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Take Action: Make It An Opportunity, Not an Excuse

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

"People who are successful

succeed because they consider each mistake

 an opportunity to learn- not an excuse to quit."


Author and Founder / Chairman of BNI

-Business Network Int'l, Dr. Ivan Misner

 

Your action for today

is to think of a lesson you've learned

from a recent mistake.

 

Thomas J Nelson with Dr. Ivan Misner

Ailina Nelson, Dr. Ivan Misner & Thomas J. Nelson, November 2007

 

As a BNI alumnus, I have trained under 

and read extensively, Dr. Misner and

I can share he's got the experience and 

the results to validate this very quote!

 

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Thomas J. Nelson
REALTOR®, CRS, RCS-D, CDPE, e-Pro, Certified Military Home Specialist, Luxury Home Specialist, Author, Keynote Speaker and  Podcast Host 

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Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets - I have been a BNI member since 2009 and am also a Director as well.

Nov 14, 2020 05:37 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

So true, Thomas. Excuses never move the needle forward! (BNI kicked me out many years ago... they thought I was too independent!)

Nov 14, 2020 05:42 AM
Carol Williams

You actually got kicked out for being too independent, Nina?  You're my hero!  LOL

Nov 14, 2020 05:45 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Carol Williams hi Carol... yes and they couldn't refund my money fast enough!

Nov 16, 2020 06:39 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Givers Gain Grant Schneider 👍

Thanks for popping by my post!

Nov 14, 2020 05:42 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Thomas.
Totally agree with this and I've learned a lot over the years!  I was a member of a networking group of the same concept as BNI before BNI was a thing in my town. It was very effective. 

Nov 14, 2020 05:44 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Nina Hollander I was "asked to consider a different organization" by our Area Director in 2009 LOL. I questioned too many fees and policies I suppose. She ended up stepping down in 2012, it seems many others were questioning her too. I've always been ahead of my time LOL. Thanks for popping by my post!

Nov 14, 2020 05:45 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets I feel better knowing I'm not the only rebel. :)

Nov 16, 2020 06:40 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Carol Williams there's a lot of value to networking groups, BNI or not. I run a Veterans networking group in the spirit of BNI, but twice per month and much less $$$. The weekly meeting requirement and sub policy was grueling at times with my schedule vs. BNI's. Thanks for popping by my post!

Nov 14, 2020 05:47 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Thomas - I like the quote and I like the photo you shared here too.   A nice throwback of sorts - thirteen years kinda flies by at times, doesn't it?  

Nov 14, 2020 05:57 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets you're such a champion.....and I love the photo....  

Nov 14, 2020 06:31 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

I love this post and agree with Barbara Todaro 's observation. You really are a champ. As for mistakes, there is often a nugget of learning to gain. 

Nov 14, 2020 07:49 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I make a lot of mistakes and thus I learn a lot of lessons.  I try not to make the same mistake more than once though, haha.

Nov 14, 2020 08:48 AM
Rocky Dickerson
Realty One Group - Las Vegas, NV
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Good morning and thank for posting. I like how you found a way to use your signature into your post length as well.

Nov 14, 2020 08:58 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I like that quote, Thomas, because it matches up with one of my favorites, "There are more lessons in life, than there are mistakes."

Nov 14, 2020 01:14 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Thomas, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Nov 14, 2020 01:16 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I often find myself helping agents who are new to the business not feel deflated by things that happen, but learn from them.  See what they could have done differently.

Nov 14, 2020 06:18 PM