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Do You Have a "Pet Peeve" Phrase?

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Marte Cliff Copywriting

Last week I went shopping with a good friend and as we drove along we discussed the latest "news" around town. She mentioned that one of the "old timer" couples was having a 50th anniversary celebration. She said "I don't actually know them, but we're all invited to the party."

I had seen the same ad she saw on the front page of our weekly "giveaway" newspaper and I said "No we aren't. What man yelling in frustrationthat ad said was that they would like to invite everyone in town - it didn't actually extend an invitation. "

My friend, who is a numbers person and definitely not a word person, said "Well that's what they meant." And of course she was right. But that isn't what they said. 

I see and hear that phrase all the time. I even saw it this week in the front of a hard-bound. publisher-produced book. But no matter how common it is, when I see or hear it, it never fails to make me cringe.

Every time someone says "I would like to thank..." or "We would like to invite..." my immediate reaction is "Then why don't you do it?" 

Do you have a "Pet Peeve" phrase? 

If so, what is it? 

 

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Comments(19)

Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Yes, I never understood why people used that phrase.  It's kind of empty.  How about "Can I ask you a question?"  Well, you just did.

Jun 17, 2013 08:48 PM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

The real estate MLS system is filled with words and phrases I detest... from"move in ready" to "just needs TLC!"  And my all time most "just bring your toothbrush!"

Jun 17, 2013 09:28 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Marte, I think the one thing that I know is not true, and makes me cringe every time I hear it is...

Can I ask your opinion on (fill in the blank).

99 % of the time they don't want my opinion, they want me to side with them.

But as I get older, I learn not to step in the trap.

 

Jun 17, 2013 09:29 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Marte.... I really dislike it when I hear or read "At the end of the day"  from someone.... I don't know why.... maybe I never liked the first person I heard it from!!

Jun 17, 2013 09:34 PM
Bette Gottwald
UNITED REAL ESTATE | Central PA - Mechanicsburg, PA
"Bet"on Central PA Real Estate!

Greetings Marte,  One of my biggest pet peeve phrases is:  "it's no problem" -- well, if it isn't a problem, just do it, don't say it, sounds like an empty promise.  I would rather hear "I will see what I can do."

Jun 17, 2013 09:42 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Marte,

Good post..there are so many cliques we pick up in this business especially from speakers at various seminars. All trying to create a catchy phrase to drive their point across (not that I blame them)! Concentrating on good business practices and executing them to the best of our ability should be at the top of our list!

Jun 17, 2013 11:01 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Debbie - I agree - that one is dumb too.

Gary - Those are pretty trite.

Andrea -It's good to spot traps before you step in them!

Barbara - Sometimes I think that makes a difference. Many years ago my older son had a girlfriend who constantly said "Give me a break" and I've disliked that phrase ever since.

Bet - When I hear that one it's usually in place of "You're welcome" and coming from a store clerk. I always think "Why should it have been a problem?"

Dorie - So in trying to stand out they make themselves look silly?

Jun 18, 2013 12:13 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Marte~ I'm sure there are several that I dislike but the only one coming to mind is "to be honest". Does that mean you usually lie to me?

Jun 18, 2013 01:37 AM
Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

Hi Marte...I think you probably wrote a post about this one, "state of the art."  Overused and annoying.

Jun 18, 2013 03:12 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Donna - I don't care much for that one either. I react the same way you do. 

Francine - Did I? I don't remember it if I did, but I agree that it doesn't mean much. 

Jun 18, 2013 07:16 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

When someone says: "Can I be honest with you?" No just lie like you usually do.

'We are not going to give the house away.' is one frequently used by sellers.

Jun 19, 2013 01:02 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Mrgaret - Wouldn't it be fun to answer them that way some time? Just think of the shocked expression on a face if you said that. 

I'm thinking that if a seller thinks fair market value is giving the house away, then you probably don't want that seller for a client. 

Jun 20, 2013 02:10 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hey Marte! Just noticed you are getting very close to the 600k milestone.  Congrats! I'm going over to visit your blog and add some comments, maybe I'll reblog a few posts too!

Jun 22, 2013 02:18 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Thank you Donna - You're a sweetheart!

Jun 22, 2013 03:32 PM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Wahoo, you are over the hump! 

Jun 30, 2013 12:23 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Yes - I just noticed that this morning. Thanks for your help in getting me there! You're next! 

Jun 30, 2013 12:41 PM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

Hi, Marte...I stopped by because Donna told everyone you just reached the 600,000 point milestone. Great work, and congratulations. I would like to invite you and everyone else...just joking. LOL.

Jun 30, 2013 12:51 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Debbie - Thanks - and thanks to Donna. You're both sweethearts... 

Jun 30, 2013 01:15 PM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

:-) My pleasure!

Jul 04, 2013 04:29 AM