected billboards but should have just mentioned advertising in general.  Correction made :)  Thank you!

@James - sorry!  I heard once that doing arithmetic in your head will stop the song.  Give it a try and let me know.

@Ronald - welcome to Happy Grasshopper!

@Chuck - This is EXACTLY why Happy Grasshopper exists.  You nailed it!

@Bob - I read a quote this morning from Perry Klebahn, as associate professor at Stanford University and co-developer of their entrepreneurship class.  He said, "Entrepreneurship does not require and IQ.  You just need to be able to fail, learn, compost, and move forward."  What a great statement.  We're building Happy Grasshopper using everything we learned in past successes and failures.  Failure is a really great teacher.

Apr 09, 2011 01:37 AM
Happy Grasshopper
Happy Grasshopper - Tampa, FL

Thanks Bob Z!  Welcome to Happy Grasshopper!

Apr 09, 2011 01:38 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Thanks for this wonderful post!  Great words to begin the day!

Apr 09, 2011 04:34 AM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

So true about the Network song! That is how it goes. You've been there

Apr 09, 2011 05:51 AM
Jay McHugh
SendOutCards-Appreciation Marketing Expert - Acton, MA
YOUR SendOutCard Mentor

Loved your post....continued success with your sharing attitude ... the more we share the more we care....have yourself a wonderful day and weekend ahead

Apr 09, 2011 06:29 AM
Happy Grasshopper
Happy Grasshopper - Tampa, FL

Thanks Jay, Sandy & Brian - I'll definitely keep up the sharing.  Happy Weekend!

Apr 09, 2011 07:46 AM
Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

Celeste, I like the whimsical tone of your blog.  And the message is important too.

Apr 12, 2011 12:36 PM
C. Lloyd McKenzie
Living Albuquerque - Albuquerque, NM
Living Albuquerque

Now i have an LSS with the line "Oh what a wonderful day this will be."

Apr 14, 2011 06:05 AM