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Are You "By Referral" or "Word of Mouth"?

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

Are You "By Referral" or "Word of Mouth"?

 

Sounds the same, what's the difference you ask? It's a big difference actually ...

 

 

What many folks I come across in networking thing is working by referral, is really just word of mouth. Word of mouth is very random in practice and in results. Conversely, working by referral is very on purpose and produces predictable results. When you have predictable results, you have a business!

 

Here's what I learned in Buffini %& Company's Peak Producers Training:

Word of Mouth      Working By Referral    
Fishing Hunting
Waiting Finding
Unpredictable Certain
Inconsistent Predictable
Drifting Set of the Sail

 

Brian Buffini teaches us that "Working By Referral is a consistent level of contact with the people and care for the people in our databases. This care leads to a steady stream of referrals to their family, friends and associates."

I like gardening references & metaphors so here's how to grow your Referral Business:

Did you know, (per NAR), that over 80% of Real estate transactions come from repeat clients and referral customers? Doesn't knowing that fact get you excited about working the database you already have vs. the "spray & pray" approach of leads on Zillow or other online sources and leads solicitors?

 

1. Till the Soil

Just like turning over the dirt in your garden, you have to till the soil of your database. You have to get your hands on it and get a little dirty interacting with it. (dirty because along the way you'll find not all are the referring type, just like not all seeds will take root that you plant). The priority of your day is those past clients you served so well and the current clients your working with. Cultivate relationships you already have and reignite their advocacy for your business.

2. Plant your seeds & water them.

Just like your seeds need water, so does your database. Nourish your relationships with monthly & quarterly calls, video-e-mails and mailers. Items of value, mailed regularly with current information on the market, home ownership or lifestyle, etc.

3. Fertilize & Nurture/Defend.

The care that goes into your garden, feeding, weeding and pest control, is the same care that goes into your database. The feeding: Once in a while write them a personal note or plan a pop-by for a quick face to face get-together or even a coffee or lunch together. The weeding: You have to occasionally pull someone out of your database like a weed, to make room for a better fit, like a plant. Sounds harsh, but it's your choice; a garden of weeds or a garden of fruit bearing trees & plants? Defend: loyalty comes from care and just like the pest that would eat or damage your plants, there are outside forces ready to attack your database. Left alone without your contact too long, they could be slowly taken away by others trying harder to gain their attention & business. Don't neglect your garden (database), you've put too much work into it at this point.

4. Grow

Your clients may like you but you need them to trust you & respect you first. This comes from your expertise they rely on. Just like you need your garden (database) to grow, you need to grow your skills to keep up with the demands of the market & the ever changing market conditions. Coaches, mentors, classes and training: continue to sharpen your skills that pay the bills.

5. Harvest

The harvest for you is the referrals & business you reap from tending to your database consistently and with purpose. The harvest for your clients is a well executed sale that got them a home of moved them on to their next one. Just like the farmers do, we need to celebrate the harvest. Host a client (and service provider) appreciation party at least once per year to celebrate and thank those that contribute to your annual harvest! These are fun and referral generating events that other peoples' Realtors don't do; why not be the one who does!

 

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Thomas J. Nelson
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Excelent post Thomas!

I always enjoy it when people share the gems that they learn at seminars like this.

Thank You!

 

Sep 08, 2015 04:23 PM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

What an interesting distinction. I enjoy working with clients over and over!  I love the simplicity of the beautiful message in this post.  All  relationships, whether personal or business, must be nurtured.

Sep 08, 2015 04:38 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Thomas J. Nelson, Realtor I remember my initial years where it was simple word-of-mouth, until I was introduced to Buffini & Company . Even after that, it was partially word-of-mouth, until few years ago when I realized the power of personal notes and IOVs. (Still not-so-perfect when it comes to pop-by, mainly due to distances I have to travel for that.)

Sep 08, 2015 04:47 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Thomas - your examples with the soil and nurturing are spot on.  As BNI says networking is more about farming than hunting.

Sep 08, 2015 09:50 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets

Yes, as a former BNI member of many years, I agree, our relationships (the harvest) are the results of farming; meaning patience while they develop, not hunting them aggressively. Conversely, our "by referral" businesses have to be targeted or "on purpose", like hunting; but nurture those relationships like  farmers, not a hunter. Did I make that clear as mud? LOL I learned a lot from Dr. Misner in my BNI years.

Sep 08, 2015 11:08 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Excellent post here and great tips on nurturing your database.  We have been doing more w/ our database, but you've given me a few extra ideas, so thanks.

Sep 08, 2015 09:51 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Thanks for all the feedback folks. I welcome all comments to my blogs; agree, disagree, questions and compliments...always a favorite. 

Sep 08, 2015 11:10 PM
Greg Mona
West USA Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Professional Real Estate Representation for YOU!

Thomas J. Nelson, Realtor  I was so happy to read your post!  I have preached this to my teammates many times (yes, they are sick of hearing it!) but to me anyway, real and solid referrals are the lifeblood of our business.  Just like it is difficult for somebody in any industry to get us to try them out and/or leave our current provider for whatever it may be, the same holds true with our industry.  That's not to say we shouldn't try other methods of obtaining new clients, as obviously unless you have a vast database you can and do burn through the list until nobody is buying or selling.

Sep 09, 2015 12:38 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Greg Mona great feedback, thank you for your comments. And remember, your database is vast by default! If I have 100 people in my database, I have 100 conduits to 25,000 prospects, since the average person knows up to 250 people. As long as your database is one of advocates for you & your business, the well will never run dry.

Sep 09, 2015 12:53 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Regardless of your business, client retention campaigns by continuously providing useful and informative information is essential,  not only to retain your business clients but to also grow your business as well. Great post. 

Sep 09, 2015 06:30 AM
M.C. Dwyer
Melody Russell Team at eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

Great analogy Thomas-I too love gardening. You're so right: we have to be willing to "get our hands dirty!"

Sep 10, 2015 12:53 AM
Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

You answered a question I posted and I was impressed with your answer -- tht led me to your blog and fI am even more impressed with what I see.  i will be following you and looking forward to many more posts.

Sep 13, 2015 06:49 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Thank you Gary Coles I appreciate that very much!

Sep 13, 2015 12:05 PM
Deleted Account
Fort Myers, FL

Interesting post, but I think you should be working on both, not just one.

Sep 14, 2015 07:15 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Yes, William Buddy Scott that's the point, you work on the by referral because the word of mouth is happening organically & passively. It's not either, or, it's both, and. So you are essentially correct sir. Thank you for your readership & comments!

Sep 14, 2015 07:35 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Thomas  I am here because of a re-blog... now I have a question what if you fall in between the two choices when it comes to your business...?:))Endre

Sep 16, 2015 02:37 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Endre, thanks for reading & posting your question. My response would be "do you want to take control of your future with purpose and results or have it randomly drift along without promise or purpose?"

"Most agents aim for nothing and hit it with amazing accuracy."-Joe Niego

Sep 17, 2015 12:16 AM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Hi Thomas J. Nelson, Realtor , There is nothing better than personal contact.  Our best referrals come from past clients.

Sep 22, 2015 08:50 AM
Bruce Brockmeier
Internet Marketing Consultant to REALTORS® - Yorba Linda, CA
Coached By Crouch

Great info!  Thank you.  I had never thought of it this way before.

Oct 14, 2015 01:45 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Just sharing the good stuff; thanks for your readership & comments, glad I could help and I'm never too busy for your San Diego, CA REFERRALS!

Oct 14, 2015 06:21 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Thomas, I think Brian Buffini's program is terrific.  Wish he'd been around when I was a newbie agent.

Dec 03, 2015 12:46 AM