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Reblogger Barbara Todaro

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September 16, 2019 10:14 AM

"No matter what life brings, you are, and always will be, in control of your own happiness."

Motivational Monday - Happiness Is…

How many times have we asked or been asked, “Does he (or she) make you happy?”

If someone else has the capability to make you feel happy, then that person may also make you feel sad…right? Well, believe it or not, this is a common misconception about human psychology.

The use of phrases like, “You make me happy!” are certainly very colorful but, they imply that the responsibility for your own happiness lies outside of you - in the hands of others. Your mental state should never be controlled by another person’s actions.

The truth is, people or things cannot cause happiness at all.

It’s what your thoughts are about the person and the things that they say and/or do that determines whether you feel happy (or sad). Your thoughts — not external events, the presence or absence of material objects, or other people — create your feelings.

REMEMBER: No one can make you feel anything. Your feelings are your own. Therefore, the only person who has the power to make that distinction is the person who owns the feelings — you.

The good news is that we are never too old to accept this truth and dig deep within to seek our own happiness. Stop waiting for circumstances to change — do something about it — yourself!

No matter what life brings, you are, and always will be, in control of your own happiness.

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Debe Maxwell, CRS

Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC

The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Well, thank you so much for sharing this post, Barbara! I'm a big believer in owning not only your feelings but, your mistakes too!

Happy Monday! 😊

Sep 16, 2019 12:22 PM

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT
Roy Kelley

Gaithersburg, MD
Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA

Barbara Todaro

RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA

Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Every post you write is so inspirational, it's ideal to reblog and share.... thanks for all you do... Debe Maxwell, CRS

Sep 16, 2019 12:40 PM

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Charlotte, NC

Debe Maxwell, CRS

Ahh, thank you, Barbara! You always put a smile on my heart!

Sep 16, 2019 01:22 PM

Pat Champion

John Roberts Realty - Eustis, FL

Call the "CHAMPION" for all your real estate needs

Thanks for resharing the positive on the Monday. I hope you have a great week ahead!

Sep 16, 2019 01:42 PM

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT
Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA

Barbara Todaro

RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA

Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

It's always a positive message with every Debe Maxwell, CRS post..... I try to never miss one....

Sep 16, 2019 01:48 PM

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT

Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ

(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Barbara Todaro,

That is a great inspirational message. When I used to do a 9 to 5 stint, I might have needed inspiration on a Monday. However, I don't consider real estate work, so I don't need motivation or inspiration. It does come from within.

Sep 16, 2019 04:53 PM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT
Roy Kelley

Gaithersburg, MD

James Dray

Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Barbara.

I'm responsible for my own happiness. I do have people, who when I see them brings out a smile on this old face. But at the end of the day, I decide if I had a great day or not.

Sep 17, 2019 01:24 AM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT

Will Hamm

Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO

"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Barbara, You pick a great reblog by Debe Maxwell. She always come up with some great blogs.

Sep 17, 2019 08:44 AM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT
Roy Kelley

Gaithersburg, MD

Roy Kelley

Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Barbara, for sharing this excellent reblog selection.

Sep 17, 2019 02:04 PM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT

George Souto

George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT

Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Barbara as I stated on Debe Maxwell, CRS blog "I don't want anyone but me to have control over my happiness."

Sep 17, 2019 04:20 PM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT

Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS

Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA

South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I always appreciate you bringing these gems to our attention Barbara Todaro

Sep 17, 2019 05:43 PM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT

Scott Godzyk

Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH

One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Now that is a great reblog Barbara Todaro . Words to live by.

Sep 18, 2019 05:30 AM

Barbara Todaro

Franklin, MA
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - W...

St. George, UT

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT

St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Though it's Tuesday, this is a fantastic message for any day of the week Barbara from Debe Maxwell, CRS, I do love her/your attitude! We are in charge and large if /when we wish to be.

Sep 18, 2019 08:24 AM