Please excuse me for returning to an old real estate grammar rant...
More and more lately I've noticed bloggers referring to themselves or other people as "that" rather than who.
"When you want an agent that has your best interests at heart..."
"The young man that made the offer on..."
You get the idea.
Maybe I shouldn't let it bug me, but it does, because "that" refers to a thing, not a person. When you're talking about yourself or some other person, use "who."
There's some debate among grammarians over whether "who" should be used in reference to pets, and there I also stand firm: If someone has a name, he or she is a "who." It may be a dog, a cat, a horse, or a cow, but if he/she has enough of a personality and differentiation from the herd to possess a name, I say "who."
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