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Asian American Support Goes Viral

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Asian American Support Goes Viral

 

Often, getting the first words down are the hardest. "Writer's block."  But not this time. 

 

So let me start by condemning the recent incident of gun violence against Asian Americans in Atlanta.  Let me take the opportunity to communicate to all Americans of all races that discrimination, in all forms, is wrong and will not be tolerated.  Not in my business, not in my community, not in the private confines of my home.  

 

Specifically with violence against Asian Americans, statistics show an increase in verbal and physical assaults since the onset of COVID-19. So the next time you get a chance to talk about the pandemic --- anywhere with anyone --- don't call it, or allow it to be called, the China virus or the Wuhan flu.  Not because there isn't a kernel of truth in its place of origin, but because we can readily call it COVID and everyone will still know exactly what we mean. 

 

Call it COVID because then your language, intentional or otherwise, won't hit anyone's ear offensively and won't stand even a remote chance of being indiscriminately harmful.  I know, you've heard prominent individuals and certain news media personalities offer cover for making a cultural issue of the virus. But let's accept xenophobic smalltalk for what it is --- a license for someone bolder, coarser, and perhaps even legitimately sinister to push the boundary of another's rights just that much further in the wrong direction.

 

We can debate the forensic anatomy of the Atlanta crime and whether anyone's words in particular led to this shooter's behavior.  Due process should be allowed to run its course in due time --- also an American right.  But it is indisputable, today, that our individual responsibility to upholding the dignity of all Americans, through actions big and small, contributes to a more just, peaceful and inclusive society.  

 

In my profession, required continuing education reinforces the laws aimed at preventing discrimination in housing; ECOA, FHA, FCRA, etc. Not only were these created with good intention, they were created to address bad practice.  It's essential that we live their values each day because, even through the language we use with our prospects and clients, we have the profound ability to affect the lives of others in very real ways.  For decades, access to home ownership has been denied to otherwise worthy Americans exclusively on the basis of race, sexuality, marital status or other classifications.  Rest assured the discrimination was not always blatant, and certainly at least some of it happened in the presence of good people who didn't or couldn't prevent it.  In solidarity with my Asian American neighbors, I feel compelled to say, "Not any more and not on my watch."

 

Still, it must be accepted that tackling overt discrimination and preventing acts of violence that shock the conscience cannot be expected to fall within any single individual's control.  It takes villages to do that.  So to all of us, in our unique positions as members of diverse and straddling communities; home, school, race, church, sport, neighborhood, sexual orientation, hobby and interest, I understand it's become increasingly difficult in a culture of high-velocity information exchange to remain outside of range on the core issues of who we are as a nation.  Regardless, I encourage you speak up.  Let's commit to begin with the manner in which we communicate, the words we choose and our effort to have those words heard by those around us.

 

As a grandchild of Italian immigrants myself, I support and welcome the Asian American community --- I always have.  But the days of doing so silently are over.  Our doors are open and they will always find in me a supporter of their equal rights as individuals and a restless champion for their pursuit of happiness here in the United States.

 

E pluribus unum, 

 

 

 

Robert J. Spinosa
Vice President of Mortgage Lending

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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Rob- As an Asian American whose parents were born here, I thank you. I've lived here all my life and never experienced any overt discrimination or name-calling. And for the first time in my 71 years, when I went to a local Asian-owned retail store, I was warned by the young Asian owner to be careful. 

I believe that most of the people in our great country feel as you do. But hatred and the misplaced cancel culture trend have caused a divide in the country that I've never seen before. 

 

Mar 20, 2021 06:42 PM
Rob Spinosa

You are welcome, Kathy.  Literally and figuratively.

Mar 20, 2021 08:17 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

I'm saddened by this and am always amazed that any segment of the population is targeted for any reason. My God, it's 2021, shoudn't we be more evolved as a society? Like Kathy, my heart is saddened over the division we see in our country right now - and the overt hatred. 

Mar 20, 2021 07:16 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

There is no place in society for hatred of any kind. I have no tolerance for anyone who spews hate for anything or anyone!!!  We don't have to like what's going on but hate and violence accomplishes nothing but more divide. 

I am opposed to any kind of discrimination, whether it be against a particular ethnic group, sexual preference, or someone who looks different by the way they dress, how much they weigh, or whatever.  Truth be known, we all have our prejudices and we need to get over them!!!   Respect others as you wish to be respected. 

Mar 21, 2021 08:10 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Rob I do believe most Americans are not discriminating against any one type of people.  I never have and never will. All are welcome. What I do see this past , let's say 6 or 8 years is that the 'woke' culture has been geared up to divide Americans, all Americans. It is a planned approach to move things in their direction starting from the schools on up.  It's up to each one of us to make a clear stand and not allow them to divide us or take over the American Spirit.

Mar 21, 2021 10:39 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree with you...it has started in our schools up through and including our colleges, Anna. 

Mar 21, 2021 11:11 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Yes Kathy....people would be wise to pay attention to the education kids are receiving.

Mar 22, 2021 12:27 PM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Ron, your post is a well written and its sentiments are spot-on.   I applaud you for taking this stand.

 

Mar 21, 2021 04:12 PM