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Get Out of Bed On the Wrong Side?

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Home Stager

Get Out of Bed On the Wrong Side?

 

We all know this phrase, don’t we? The other day while having breakfast out, we had a server who must have done just that.

She was cranky and short with those she was serving, and not much better to bad moodthose she worked with. Had there been a smile, it was now replaced with a grimace.

 

At one point when she went back towards the kitchen, I heard a co-worker say to her…

What’s the matter with you? Did you get up on the wrong side of the bed?? If you did, get back in and get out on the other side. We don’t need you here like that.

 

We’ve all been there, done that when for some reason we woke up in a bad mood. But, there no reason to ruin your day and that of anyone else you meet.

 

I like what that lady had to say to her out-of-sorts co-worker. Of course, we can’t all literally get back in bed and get out on the other side.

 

How to mentally get out on the right side of the bed?

Meditation

Yoga breaths

Think of someone else instead of yourself.

Think of something or someone that is good in your life.

Read a feel-good story

Read a daily life joke from a site.

Download one of the many apps that can help you with daily positive thoughts.

 

So, there you have it. The next time you have any thoughts of getting out on the wrong side of the bed….don’t!

 

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Kathy Streib
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Comments(31)

Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I can't imagine a worse place for an employee to wake up on the wrong side of the bed, than a waitress in a restaurant.  

I like your list of ways to combat that "wrong side of the bed" condition, Kathy, especially that taking yoga breaths.  I've learned it even alleviates headaches.

Aug 17, 2018 08:35 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Kathy, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Aug 17, 2018 08:35 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Everyday we face some challenges. Never let anybody or anything cloud up your sunshine.

Aug 17, 2018 09:27 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Kathy Streib - I start my day by walking out into my front courtyard or backyard and smelling the fresh crisp pine-scented air. Then I look around at the wildlife, birds and bees and take a moment to thank the universe for another morning! Then I grab COFFEE! LOL!

Aug 17, 2018 09:43 AM
Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
Serving the Treasure & Paradise Coasts of Florida

With 3 sides to exit as long as I can get out of bed they're all on the "right" side.

Aug 17, 2018 10:11 AM
Amanda S. Davidson
Amanda Davidson Real Estate Group Brokered By Real - Alexandria, VA
Alexandria Virginia Homes For Sale

Kathy, I always try to talk to someone and make them smile if they're crabby. When it comes it wait staff a lot of times they have a story to share for their mood and then it changes. That said, we're all accountable for our mood and being in a bad one doesn't serve anyone well. I like that her co-worker said something to her. 

Aug 17, 2018 10:59 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

For me, putting on some upbeat music that I love helps me re-focus and re-work my attitude.

Aug 17, 2018 01:56 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I don't have a problem with getting up on the wrong side of the bed.  I love to sleep so the challenge is getting up ......  LOL

Aug 17, 2018 02:29 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I admit it...I have a very hard time putting on a happy face if I'm hurt or tired or frustrated about something. I'm a huge baby when it comes to pain.

This week we took Jack and Tom on a road trip in the RV to Santa's Village. Jack (nine years old) fell off the monkey bars and his tooth slammed into his knee. It was bleeding and it swelled up really big. It was just minutes before we were to leave for an entire day at Santa's Village.

I couldn't believe how well he handled it. I iced it and gave him some Tylenol and off we went. He was a real trooper, as his lip grew and started to take over his face as the day went along.

When I told him later how proud I was of him he said "I knew we were going somewhere fun and I didn't want to ruin it for everyone else."

Nine years old. Proud Neena moment.

Aug 17, 2018 04:43 PM
Carol Williams

What a great kid, Sharon!

Aug 19, 2018 06:18 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

I hear you Nina Hollander I had a moment today when I was at the market. It passed. 

Wayne Martin I agree, it's a lot easier being in a good mood. 

Gita Bantwal Thank you, and hope all is well with you. 

Aug 17, 2018 05:07 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Dorie Dillard you're so right. If a person doesn't want to change their attitude, all we can do is back away! LOL

Gabe Sanders Me too. I loved the spunk that her coworker had. 

Brian England I would think a smile from you would make most anyone smile!!!

Aug 17, 2018 05:10 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sally K. & David L. Hanson too many people make it all about them. Just think how their attitude would change if they could think of others. 

Joe Pryor ever since my uncle explained to me what an optimist was when I was just a little kid, I've done my best to be just that. 

Aug 17, 2018 05:12 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Donald Urschalitz I'm the same way. If the service is exceptional, I'll be generous with my tip. 

Ron and Alexandra Seigel isn't that so true. What we all want is to be acknowledged, right? That is so kind of both of you to do that. 

Aug 17, 2018 05:14 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Ok, Michael Jacobs if you say so!!!

Myrl Jeffcoat I use yoga breaths all of the time, especially when I'm sitting in the dentist's chair! LOL   Thank you for the feature in your group. 

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I think it's smart not to let others interfere with our happiness.

Aug 17, 2018 05:18 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sheri Sperry - MCNE® I love getting up early and getting outside for a walk! It's the way to jumpstart my day. 

Kevin J. May good point!  And yes, as long as I can get up, then I'm happy. 

Amanda S. Davidson I think we should try to offer a smile or sympathetic ear when we see someone who is having a bad day. 

Aug 17, 2018 05:21 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Chris Ann Cleland oh yes, we play Pharrell Williams "Happy." when we need a pick me up. 

George Souto I do sometimes but once I'm up, I'm up!!!

Sharon Tara Yea Jack!!!!   What a trooper he was!!! We have to catch up. 

Aug 17, 2018 05:25 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Kathy.

We've all been there, at this stage in my life there is no stress, or worries.  I always get up on the right side of the bed literally.  My wife has claimed the left side

Aug 18, 2018 01:27 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Thanks for including the links to uplifting alternatives. Happy music always lifts my spirits when I'm glum.

Aug 18, 2018 03:28 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning again Kathy. This is true: too bad. I am having a great day today. I decided.

Aug 19, 2018 05:04 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I'm late checking in but glad I didn't miss this post.  Nobody wants to be around a sourpuss.  Sometimes we just have to suck it up, don't we.  Focusing on others is a great tactic to get out of a funk. 

Aug 19, 2018 06:21 AM