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LEARN TO ACCEPT SUCCESSS

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

This may surprise you, but there is something called FEAR of success that sabotages many people out there and is subtle when going about its business. It is a subconscious suggestion usually rooted in some past traumatic or shocking event that doesn't allow one to receive their just due, dessert or rewards for actions taken in the present

FEAR AS A MOTIVATOR

At the other end of the spectrum is something called FEAR of failure that is equally at work propelling one to excel, plod along and keep pursuing the business model or personal gain at all costs. The FEAR aspect of it has to be examined and then dismissed. As a motivator, it may work but is not good company to keep

FEAR MUST BE EXPOSED

FEAR can be used as a survival mechanism and as a way to manipulate others and even ones self. It is not part of the original creation of man, but a learned response to the world we now find ourselves in. It will creep into many a child's Psyche and hitch a ride unknown to the person themselves. Living life and risking brings it to the surface to be dealt with

ROBBER LURKING IN THE SHADOWS

Many people work hard and long to accomplish a dream or mindset and move toward that expecting a fulfillment or satisfaction for something coming full circle in their lives. But something within ourselves if not checked will rear its ugly head and rob us of the grand or well earned finale. You are allowed to reap what you sew as well as being worthy of recompense too

IT IS NOT HARD TO SUCCEED...BUT HARD TO ACCEPT

It is much easier to accept the FEAR of success than it is to accept the FEAR of failure. Although I must tell you that right before you can taste that success, a storm of obstacles will present themselves with you being the main one of them that will cause you to doubt it all. This is the FEAR at work and if you stay the course, it will flee and you and your success will be left standing

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Really interesting post Richie. I have never really thought of it that way.

Jul 23, 2012 12:31 AM
Dan Hopper
Dan Hopper - Gold Way RE - Westminster, CO
Colorado Broker / Referral Services

Thanks for this topic, Richie.  You are so correct about THIS FEAR.   Too many have that fear of success, and thus we tend to not do what is necessary for MORE success. 

Jul 23, 2012 12:37 AM
Chuck Carstensen
RE/MAX Results - Elk River, MN
Minnesota/Wisconsin Real Estate Expert

I think when I have it rolling I do tend to look back and say "It cant keep up" and really it can...why not.

Jul 23, 2012 12:38 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Jeffrey...this robs good men of what is there's more often than not...NO MORE

Dan...It is incredibly easy to succeed as the whole nation and concept of America is themed on this very principal

Chuck...what a satisfying and profound comment...its simplicity gives it tremendous legs...well done my friend

Jul 23, 2012 01:11 AM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

 

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Economic fear saps my creativity and energy. As you say Richie, it is not a goood motivator... although it does get you up and serious in your pursuit of business.

We all do much better when we do not feel "chased".

Jul 23, 2012 01:54 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Steve....down to earth commenting...well done. BTW...Fear is like Adrenaline. It is a good thing,  and has a purpose, but is not sustainable for the body or the well being long term. Use fear until you don't need it anymore...was my preference..best Steve and hello to the little lady if you will 

Jul 23, 2012 02:01 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

WORTHY NOTE:...MEN ARE THE ONES RESPONDING

Jul 23, 2012 02:02 AM