The best way to handle Real Estate Challenges and Obstacles...

Endre Barath, Jr. 
So true --- "So, my point is no need to get all worked up when faced with a problem, just look at the issues and solve them! " Put that energy into a solution! All the best - Lynn

There’s an old expression about “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.” It’s always best to be yourself in this case

Take the emotion out of real estate...not happening for many...agents need great listening skills and obectivity...and compassion...that is a biggy.

Morning Endre, I couldn't agree more.  To get there, people need to be open to listening to other points of view on an issue.  Have a great day!

Good morning Endre Barath, Jr.,

So glad to see your post featured! It's so annoying to me to see other agents become part of the problem! We are problem solovers! I hate drama and love working with other agents who are on the same page as me. My son is the same way. He once won a home for his clients in a multiple offer situation. He simply stated "I'm not into drama, my clients and I will make this a no hassle transaction." The listing agent said I know your reputation you are a professional and your clients have won the bidding war. Two other agents were known for their drama antics and it didn't work in their favor.

There's a delicate balance between making a blanket statement (i.e. banning straws) and then making exceptions and allowances for certain groups of people. Once you open the can of worms, it becomes unmanageable. 

I started out in this business maintaining my will to only work 9-5, but quickly made exceptions for certain people at certain times and now I work 24/7. No matter where you draw the line, there are always exceptions.

Hi Endre Barath, Jr., not just in real estate but almost in every profession, we can find those who react with emotions fully charged. There's something else going on underneath, whatever that may be, just leave it at the door. When we react with emotions, the outcome isn't usually good. Well deserved feature!

Best way to I handle Real Estate Challenges and Obstacles....I stay in bed!  lol...Just kidding, great blog.  I'm so glad to be back here learning  and re-learning from all my friends.  

Hi Endre

There usually are consequences of actions that are taken...sometimes good, sometimes not. It's cetrtainly best to think through those potential issues, including in our business, and not let emotions rule the decision making.

Jeff

For some it's difficult to focus on the solution rather than the problem.  The solution to the straw debate, for example, could be to use PAPER straws.  In fact, I'm pretty sure that many of us will remember sipping milk out of small cartons at school through a paper straw.  You don't have to throw the baby out with the bathwater.  

SOLUTIONS require defining the problem, and then moving on to the solution.  To use your straw example, the PROBLEM is the STRAW, not the USE of straws.  The plastic straws were said to be harming sea life.  Paper straws would disintegrate in a short time after being submerged in sea water.

For many people selling their home is very emotional...we as professionals need to keep our heads clear and stick to the business of real estate for our clients. Solve Problems not be part of the problem

the straw thing is just an example of how things are done these days  those who yell the loudest in groups get their way. no real thought about the consequences...

Plastic Bags are now being replaced with paper bags...remember when we replaced paper bags with plastic to save the  TREES? we have come full circle on that one... are trees no longer important? Has the rain forest fully recovered and we can cut it down again? 

There is always a way to figure out how to do something (when cool heads prevail). In our deals, it's us to up to keep everything as simple and smooth for our clients, so we are the ones who have to figure out solutions. In society as well, there should be ways to resolve these my-way-or-the-highway things.

Regarding straws, some people need them, so since the plastic is the issue (and not the actual straw), we should be coming up with another material to use. Same with the plastic/paper/cloth bag dilemma.

Good post!

When emotions rule thought, clear thinking is hindered.

Blanket statements often open up a situation that is detrimental to another.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Another simple solution is for people with disabilities to buy their own reusable straw.  They are sturdy, dishwasher safe and easy to stow!  I so appreciate your post.  Resolving issues where everyone wins is a "win win!"