Following Your Dreams - a young man's journey

I have posted on and off about my younger son who is a senior at Manheim Township High School and who will be attending college this fall in Denver, Colorado.  I'm dreading this summer because it will be his last full summer home, and these are his last few months here.  

 

But, on a happy note, my oldest son is also graduating this June.  I don't want to leave him out, because I am so super, super proud of him.  He will be graduating with his Bachelor's Degree in Film Production, from an accelerated program where he has attended school year round for the past two years!  He'll be getting his bachelor's degree after only 2 years of school, but has had no summer breaks and very limited free time, and usually had classes 6 days a week.  I have never seen this boy (now young man) so excited before; so excited about attending classes every day; so excited to tell me about his projects and his accomplishments.  Needless to say, we haven't seen him much over these past two years.  He left a boy, and he's coming back a young man with a dream and a vision.

A story that he wrote was chosen by his professors to be filmed as one of the class projects.  This is a huge deal, and was one of only 3 chosen out of about 200 submissions!  He did not get to direct it, and that nearly broke him.  He was just devastated that something that he wrote, lived and breathed for months would be something that he has no control over how it finally turns out in the end.  Being assigned to a different project altogether, his instructors told him that this is how the real world works.  Just because you write a screenplay, doesn't necessarily mean you get to direct it.  Real life hits hard.  His classmates were gracious enough to keep him informed of how the film was progressing, though, and he ended up enjoying the other film he was assigned to work on.

Since then, he's also co-wrote at least 3 other screenplays that were also chosen to be filmed as various class projects.  He's currently working on a commercial for a local movie theater, and a short documentary about something that I completely forgot about (I think it might have been about urban renewal). He has far too much going on, that I can't keep track!

He and his classmates call me "Muse Momma" because whenever they are stuck on an idea or a story line, they call me up and I somehow inspire ideas in their heads.  The funny thing is, this kid has no idea just how much he has inspired me.  He had gotten himself into some trouble in high school, and he's taught me that someone can turn their life around when they are passionate about something. 

He just wrapped up a film that was written by a classmate of his, "This Land", and he is now working on editing that film.  He's starting to look for entry level jobs in NYC beginning this fall.  Before he leaves for such a position, he's looking forward to spending some time in Lancaster County once again.

While growing up here, he complained that it was boring, that there was nothing to do, that it's dullHe has completely changed his mind, and now always talks about how much Lancaster County inspires him He chastises his friends who still live here for not appreciating the beauty around them, for not opening their eyes and seeing what a gift they have in front of them.  He dreams about the rolling countryside and the rivers.  He'd love to spend some time in Lancaster County filming on his own before leaving for the big city to pursue his dreams even further, and I'm looking forward to having him home for a short while before he continues on his journey. 

It's so easy to take for granted what is right in front of you.  His absence from Lancaster only taught him how much he loves it here, and how he was too young to appreciate it while he was growing up here.  Although he plans on furthering his career in New York City or elsewhere, I know he will always call Lancaster County his home. 

 

I'll be travelling to Florida for his graduation, immediately after my other son's high school graduation.  Oh boy, June will be a busy month! 

 

This kid WILL BE on the red carpet one of these days.  Mark my words!  And, he's promised to take his Muse Momma along to the awards with him.   I keep telling him that he needs to write a part for me, so I can be a Diva Muse Momma!  

 
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13 Comments on Following Your Dreams - a young man's journey

Jeannie - I love reading your posts about your family.  I am going to feature this one in Family Ties right now.  I bet you will be seeing your son at a big premiere in the not-too-distant future!

05/06/2008 12:14 AM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


Jeannie, nice ThemThem to you son. Thanks for sharing with the Group. Great job!

05/06/2008 04:37 AM by Duane Marlink, Rate A Home (Rate A Home)


JEANNIE - This is a great story, and it goes to show that passion in life is so important.  This hit so close to home for me.  I always knew that I would go to college, and it was something that I looked forward to for a long time.  However, once I got there, I found that most of the classes (particularly the required ones) were boring and uninspiring.  My grades in those classes were never as high as the grades in the classes that I was passionate about. 

Majoring in music industry, I loved learning about the different aspects of how the business worked.  I would come to find out later that most of the text book learning did not apply at all in the real world, but I was excited enough about the subject to excel in the classes.

Hindsight is a great teacher, and the lessons learned about the college experience stick with me today.  My personal feeling is that college is important, but the educational system is severely flawed.  I know that the whole experience is to make you more well-rounded, but I find that knowing a little bit about a lot of things (that you forget after you take the test) is nowhere near as important as focusing on learning something that will help you in life. 

It would be difficult for someone to finish school in 2 years, with no real vacation and a heavy workload if they weren't truly inspired by what they were doing.  Shouldn't that be the goal for all of us?  I applaud your son for doing something that will give him a running headstart into his future, rather than being filled with useless knowledge that brings him no closer to his goal.  I'm inspired by what he has done, and you should be very proud of him.  I'd like to meet him some day, and introduce him to my little guy, so that he can see what it's like when you love doing what you do.

 

05/06/2008 04:57 AM by Adam Waldman - Long Island REALTORĀ® (RE/MAX Best)


Jeannie, it's obvious why you are so proud of your son.  Not only has he overcome some former difficulties, he has found his muse and his passion.  Few of us are lucky enough to find that at any age.

I love the photograph at the bottom! 

05/06/2008 07:43 AM by Brian Schulman - Your Lancaster County, PA Real Estate Professional (Coldwell Banker Select Professionals)


Jason - Thank you so much for the kind comment and for the feature!  I'm just giving you a glimpse of what you can expect as your kids get older.  I would love to see him at a premiere in the future ~ and you can be sure I'd be posting about it!

Duane - Thanks again for stopping by!  Sometimes Them-Thems are more meaningful than MeMe's!

Adam - I agree with you completely, college is important but not all colleges and programs are the same and the system is flawed.  There is nothing wrong with looking for alternative learning experiences in an industry that you crave to learn about.  His two years cut out all of the "liberal arts" type classes that would have wasted an additional two years for him.  Instead, he was heavily immersed in "hands on" learning in the industry he loves.  We looked at Tisch at NYU and realized it's very textbook oriented, and film is not something you can learn out of a textbook.  Since you've studied and have been in the music industry, you probably know of the school he attened ~ Full Sail.  It's been an amazing school for him, and would be for anyone who is passionate about what they are doing.  The school my other son will be attending is also a bit alternative, in that they have an "upside down" curriculum, meaning that he gets to take some of his major classes during the first year in order to make sure that it is truly what he wants to do.  The last two years or so are more liberal arts type classes, giving him time to do work-study or internships.  A standard 4-year degree just doesn't cut it for everyone in this very fast moving, changing world we live in.

He certainly inspires a lot of people who meet him, and I would love for him to meet your son one day.  Since he plans on being in NY City to jumpstart his career, you'll have to get together with him (and feed him for me, since he'll be a starving artist!).

Thanks for your very kind post, Adam.

05/06/2008 07:58 AM by Jeannie Kontis - Lancaster Real Estate, Lancaster PA Homes for Sale (Long & Foster Real Estate, Lancaster PA)


Brian - It's true, many of us don't find our passion and we spend a lifetime looking for it.  Or, it comes at a time when life gets in the way and it's hard to follow it and make anything out of it.  Now my only hope is that he can make a living at doing what he loves!  I've always told my kids, find something that you love to do, and figure out a way to make a living out of it.  Personally, I'd like to lay on the beach with a margarita, but don't quite know how I can turn that into a career!

LOL - I love the photo at the bottom as well.  It clearly shows how much he loves what he does!  I'll have to get him to film a commercial for me before he moves on to bigger things!

05/06/2008 08:02 AM by Jeannie Kontis - Lancaster Real Estate, Lancaster PA Homes for Sale (Long & Foster Real Estate, Lancaster PA)


Jeannie,

My son received a BA in Technical Theater and loved it.  He currently is working for a company that sets up staging for shows and different types of entertainment.  My son does the sound systems and has met many famous people.  Even though he works odd hours, he loves his job.  Hmmmm.  I feel a post coming on.

05/06/2008 08:08 AM by Brigita McKelvie - Lehigh Valley, PA, Residential & Horse Properties (Vision Realty Group)


It shows that they listened to you when you explained about the virtues of hard work which will pay off. Get those comfortable shoes ready.

05/06/2008 09:33 AM by Robert L. Brown~Grand Rapids Real Estate Flexit Realty, West Michigan (www.mrbrownsellsgr.com)


Congratulations to your son on his graduation.  Tell him that his instructors are right.  In Hollywood, success allows you to do other things.  Oliver Stone started as a writer.  Clint Eastwood worked for free to direct his first film (Play Misty For Me).  It will happen, you just have to be patient.

05/06/2008 12:21 PM by Peter Wolf (Coldwell Banker)


Brigita - I am looking forward to reading that post!  I'd love to learn more about what he does.  Thanks for sharing!

Robert - He didn't always listen when we spoke of hard work.  In fact, he never listened!  He learned about it all on his own when he found something he loved.  And yes, I will have my comfy shoes ready for all of my travelling!

Peter - He's learned about hard work and rewards, and I hope he continues to learn about patience.  You shared some great examples, thank you!

05/06/2008 09:35 PM by Jeannie Kontis - Lancaster Real Estate, Lancaster PA Homes for Sale (Long & Foster Real Estate, Lancaster PA)


Jeannie - Thanks for sharing the successes your sons are experiencing.  It's exciting to remember that we all have different passions and interests that are vitally important.  Thank goodness we're all different and have a wide variey of careers paths available to us.  Best of luck to them.

05/06/2008 11:17 PM by Lynn Johnson, Owatonna, MN Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Home Connection)


Jeannie, this is a great post.  Kids do not turn out that way by accident... you should be very proud, and clearly you are.  Congratulations on YOUR accomplishment as a parent. :)

05/06/2008 11:17 PM by Steve Shatsky - Dallas Real Estate & Short Sale Specialist (Keller Williams-Dallas City Center)


Wonderful story Jeannie - with 3 kids of my own i often what kind of circomlocuted journey they shall take........You should be proud of your boys - and their Mama - Happy Mother's Day!

05/10/2008 01:34 AM by Liz Moras, Re/Max Associate Broker Chilliwack (Vancouver), B.C. (Remax Nyda Realty Chilliwack B.C.)


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