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Who needs Community Guidelines on Active Rain?

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties 01238708

Who needs Community Guidelines on Active Rain?

Having been on this platform for over ten years, I admitted to everyone in 2014, on the first Challenge when we were asked to write about the “Community Guidelines” that it was the first time I read it. Since, then I have participated in the Challenge sponsored by our friend Lynn B. Friedman   and needless to say not much has changed in my position about the Guidelines.

As far as I am concerned: I am not a fan of being micro managed, nor operating in a very restrictive environment. I guess it was my upbringing, my father was a disciplinarian, I lived the first ten years of my life in a Communist Country with many restrictive rules.

Then I experienced freedom living in Austria and then ultimately in the United States when we legally immigrated here. My first year of college was in Ypsilanti, Michigan where there was extreme freedom, keep in mind this was in 1972/1973-time frame😊! Which was followed by an equally restrictive time attending one of the most restrictive schools in the country, USMA, that is at West Point, NY.

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With that said, when I left the US Army, I wanted nothing to do with rules and regulations. As it turned out I had to adjust my thinking, because to move ahead in Corporate America you need to follow rules as well.

Then when I got on this platform the Community Guidelines  were very short and to the point use “common sense” was the message. As the ownerships changed, I noticed that the Community Guidelines got longer and longer. It must have come from the Corporate Mentality or should I say Corporate Management Style.

Then to boot, the mentality of legally protecting the management and ownership from liability. I get it the Fair Housing Laws need to be spelled out to navigate from lawsuits....

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As far as I am concerned ‘the meat and potatoes’ of the Guidelines consist of : Don’t try to look for loopholes: instead, take them to heart and respect the spirit on which they were created.

My take is the Community Guidelines are only as good as the enforcement of the rules. If no one is enforcing the rules, they are meaningless. The violators will figure out, that no one is watching and will try to get away with violating the rules.

All in all, reviewing the Community Guidelines nothing has changed my point of view in the past five years. It is still about shortening it “treat others as you would like to be treated by others”.

If you agree with me, please comment below and even if you do not agree with me your comments are welcome!

 

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I prefer fewer rules as well. A guideline that has to do with the Golden Rule, or common sense, should be enough. If rules are not enforced, they are meaningless - so the fewer rules, the better!

Jan 20, 2019 04:56 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Good morning Endre.  In a perfect world, we wouldn't need guidelines as everyone would behave well as their natural instinct.

Jan 20, 2019 06:37 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Endre, Interesting post to read even a second time.  If we all get along we do not need that many guideline.

 

Jan 20, 2019 09:06 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre,

A thoughtful post.  I think that as far as rules and regulations a course in common sense should be one the requirements...A

Jan 20, 2019 09:37 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375

Ron and Alexandra Seigel 
AMEN.


Then ever year, I wouldn't feel compelled to ask people to write about the community basis.
Have a new plan for next year --- Lynn

Feb 14, 2019 03:39 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Of the six senses, Endre, common sense is my favorite. But so many people do not possess common sense. Like Andy Brown, if that is even his real name, who runs around Active Rain spamming everybody's blogs with the same comment, day after day. I've asked him to stop but he ignores it.

Jan 20, 2019 12:50 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good afternoon Endre - I am light on the restrictive rules too.  I think it is best summed up by Dave Thomas of Wendy's.  "Do the right thing."

Jan 20, 2019 02:06 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Happy Sunday Endre- I too admit that I did not read the guidelines until some kind of AR contest or challenge. And you boiled it down to its essence...the golden rule. Not everyone follows it but often the community self regulates and those who offend or who don't play well in the sandbox seem to drift away. 

Jan 20, 2019 02:43 PM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Most people take our freedom for granted.  If they had to defend it they would run the other way

Jan 20, 2019 05:50 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Never sleep on the community guidelines in most cases. You will learn something on many different occasions

Jan 20, 2019 11:18 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Taking freedom for granted is a sign of being used to it. That’s what I think anyway. Love and light!

Jan 20, 2019 11:19 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kevin J. May  I do love Ralph Waldo Emerson and have quoted him on this platform a few times:)Endre

Jan 20, 2019 11:47 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

James Dray  funny how that turned out:))Endre

Jan 20, 2019 11:48 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Wayne Martin  sadly you are right, most of the ones that violate the rules do not care...Endre

Jan 20, 2019 11:49 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR  thank you for the kind words, looks like the Feature Fairy did not agree with your assessment:)))Endre

Jan 20, 2019 11:51 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Michael Jacobs  very funny, I hear the Rule Enforcer position on the platform is open right now, have you thought of applying??Endre

Jan 20, 2019 11:52 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kat Palmiotti  agreed less is more, Endre

Jan 20, 2019 11:53 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Endre Barath, Jr. There have been many who have been removed from the forum for not following the rules   Happy Monday

Jan 21, 2019 01:28 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

How did I miss this post, Endre?!

I don't mind rules & regulations - especially being brought up by an AF colonel - I'm used to it! LOL

As for AR, not sure there is a general at the helm to enforce these days!

Jan 21, 2019 08:13 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Endre Barath, Jr. 
Such a perfect set of comments - especially 
As far as I am concerned ‘the meat and potatoes’ of the Guidelines consist of : Don’t try to look for loopholes: instead, take them to heart and respect the spirit on which they were created.
...  shortening it “treat others as you would like to be treated by others”.   

All the best -
Your East Coast Admirer, Lynn

Feb 14, 2019 03:37 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Gabe Sanders  since it is not a perfect world.... the rules are only as good as the enforcement of them:))Endre

Feb 14, 2019 04:55 PM