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When We Dress for Success With High Heels & Brass Knuckles | Get Ready

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After reading a “troubling” post this morning written by Margaret Rome, I thought I’d share my thoughts on this topic.  As I read that post, my blood began boiling and by the time I was at the end of the post, I was boiled over!!

It made me think about the many unsuspecting agents who receive a review of less than a 5-star ranking. Anything less than 5 stars is questionable to most potential buyers and/or sellers.  It’s human instinct to want only the BEST.  

Herein lies the problem. We have only a couple of options when the review is less than 5 stars. We can delete it; or leave it and take the chance of losing new business; or we can put on our “pissed off” hat.  I like the look of that hat on me!!!

What I would do is respond to that review.  I think “every review deserves a response,” and that’s common courtesy. When someone communicates with you, you respond, whether it’s online or offline.

My response for any comment less than 5 would be a polished and positive version reflecting why you might have received that number.  Tread lightly with the 4-Star, but as you strut your stuff in high heels you have the right to wear brass knuckles when needed. When you see that 1-Star dress for success….high heels and brass knuckles! 

This is your reputation at stake.  You cannot bury a negative review. Most people will read every review you have, and it only takes ONE to blur one’s vision!!  You know without a doubt THAT ONE review is THE ONE they will remember after having read all 60 reviews!!

Don’t allow that to happen.  You are not anyone’s lackey. You are a professional who does his/her job and does it well or you’d NOT have any 5 Star reviews.  The fact that it bothers you shouts out that it’s not deserved. Respond to it firmly, positively and professionally.

Those are my thoughts for the moment….. now I need to calm down and let my blood stop boiling!! Just saying….

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Barbara Todaro, Great Grandmother to Caleb, Santino, Aiden and Gianni       

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Comments(71)

Ron Barnes
Associate Broker at Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Georgia Properties - Jasper, GA
"Most agents claim they're #1 - I THINK YOU'RE #1!

We've all had the client who viewed something as a sleight and went ballistic over nothing. My reaction is the same as if you through a live rattle snake in the bathroom stall I was occupying ... get the heck away from this quickly! They can be truly poisonous!

Aug 20, 2018 06:40 AM
Barbara Todaro

yes, they certainly can.... and it's not right for an agent to take it on the chin.... 

Aug 20, 2018 12:30 PM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

Wear a Brass knuckles designed by Ming Yu Wang for $495? Ha ha.

Just be yourself. Honestly, the rating effectiveness are over exaggreted. Few bother to look at it as a way to judge people. If you have ware to sell you are worth 20 stars. As buyer agent it is through referrals. Most people in Silicon Valley skip that internet stuff going direct person to person. This is supposed to be where all the technology comes from.....

Aug 20, 2018 10:00 AM
Barbara Todaro

nice knuckles.... if you're going to use them, use the best!!

Aug 20, 2018 10:05 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

People do read them.... those people are potential future buyers and sellers.... many do over-react, but if trash is stated about an agent who has never met the person who posts the review, it's just wrong.... it's wrong on many levels... Sam Shueh 

Aug 20, 2018 10:05 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

The site that makes the sound of a dog when you step on it's tail is a shake-down site, nothing more.

When I was in the trenches, it was a pain for me.  I have countless things I could say about that site, and nothing of them positive.  Oh, like how they ran COMPETITORS ads through my "profile"  - "Hey Carla sucks, but here's 5 more agents, and lookie . . . they have better "stars" than she does" (I'm paraphrasing).  They COMMANDERED my URL website name, and added their barking dog .com name . . . and profitted from it, selling ads to my competitors.  

I regret to this day that I joined the site.  

 

Aug 20, 2018 12:55 PM
Barbara Todaro

Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED it's always nice to see and hear from you.... I call what I do Semi-Retirement.... I've never worked so diligently!!!! 


I despise ALL sites that allow reviews.... every nut job has the opportunity to grab a handful and throw it at you... and they've never met you nor spoken to you... wrong on so many levels.

Aug 20, 2018 01:13 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Barbara

Yep those sorts of reviews do make one's blood boil, especially when you know they are not deserved and are retaliatory. I think a polite and professional rebuttal will say it best...and then getting more 5-star reviews!!

Jeff

Aug 20, 2018 06:03 PM
Barbara Todaro

always polite, professional and POWERFUL... you forgot one word!!!  when someone steps on your face in a public forum, one needs POWERFUL in a polite and professional manner.... everyone understands the point made.... 

Aug 21, 2018 07:22 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Brass knuckles and weights from the gym! Really, Jeff Dowler, CRS has a better response.

Aug 20, 2018 06:13 PM
Barbara Todaro

brass knuckles and weights from the gym can have a powerful punch and can definitely be done professionally and polished.... doesn't need to be tough.... there are many forms of "tough"....

Aug 21, 2018 07:20 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

I'm calling you when I need some serious muscle Barbara! It is interesting that some people think reviews are a one-way street and that they, by rights, will get the last say. I like the rebuttal idea and will now go and take a look for myself to see if anything needs to be done. Get those brass knuckles ready, just in case...!

Aug 20, 2018 06:56 PM
Barbara Todaro

just let me know, girlfriend.... 

Aug 21, 2018 07:17 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

WOW a lot of posts on reviews today. Now, I need to go and check YELP :)

Aug 20, 2018 07:32 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Now I have to go see what made your blood boil...

Aug 20, 2018 09:43 PM
Susan McCall - - Compass Realty Solutions
Compass Realty Solutions - Portland, OR
Listing and Buyer's Agent

Must be something in the air besides all the smoke from fires?  I'm going to go water my plants, then check the reviews!

Aug 20, 2018 10:13 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’m getting more out of this the second time around. Thank you again for posting! ;)

Aug 20, 2018 11:51 PM
Anna Hatridge
R Gilliam Real Estate LLC - Farmington, MO
Missouri Realtor with R Gilliam Real Estate LLC

Great reminder to respond to all correspondence, good or not so good.  

Aug 21, 2018 05:44 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Barbara - ok yes, your title really shouted out.  You must respond to those less than top reviews otherwise readers go with their review rather than your story.

Aug 21, 2018 05:50 AM
Anne Corbin
Long and Foster - Lake Anna - Spotsylvania, VA
Serving Lake Anna & Central Virginia

Reviews are important for sure. I also wonder about the reviews that don't get posted but are by word of mouth. You ask a friend, colleague, etc if they have heard of Agent Amy and they have more than a negative mouthful to spew. Sometimes we don't know or hear those reviews. Watch the step in those high heels.

Aug 21, 2018 06:09 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I often wonder what clients think when they don't leave 5 stars, and it is interesting when they leave 5 for some and not others, we do need to also look at the feedback and evaluate but also need to counter those that are unfair.

Aug 21, 2018 06:18 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Barbara. What a title and you are so focused and this made me smile big.

Aug 21, 2018 07:14 AM
Team Worley
Worley Real Estate - Sacramento, CA
Broker/ Realtor

Nicely put, thank you for writing this

Aug 21, 2018 03:01 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Barbara Todaro Thanks for the mention. I appreciate a site that allows me to respond. And I did!

Aug 21, 2018 08:56 PM
Kevin Mackessy
Blue Olive Properties, LLC - Highlands Ranch, CO
Dedicated. Qualified. Local.

Can't agree more with responding to it firmly.  Correct the misinterpretations and provide color to the other side of the story.  Then let others judge who was right and wrong.  

Aug 23, 2018 12:27 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Clarity and a neutral response can typically eliminate the emotion behind the review.  Very frustrating though!

Aug 23, 2018 06:26 PM