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Get After It: The Lost Art of Debate In Conversation

By
Real Estate Agent with Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

"The thing I hate about an argument

is that it always interrupts a discussion."


Writer, G.K. Chesterton

 

 

Your action for today

is to see if you can have a discussion

(which means you have to listen

and wait your turn to talk)

with someone with whom

you recently had an argument,

disagreement or differencing beliefs.

 

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Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I love that photo, Thomas.  It perfectly illustrates the quote you've provided.

Feb 05, 2022 06:06 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Awe, Thank You Myrl Jeffcoat !!!

Feb 05, 2022 06:12 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Thomas - I also like the image you used in this post.  Maybe it's semantics and perhaps it's something else.   The art of meaningful conversation is not easily found these days but it is not totally lost, correct?  

Feb 06, 2022 03:57 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Thomas. Learning to disagree without being disagreeable is a process of which I am making progress but at a slower pace than I would like. Enjoy your day.

Feb 06, 2022 04:40 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Both parties need to be willing to truly listen in order for conversation to happen. It seems that too often one is not.

Feb 06, 2022 05:04 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Oh Mr. Wayne Martin you said it beautifully...

"Learning to disagree without being disagreeable"

Feb 06, 2022 05:31 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

That's a great message. Yes, an argument does end the discussion and at that point, no body learns a darn thing. 

Feb 06, 2022 08:49 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Thomas,
I do try to wait my turn but sometimes I forget what I was going to say by the time it's my turn... which is probably ok too!  😊

Feb 06, 2022 09:10 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Thomas- Oh my gosh, this is something that all of us, everywhere, should practice every day. We are so divided now, we can't lose the benefits of open discussion. 

Feb 06, 2022 11:08 AM