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There's Always a Choice...

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Home Stager

 

The other day as we were driving home, there were dark and foreboding clouds ahead.  They seemed to signal more than the usual clouds-delray beachSouth Florida afternoon thunderboomers. I had a feeling these contained heavy rain, lightning and strong winds.

Ugh!  It’s not like I’m not used to this.  I grew up in Houston...rain, flooded streets, hurricanes.  It’s just that, when I can, I try to avoid situations that may not bode well for me.

So, being the avoider of bad things, I opted to make a turn away from the dark and foreboding area. One right turn and I looked up and there were blue skies with some puffy white clouds. I was still headed towards my destination, I just took a different route.

(Where is she going with this...you ask?)

Well, I’m getting there.  It reminded me that we all  have choices that we can make. If the road ahead looks a little bumpy, look around for another way.  

Sometimes the choices we have may not include the blue skies and puffy white clouds. We may not like what we see.

 

But it is a choice, and it’s always your choice.

 

 

Inspiration is highly overrated. If you sit around and wait for the clouds to part, it's not liable to ever happen.

More often than not, work is salvation.

                                                        Chuck Close

 

                                                        

 

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Comments(22)

Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Kathy. It is always a matter of choice. Everyday we make choices.

Jul 24, 2016 09:38 PM
Donald Urschalitz
Lubeck Realty Group - Jupiter, FL
P.A. Realtor ABR RSPS North Palm Beach County

So well put and so true about our weather.

Jul 24, 2016 10:29 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Very well said Kathy. May you have a week of blue skies and puffy clouds

Jul 24, 2016 10:30 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Your words are wise my friend!  There is usually more than one route to get us where we are going, so we might as well choose the more enjoyable one!

Jul 24, 2016 11:50 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

You are right it is always a choice.  I have to say, I disagree with that quote, because it does not really define Inspiration as I do.  Inspiration comes from trusting one's judgment and responding to the gut feelings ASAP,  When you don't trust yourself, then you have to work at it.  Happy Monday.  A

Jul 25, 2016 12:27 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

It's all about choices and what we do with the choices we make. I like that photo. Happy Monday.

Jul 25, 2016 02:00 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Kathy - You're right, so why do I sometimes drive right into that storm? Maybe just for the excitement, or maybe because I'm distracted and not paying attention.

Jul 25, 2016 02:13 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Kathy -- and sometimes those detours provide more than a bit of perspective too.   

Jul 25, 2016 03:06 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Michael Jacobs is right.  Sometimes those detours lead you to something unexpected and wonderful!

Jul 25, 2016 03:12 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Kathy, excellent thought provoking post. I really like your picture. 

Jul 25, 2016 06:23 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Gita Bantwal Hope that you are off to a good start. 

Sheri Sperry - MCNE we should talk!  So was I!!!

Sheila Anderson it truly is. 

Donald Urschalitz humid though it may be, I can never complain about the weather. 

Jul 25, 2016 08:38 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good afternoon Kathy.  Great analogy, sometimes taking a different route will bring opportunities all the others overlook

Jul 25, 2016 08:48 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Sharon Lee and I wish you the same. 

Brian England exactly and we really do have choices.

Ron and Alexandra Seigel I love your definition of inspiration!

Hi Kathleen Daniels we all have to live with the choices we make so those might as well be ours.

Jul 25, 2016 08:56 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Dick Greenberg I think it's for the excitement and because it's doing something different. LOL

Michael Jacobs and that too.  We've had some interesting experiences on our detours. 

 

Jul 25, 2016 08:59 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sharon Tara I'm thinking of your RV!!!

Thank you Robert Bob Gilbert I hope this will be a good week for you. 

James Dray I agree.  I love doing that. 

Jul 25, 2016 09:01 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

You are so right and of course, so is Chuck Close- life is filled with hard choices but we make them and we learn to live with them.

Jul 25, 2016 10:44 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Kathy

So true there is always a choice . . . . and the choice is ours to make.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludiwg

Jul 25, 2016 12:28 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Thanks Kathy.  Yes, we always have a choice.  Though, sometimes the direction is not so easy to determine.

Jul 25, 2016 08:10 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Life is a series of decisions.  Some are good and some are not, but it's how we handle the bad choices that determines our success

Jul 26, 2016 12:19 PM
Cara Marcelle Mancuso
Golden Girls with SW Desert Homes - Tucson, AZ
Call a Marana neighbor, I'm THERE!

Awesome segway.  I think choices can color our thinking as well, and we CAN choose the positive.  Makes for a happier life!  Driving towards blue sky is a simply, yet profound way to add a positive spin as well.  :)

Jul 26, 2016 02:24 PM