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Facts versus the Gist

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Education & Training with The Lones Group, Inc.

The Lones Group, Inc.

Facts versus the Gist

Are you a facts agent? Or are you a gist agent?

It likely depends on the situation, your personality, your frame of mind, and what the situation really calls for. How you like to receive information may also be different than how you prefer to provide information.

The gist isn't a bad thing - you still make your point, but sometimes the gist is made much more powerful with facts.

As a professional, it is important to know what the moment calls for, but you should always be prepared for both.

For example, if your analytical buyer says, "There is just nothing on the market. I am going to wait until next year and maybe prices will come down," you have to ask yourself if that is a gist moment or a fact moment. What is more effective? Well, which statement do you find more powerful?

"You could wait, but I think prices are going to continue to go up."

OR

"Between 2018 and 2019, median sales prices in our area grew 7%. Between 2019 and 2020, they grew 9.3%. I don't have a crystal ball, but nothing is indicating prices are coming down and in fact, they have risen .8% since the end of December."

The second statement is much more powerful, and will probably get their buyer to think twice about waiting, but most agents don't have stats like that at the ready or they don't have confidence that what they remember is correct.

When I was a new agent, and remember, I was very young, I made learning and memorizing stats a priority. This made it very easy for me to rattle off a fact or figure when the moment presented itself. I didn't memorize pages of them, but I did have maybe ten stats I memorized each month that were ready to go. This small thing that I did transformed my confidence and my business.

Think about some other professionals you have in your life and if you expect facts or the gist in their communication. If you go to the doctor because your back is having problems, what response do you expect?

"Your back is bad. I'll recommend some physical therapy."

OR

"You have a bulge between L4 and L5 that is caused by a herniated disc. In addition to heat, ice, rest, and physical therapy I would like to watch it for about six weeks. In six weeks, come back and we may do an MRI depending on what we find. We will provide you with instructions for these next steps as well as the referral for physical therapy."

Or your accountant...

"Wow! You owe the IRS a lot of money!"

OR

"It looks like you owe $14,432 for your taxes last year. I have printed out the voucher for payment as well as your estimated quarterly tax vouchers for next year. If you can put $30,000 in your retirement plan, we can offset most of the balance owing. Would you like to explore that?"

"But Denise! I can't possibly have all the facts committed to memory that I would need to come up with in conversation!"

Of course not! A good strategy, though, is to focus on a larger area and then offer to follow up with facts for a smaller area. That way when you are asked a question like, "I hear that prices are off the charts! What are you seeing?"

You can say, "I can't believe it either. Buyers want to buy, but there is so little inventory, it is driving up prices. Would you believe that in XX County, median sales prices reached $XXX,XXX last month? But you live in XXX City and probably want to know what is happening there. Can I send you a report that shows exactly what is happening with prices in your area?"

Offering a fact provides credibility, an opportunity to share your expertise, and in this case, provided an opportunity to follow-up!

Take a few hours and add some facts to your real estate conversation arsenal and watch your confidence level soar!

 

By Denise Lones CSP, M.I.R.M., CDEI - The founding partner of The Lones Group, Denise Lones, brings nearly three decades of experience in the real estate industry. With agent/broker coaching, expertise in branding, lead generation, strategic marketing, business analysis, new home project planning, product development, Denise is nationally recognized as the source for all things real estate. With a passion for improvement, Denise has helped thousands of real estate agents, brokers, and managers build their business to unprecedented levels of success, while helping them maintain balance and quality of life.

The Lones Group, Inc.

Comments(22)

Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Denise I am all about facts... no sugar coating either must be the Airborne Ranger Infantry Captain in me.... plus I do not forget the truth if I was embellishing it I would have to remember all that... too much work and effort... truth and facts are easier to remember, Endre

Feb 18, 2021 08:45 PM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

I'm also a facts agent but only with accurate facts because nowadays you had best validate the facts, don't you?

Feb 19, 2021 01:13 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Denise- I love this. Years ago I was an affiliate with my local WCR. The guest speaker was one of the top agents in Florida. She lived in a county on the other side of the state. She asked all the agents certain questions about stats in our county. No one knew but she did!

Feb 20, 2021 11:31 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

Excellent blog and I really appreciate the concrete examples!  As agents it's always best to back up information with fact.  The market hasn't "slowed down' here for the past four years!

Feb 20, 2021 12:56 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Feb 20, 2021 05:03 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I always prefer the facts, whether it is what I want to hear or not.  I don't like it when people spread information that is not factual.

Feb 21, 2021 04:31 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Being an engineer for me it is all about the black and white of facts, and not the gray of the gist

Feb 21, 2021 04:52 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Denise Lones -  If I don't have all of the facts I don't wing it.  I promise to get back with additional information.  Of course, that does not apply the the things that I should know to be authoritative in my profession.  You made great points here.

Feb 21, 2021 05:53 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Denise Lones just as Joe Friday always said, "only the facts ma'am"....

Feb 21, 2021 06:07 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Superb advice, Denise.  Having a good handle on our markets gives us the confidence we need to keep people properly informed. 

Feb 21, 2021 06:23 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Denise. I certainly like your line of thinking. Thanks for the reminder. Enjoy your day.

Feb 21, 2021 06:30 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Great choice for Kathy Streib to share this week!

I love the examples you use to prove your point!

Feb 21, 2021 07:05 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Facts are much more powerful, especially when boiled down to a swallowable point for clients who get overwhelmed with the info.

Feb 21, 2021 10:23 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

I think facts make us, and the information we share, more credible. Anyone can just provide the gist. It's one of the reasons I like doing market reports every month.

Feb 21, 2021 03:46 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Denise Lones ,

I'm so glad Kathy Streib featured your post in her "Ah-ha" moments for the week. You really gave some great visuals to get your point across. Facts catch the attention and are always more powerful then generalities!

Feb 21, 2021 07:38 PM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Denise, excellent examples for presenting facts in response to client objections to help them move in the direction they really want to go - to buy or sell a home.  The facts structure the conversation with strength, rather than a nebulous comment without specifics.  Thanks for this post.

Feb 21, 2021 11:56 PM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

Great post Denise.  I too like to keep things to the facts ... makes a point and you can't argue with truth!

Feb 22, 2021 06:39 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Good Morning Denise and thanks for sharing this interesting blog with here in the Rain.

 

Feb 22, 2021 09:48 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

90% of so much in life is abou point of you and how we look at things and that's really all that it is.

Mar 26, 2021 10:33 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

I had not thought about the distinction between fact and gist - thanks for highlighting it

Mar 27, 2021 05:49 AM