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With this pending, I find myself missing my friend

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

I am the type of person who becomes interested in my buyers lives.  They talk, I listen. Whitt and I became so much more than client/broker. Almost immediately we became friends.  He was fun and silly and I miss him so much. When he passed away just months after his father's passing and his mom just wasn't ready to list the house at that point.  Too much loss, too soon. I am glad I didn't go over to do a CMA then either.

Not only had I been his broker through the building process, I'd been his friend through the furiture shopping process. I gave him a framed map of the lake to go in his new lake house 19 years ago next month.  We shared a lot of laughs. He was even with my family when I whacked Donald in the head with the mini-van tailgate once. He started calling me a widowmaker after that.

His house went pending recently and I don't know and haven't met the buyers. I hope they will love and take care of it like Whitt did. 

Maybe I shouldn't be as involved and become as close to my clients as I do. But it's who I am. And every time I ever pass this house on Lake Sinclair it will forever be Whitt's house to me. I had a few pizzas and Dr. Peppers on that deck. I went for boat rides from that dock. He was a buyer the day I met him. He was a friend later that same day. I will always miss him and I will never have a Nu-way hot dog without thinking of him. 

It made me really happy when his brother said to me that he was going to list the house with me because he knew that's what Whitt would want. I cried almost every time I went to show the house and to check on the listing. I have tear filled eyes as I write this, and I'm sure I'll cry as I hand over the keys to new buyers at the closing. It's made me miss my friend so much again as it comes time to close. But I'm also happy that I know Whitt thinks I did a good job for him.

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Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Tammy - One of the blessings or our job is that we get to meet lots of new people and have the potential to make new friends.  I am sorry for your loss and glad that you had the chance to have Whitt as your friend.

Jul 19, 2015 03:38 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Tammy. What a wonderful post, his friendship was very special, his physical body isn't here, but he always will be.

Make it a great week!

Jul 19, 2015 07:38 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Tammy, You are a wonderful person who takes good care of clients. 

Jul 19, 2015 08:33 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I teared up reading your post. Becoming friends with our clients is one of the beautiful aspects of this career choice. I'm glad you were able to spend such quality time with Whitt, and glad his family asked you to sell the home.  Hugs.

Jul 19, 2015 09:00 PM
Ian Bush
Ian Bush Homes - Ashburn, VA
Ian Bush, Loudoun County's Favorite Realtor

Its amazing the impact that a client's life can have on yours and how much you become part of theirs. I think the folks that can stay the longest in this business are those who truly care about their client's needs and how you can address them. Its what has us out until 10pm one night showing, and up the next morning at 5am to write an offer. Thanks for sharing that intimate portrait of what sounded like a great friend and client.

Jul 19, 2015 11:09 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Tammy, it is so easy to become close to some of our clients, so sorry to hear about Whitt.  Sure hope the new buyers take good care of this special home!

Jul 19, 2015 11:15 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Everyone I meet can be called friend...We are all traveling together...yes?

Jul 20, 2015 12:05 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Tammy I get it as many of my clients are friends and friends are clients. I think of it as a wonderful gift. Your friendship with Whit was a gift and I bet he's watching from wherever he is and happy you're selling the home. You are a very special lady with a kind heart.

Jul 20, 2015 01:56 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

You are lucky to have bonded with a friend and created much more than just a closing!

Jul 20, 2015 03:06 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

I am so sorry you lost a close friend. I can not imagine how that must feel. I have not lost a close friend since I was in my early twenties. I was so green there I was just numb. Know that your AR family will have you in their prayers. 

Jul 20, 2015 03:10 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

Tammy - To me, that is one of the wonderful things about being in real estate. We get to meet new people all the time, and develop some great relationships in the process.

Jul 20, 2015 05:42 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Jsut seeing the picture of this house I remembered your previous post about Whitt.  I hope the new owners will love the house too.

Jul 20, 2015 07:52 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Tammy, I get involved too. I cannot help myself as it is who I am as well. Some clients, however few, just don't want to get that close but in the end they always turn to me for help. That would be a tough closing for sure.  May Whitt rest in peace.

Jul 20, 2015 08:03 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Tammy Lankford 

What a touching story you've shared. He clearly was a very special person in your life in many ways. How wonderful to be the one to sell the home, although that no doubt was very difficult. I hope the new owners will appreciate it as much as Whitt did.

Jeff

Jul 20, 2015 09:28 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Tammy, Whitt KNOWS you did a good job for him - not only as a Realtor® but, what a wonderful friend you were to him.  Such a bittersweet situation but, congratulations to you on getting the job done and working through the tears.  Something tells me you and the new owners will strike up a friendship too!

Jul 20, 2015 02:10 PM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

That's beautiful.  We are lucky, those of us who truly like people, as I KNOW you do, to be able to forge so many strong & wonderful relationships in this business.  It is a gift, as will be the memories you will cherish for years to come.

Jul 20, 2015 03:26 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Making the Real Estate transaction have more meaning this Tammy Lankford does

Jul 21, 2015 12:17 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

You just know when a buyer or seller is going to become a good friend. The attraction is almost immediate. Whitt would be so happy that you were able to help his family move on.

Jul 21, 2015 02:54 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Tammy it is relationships like that with our clients which make this business special. 

Jul 21, 2015 09:11 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

This is a sweet post and a tribute to memories and the passing of time.  All things change, and it's annoying!!  

Jul 22, 2015 03:52 AM