Cherish the Memories...Happy Father's Day

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams 414-525-0563 57026-90 Broker

     For everyone who is celebrating Father's Day with their Dad...enjoy every minute.  If you can't be with him physically and get to make that phone call...cherish that opportunity.

   For those of us who no longer have our Fathers on this earthly plane....this is a day when there is a flood of memories that bring both smiles and tears.  This is a great picture of both my parents standing in their dining room...Dad wearing his signature bow tie. 

     Frank J. & Vera L. Repa The time that Marshall Field's had the "most beautiful prom dress in the world" ....and Dad said "order it in your size."   

       Teaching me how to drive and when parallel parking he said ..."Pretend there is a car and park behind it." (I did tap the bumper of the "pretend car" on my first test and flunked it...you do learn from experience !)

        Buying my first car from Dad's poker Buddy....making my own payments over three summer paychecks until it was officially "mine."  Oh that Buick LeSabre drove through the snow and served me well....sold it for the same price I bought it for years later. 

     Driving to college...six hours one way and we always stopped at the same restaurants and ordered the same meals...he especially loved "The Teepee" and their ribs in 

Tomah, WI on the way to the University of Wisconsin River Falls which is my alma mater.  (Some things are better remembered than revisited...times and owners change.)

    Dinners with Dad while my Mom taught antiques classes once a week every fall semester for many years. Father Daughter time that was irreplaceable.

     The walk down the aisle at our wedding...and hearing the minister say...."Who gives this woman in holy matrimony....."Her Mother and I " he said in a choking tone I can still hear. 

    Helping us build our house....he and David spending the summer staining woodwork bring there every morning at  7:00.  One day he overslept and was hurrying to get to our house....my mother urging him to slow down and have breakfast, "They aren't going to fire you," she reminded him.

     We always said that my Dad never met a Slot machine he didn't like...and we took him and Mom to Green Bay for overnight trips. Again...always stopping at the same restaurant on the way.  When we did, David would always whisper to the waitress it was my Dad's birthday. (It never was on that day.) The whole staff would bring and sing to him and would never of course allow him to pay the check which was always the point of the "celebration" so we could treat to the meal." 

       The last 3.5 months of this life were in the hospital...and I can't go there in daily memories even now....no one wanted to live more than he did and no one wanted it to be as much as My mom, David and me....but that was not to be.

       I miss you and Mom every day Dad....and on some level I know you believe that . We live our lives knowing that you would be proud of the adults we have become. You were more a parent to David than his own who were gone years before and that is a relationship he too will always cherish.

       Happy Father's Day Everyone...Cherish the Memories...

                      Sally K. & David L. Hanson

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Monique Ting
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Thank you Sally for sharing those precious memories of your beloved dad!

I too have lost mine. It was 25 years ago, yet the memories he left are as fresh and sweet as if it was just yesterday. We are indeed blessed to have had wonderful fathers..

I wish that everyone that still have theirs on this earth have a great relationship with their dad. Happy father's day to all the dads!

Jun 18, 2017 12:12 AM #1
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Gita Bantwal
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Thank you for sharing your memories of your dad with us. I lost my dad seven years ago . I too have wonderful memories 

Jun 18, 2017 02:16 AM #2
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Barbara Todaro
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Good morning, Sally K. & David L. Hanson as I read your post, my eyes filled with tears.... what a beautiful remembrance... you're the best....

Jun 18, 2017 03:48 AM #3
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Kat Palmiotti
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What a beautiful post of memories of your dad. I too have wonderful memories of my dad, which make me smile every day. Cherish those memories!

Jun 18, 2017 03:48 AM #4
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James Dray
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Good morning Sally.  I fell the pain, lost my dad in 1977.  Still miss him to this day

Jun 18, 2017 04:08 AM #5
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Nina Hollander
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Good morning, Sally... I have no words, just tears in my eyes... this post about your Dad was so touching.

Jun 18, 2017 04:29 AM #6
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Gabe Sanders
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Thank you, Sally and David.  I hope all the fathers in your life also will enjoy a wonderful Father's Day.

Jun 18, 2017 05:28 AM #7
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Grant Schneider
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Sally and David - I just had a wonderful party with both my daughters yesterday.  My sister posted a picture of our dad on Facebook.  Wonderful memories.

Jun 18, 2017 06:17 AM #8
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Brian England
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So many great memories of a wonderful Dad!  I hope that your weekend is being enjoyed!

Jun 18, 2017 06:17 AM #9
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Joan Cox
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Sally & David, you are so right, enjoy that time while you have it.   These are the days I miss my Dad the most.

Jun 18, 2017 06:20 AM #10
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
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Oh, how I love this post, Sally and as I sit here with tears in my eyes, I think how lucky we were to have such wonderful fathers. Others are not as kind, giving, fun-loving as ours and we will forever carry out their legacy - and know that from above, they ARE proud.

Jun 18, 2017 06:23 AM #11
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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Sally. This is a lovely memory and tribute to both your parents. They would be proud of you I'm sure.

Jun 18, 2017 07:10 AM #12
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Michael Jacobs
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Good morning, Sally -- what a beautifully written post.  Such wonderful memories.   

Jun 18, 2017 09:19 AM #13
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Joe Pryor
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I don't think about the last two years of my Dad's life and can't even make my mind see images. I just see the younger and stronger version in my thoughts and dreams.

Jun 18, 2017 09:57 AM #14
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John Pusa
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Sally K. & David L. Hanson Very true. Cherish the memories. Happy Father's Day to you s well.

Jun 18, 2017 10:28 AM #15
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Sally those are very special memories of your father.  I have some very special ones of my father as well, and hope I am creating special memories for my to sons.

Jun 18, 2017 04:11 PM #16
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Will Hamm
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Hello and Happy Monday,  everyone is different with the memories of their dad on father day,  I guess I missed out on some,  my parents always were business in the restaurant business so we never had ac chance to do holiday other then Thanksgiving , christmas and New year day,  other then that I was work side by side them at a young age.

 

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