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Silence is Golden When Showing Homes to Buyers

Reblogger Barbara Todaro
Services for Real Estate Pros with RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired 104763

Silence is golden, inside and outside of the home....technology is not always noticeable.....

Original content by Jeff Dowler, CRS CA DRE #01490977

Silence May be Golden When Showing Homes to Buyers

 

I had a number of showings today and the smart home technology (Ring Video doorbell, Nest Thermostat, a couple of devices that appeared to be Alexa-type devices) was immediately noticeable in one home.

 

It was another vivid reminder to comment to my client that we needed to be cautious about our conversations while in that house, and other homes we were to see. Maybe there was nothing to worry about...maybe there was! The buyer got it immediately.

 

Smart technology that allows homeowners to listen and/or record activity in their homes…including Realtors showing them…is becoming pretty commonplace, and it’s smart to keep in mind that silence may be golden between you and your buyers in any house, whether you see cameras and other potential recording equipment or not.

 

And even standing outside the front door and having a conversation could be an issue.

 

security cameraBear in mind that equipment may be rather obvious...a tell-tale blinking red light...or not noticeable at all.

 

Being silent may be stretching it a bit, and an innocuous conversation about the home might be fine.

 

But certainly, as a buyer, talking about how much you love the property, that you are considering possibly making an offer, and similar comments that could threaten your negotiations are best left to another place and time.

 

Silence IS golden when and where you might be observed, or worse, overheard.

 

I’m no expert but I suspect all states regulate the use of audio and video recording in one way or another, including issues like one and two-party consent. No doubt the laws vary substantially, so it’s important to find out what the requirements are in your area. What might be allowed in one state might not be permitted at all, say here in California for example.

 

And there’s also the issue of disclosure. If your state requires it, a seller may need to visibly disclose that such equipment is in use or present, or at least that may be a recommendation. The CA listing agreement addresses this briefly, stating that buyers may not be aware they might be recorded by audio or visual devices the seller has installed (e.g., “nanny cams”) but sellers are advised – note, they are NOT required – to post a notice disclosing the presence of security devices.

 

It’s another challenge to be aware of, since we want, and need, to have dialogues with our buyer clients about what they like and don’t like about homes. Buyers typically have questions about properties they are touring that need answers, and comment about what they like, and don’t like (wouldn’t the sellers love to hear THAT conversation?). Of course we want to provide the best guidance we can and point out things they should be aware of.

 

But in our competitive market, when homes can disappear fairly quickly, buyers may, in their excitement, start talking about making an offer, and at a particular price, or might wonder out loud “how much do you think we should offer?”. As agents we want to get their feedback on the home.

 

That’s all well and good, but it’s not information you want to share with a seller, much as they might love to hear it!

 

Rather than risk sharing information that could jeopardize the buyer’s ability to negotiate, should they decide to do so, better keep in mind that silence is golden. Just because the state law may govern what a homeowner can and cannot do, and the need to disclose, does not mean they will.

 

It’s obviously a complex issue that will only get more complicated as laws changes, MLSs impose regulations, and court cases test the existing laws, and possible lawsuits between buyers and sellers, and potentially agents.

 

Here’s what NAR has to say (note it’s from 2016).

 

Any advice or experiences you care to share?

 

 

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Comments(18)

James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Barbara.

While I always tell my clients about making any comments about the home while we are inside, most usually make some comment, good or bad 

Nov 16, 2018 03:15 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

That is a concern.  Listing agents should ask sellers and disclose that on the listing. Invasion of buyer privacy, wrong in many ways.  Smart technology that allows homeowners to listen and/or record activity in their homes…including Realtors showing them…is becoming pretty commonplace, and it’s smart to keep in mind that 

silence may be golden between you and your buyers in any house whether you see cameras and other potential recording equipment or not.

Nov 16, 2018 03:24 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Oh yes... I've been telling my buyers for years to be very circumspect about what they say in a home because we really don't know if we are being recorded. And I see people using baby monitors for that as well to listen in from next door.

Nov 16, 2018 03:45 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Are you aware of the murder trial going on in New England where there was an Alexa on the counter top and the prosecutors are trying to get the Alexa unlocked to see what is recorded on the device? 

Nov 16, 2018 04:09 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson

Yicks ...had not heard this !

Nov 16, 2018 11:03 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

This is a great choice for a reblog, I am going to head over to Jeff's blog now and check it out.  I hope you have a wonderful day my dear friend!

Nov 16, 2018 04:12 AM
Anita Clark
Coldwell Banker Access Realty ~ 478.960.8055 - Warner Robins, GA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA

With all the modern gizmos and gadgets available, it makes sense to keep quiet until you get in the car. Never give your position away or you lose negotiation power. Good re-blog choice, Barbara.

Nov 16, 2018 04:20 AM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Real Estate LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Joyce Marsh Homes

I agree with the other comments here but especially keep quiet until you get back in the car otherwise you might be giving away your negotiating position.

Nov 16, 2018 05:25 AM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Thanks for re-blogging, Barbara. I have missed this wonderful blog.

Nov 16, 2018 05:33 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Barbara. Jeff makes great points but keeping buyers silent is harder than we think! Enjoy your day!

Nov 16, 2018 05:42 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Barbara - oh yes.  That is something we must consider today.  Mum is the word.

Nov 16, 2018 06:11 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Barbara. This is an excellent re-blog choice and raises a lot of issues.

Nov 16, 2018 06:18 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Barbara, we see these SMART features in homes too, and best to keep quiet while showing! 

Nov 16, 2018 06:23 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Barbara, for sharing this excellent reblog selection.

Nov 16, 2018 07:28 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

Silence is best...plenty of places/times for discussion elsewhere.

Nov 16, 2018 11:03 AM
Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Barbara, in NC it is illegal to record without notice, but how will you ever know if you are being recorded. I ALWAYS TELL CLIENTS TO SAVE ANYTHING BUT GENERAL COMMENTS UNTIL WE GET BACK TO THE CAR!!

Nov 18, 2018 02:30 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

thanks, everyone, for your nice comments....they're always appreciated....

Nov 18, 2018 02:44 PM
Gordon Crawford
Gordon Crawford Home Selling Team - Morristown, NJ
Your Morris County Specialist!

Another wise post, Barbara.  More and more homes have cameras and recording devises.  I caution my buyers before we even get to the property to keep that in mind.  Silence truly is golden.

Dec 15, 2018 04:21 AM