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If you leave a comment, Jim will visit your blog and leave a comment.Last year the State of Nebraska was making the news every few days after they passed a "Safe Haven" law so that parents could drop their children off at a police station, fire station, or hospital and not be charged with child abandonment.

The purpose of the law, of course, was to protect children from abuse, but the law was meant to be used only for newborn babies, and only for Nebraska residents. Unfortunately, the legislators forgot to put an age limit or a state limit in the law, so parents from throughout the nation were traveling to Nebraska with their unruly teenagers to leave them with the State. Ultimately, the law was changed, and while I do understand the theory behind the law, I just cannot imagine a parent giving up a child. Apparently, though, we have a similar law here in California, or at least in La Mesa. The following sign is posted on the brand new La Mesa fire station:

Safe Surrender Site at the La Mesa downtown fire station

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What a world, Jim.  Some people should never have children.  And in Nebraska which I would think is a low key, low stress State.  Can you imagine if they did that here in California?  Another thing, it is probably impossible for anyone who has a same sex mate to addopt and they would actually make better parents than some of the straight couples!!!

May 03, 2009 06:59 AM
Konnie Mac McCarthy
MacNificent Properties, LLC - Cobb Island, MD
Broker/Owner - VA & MD "Time To Get A Move On!"

I have four kids..and I can understand some wanting to give up a teenager :) :)   all kidding a side..hopefully this will spare some infants a terrible death in a dumpster .....I just recently heard a news report about that... so sad..

May 03, 2009 08:34 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Jane.

Or at least we could license parents. Say $100 for each child, and the license has to be renewed every two years. That might solve our budget crisis, city, county, state, and federal! Might even help with overpopulation.

May 03, 2009 11:46 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Konnie.

I saw an article in the paper about that, too, but I don't remember whether it occurred here or somewhere else.

May 03, 2009 11:48 AM
Susan Neal
RE/MAX Gold, Fair Oaks - Fair Oaks, CA
Fair Oaks CA & Sacramento Area Real Estate Broker

Hi Jim - I thought it was a California law, but maybe just in certain areas of the state, that you could drop off a baby without consequence at a hospital or fire station.  I understand that where this has been done the number of dead babies in dumpsters or under bushes has decreaed dramatically.  An unwed teen mother who is terrified can save her baby's life instead of feeling she has limited choices.

May 03, 2009 11:54 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Susan.

I was talking about this with Russel today and he said he's pretty sure it's a California law that went into effect either 1/1/09 or 1/1/08.

May 03, 2009 12:25 PM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Would you have ever thought you'd see this 15 years ago?

May 04, 2009 12:34 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Wendy.

I still can't believe I'm seeing it today.

May 04, 2009 03:56 PM
Janna Scharf
Keller Williams Realty Coeur d'Alene - Coeur d'Alene, ID
Coeur d'Alene Idaho Real Estate Expert

Like you, I can't fathom how a parent can give away a baby.  But, it beats the alternatives...  (A teenager, maybe :-P) I have great admiration for a parent who make a hard decision like that for the sake of their baby.  Ideally though, the parents would make a better decision before conceiving, or arrange an adoption during pregnancy.

May 05, 2009 03:21 AM
Lori Isaacson
Credit Restoration Consultants - Plantation, FL

I can't begin to imagine how a parent could come to the decision to give up a child. That said I also can't imagine harming a child........so I guess this program is not for us. it is for those who can't handle their lives and situations. Better a safe place than a garbage dumpster. Again we need to remember who these programs are for. They are not for those of us who could ever imagine giving up or hurting a child, parent ,pet or any living thing!!! If it saves even one baby then it is worthwhile.......

Happy Tuesday!!

Lori

May 05, 2009 04:11 AM
Jack Gilleland
Home Inspection and Investor Services, Clayton - Clayton, OH

There was a time when I thought about dropping my teenagers off somewhere.  Glad I didn't though.

LOL

May 05, 2009 08:36 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Janna.

I'm all for solutions, and some are definitely better than others. It still just amazes me those that some of the best solutions are still less than desirable.

May 05, 2009 12:36 PM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Lori.

I have been known to harm a few living things -- ants, bees, and wasps come to mind -- LOL.

May 05, 2009 12:36 PM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, Jack.

I think if I would have had children, getting them through to grade school would have been my undoing.

May 05, 2009 12:40 PM
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