manners: WHY IGNORE? (life lesson)
- 01/11/20 07:08 AM
I discovered this dynamic called ignoring when I was a child but I didn't understand what it was or why it was or just what was it? It exposes itself as a feeling that pulls or pushes that is not pleasant when it is at work and the natural response as a child is to make a noise, do an action or with draw plus everything in between to counter this ugly invisible force at work in the moment
NOT INTENTIONAL?
Still exploring this as a child, ignoring someone can be on purpose or out of ignorance. If on purpose, the pain is … (28 comments)
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manners: COMMUNICATION RESULTS (cause for pause)
- 08/18/19 09:47 AM
We can only process so much data whether it is deliberate (seeking) or submitted (awareness) at one time keeping in mind how much can be retained? What is necessary? Do we allow ourselves to drift or be distracted or do we maintain a reachable and inviting alertness until an interest or prompting appears? Too little or not enough can be controlled subject to two things..
HOW MUCH WE CAN PROCESS
The desire to do anything is not talked about enough. Desire is necessary if one is to truly rise to an occasion under attainable & willing circumstances. You can force yourself or others … (21 comments)
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manners: CUP of KINDNESS (spiritual drink)
- 11/22/17 06:08 PM
This time of year is when the want, misery and lack in others makes itself known being more keenly felt and for a special reason too. It is a reminder of all the general principals at work that we tend to forget for one reason or another. We are all going through life together. We all want the same things and we have more in common than we think or know. This is a worthy reminder
PAUSE & REFLECT
The simple act of reflection is available to all and it consists really of considering mostly. To wonder, ponder and take note of your surroundings without … (6 comments)
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manners: PEOPLE BUY FROM PEOPLE
- 11/09/15 11:28 PM
If you practice warm and fuzzy, fuzzy and warm is what you get back at some point. If aggressive and ambitious, expect to meet your like kind as well. Whatever we are projecting makes an impression or landing on the circumstances and the people involved. Time or an assessment, allows us to make a better decisions assuming we have the time and ability to do so...
EXPECTATIONS
There is a common default behavior of anyone offering a product or service that consists of minimum expectations. The person involved must be neatly dressed, approachable, helpful, knowledgeable and able to process any requests effectively. Smiles, body language … (17 comments)
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manners: WHAT IS HAPPENING TO INTIMATE CONNECTION
- 09/16/14 02:28 AM
Giving a kid a hand held remote device that connects to a video game is the new pacifier and baby sitter and one of great conveniences too. Hey, it helps to develop eye to hand coordination and keeps their little baby brains active and baby sits them too. No nurturing takes place. Just noise and sounds. Then, as they get older, more devices are available but to what end?
BEING HUMAN
Today, when you get to interact all you want with technology, it is easy to forgo the manners, courtesies, intimacy, nurturing, inquiries and respect that comes from live interactions. When you are in the presence of … (7 comments)
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manners: ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING
- 06/30/14 08:56 AM
It can free you or bind you. I have seen both version of attitudes and have lived them also. You quickly learn what works and what doesn't and if you don't, you will sooner or later. Attitude is an amazing indicator of the players in any given situation. It remains a "tell" of the highest sort
Look at the list below and it is just the tip of the iceberg on the subject of what is going on inside a person at any given time. It becomes a subject of interest when you interact and these things come up with another. In business or personal, they … (47 comments)
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manners: PLEASE & THANK YOU NEVER GOES OUT OF STYLE
- 06/29/14 01:52 AM
Two words and look how powerful they are too. Try not using them and life can become complicated. Use them and navigating through life becomes more effective. Use them like you mean it and a lasting impression is made. Use them recklessly and you get a minimum reputation for being dishonest
NOISE OR MEANING?
These words and their use demand respect and not just noise that comes out of someones mouth trying to get somewhere fast. Some people just throw them out there so as to socially comply and leave people with I said it and now do what I want or what I tell you...The … (0 comments)
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manners: WHAT IT TAKES TO SUCCEED DEPENDS
- 05/10/14 06:46 AM
What is success? How is it defined? What is it bounced off of or compared to as in a contrast? Does money define it? Does power or achievement? How about degrees, knowledge or being the best at something. These all have value but can success be defined in other ways?
SUCCEEDING WITHIN
I always thought the practicing and embracing of the virtues were considered a worthy endeavor and form of personal success within the self. To share a cup of kindness in the form of word or deed always made sense to me to be a good use of ones time, talents, skills … (6 comments)
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manners: COURTESY OPENS ALL DOORS STARTING WITH YOURS
- 05/03/14 12:24 AM
A behavior that shows a type of politeness to others is what courtesy in motion simply is. This appreciation application that takes place in the moment that it is activated anywhere and accomplishes great things because it speaks instantly to the heart of all the players
AIM FOR THE HEART
Getting to the heart of the matter is our target. I often give courtesy without any conditions because I like to do this. I actually look for the opportunities too. The core of this dynamic supports all that is good, memorable and satisfying. Drink hearty from this cup!
THINKING AIN'T DOING
For those that gauge everything using … (16 comments)
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manners: DONT BE A PAIN IN THE RAIN?
- 04/12/14 03:53 AM
What does this mean? Well anywhere else besides ACTIVERAIN, it means something to do with the weather and people are scratching their heads thinking what? However, here on ACTIVERAIN, one can become a pain but what type of pain?
RESISTANCE=GROWTH
You see there is pain that comes with growth. Learning pain if you will. Resistance to anything signals growth is yonder and awaiting. This is an acceptable pain even necessary. Richfuscious says...man who does not go with flow...go anyway
THIS ONE HURTS
How about pain of truth? Something that you see and read about that brings a past or present unpleasant episode to rise up and cause … (7 comments)
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manners: IF YOU ARE HIRED THEN IT IS SHOWTIME
- 01/13/14 10:37 PM
If a principal doesn't answer their phone, want to show a place, have discussion, help with the process of buying or selling but just wants to do whatever they want, then they can. He who has the gold certainly rules. How they rule is another matter. However, if an agent is involved
YOU ARE ON
That is a game-changer make no mistake about it. Not only are we licensed which is a structure of performance, but we are under professional duty and responsibility to perform and in a certain reliable way too. It is expected and no less
MANDATORY NOT OPTIONAL
We must be available … (9 comments)
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manners: WHEN YOU FIND OUT SOMEONE HAS AN AGENT
- 08/25/13 11:35 PM
This subject is being tested more than it should. If a principal is working with another agent and comes across another agent who either wants to get involved or is roped in, what is the protocol? Principals and clients are not bound by agent to agent contact, but agents have to answer to other agents...YES?
HELP ME UP
I had a principal call me once to get information and she liked the way I spoke. I naturally said I am available and when she is ready, I am ready to go on point and take her to the promised land. She … (3 comments)
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manners: COMMAND YOUR PRESENCE AND IT WILL WORK FOR YOU
- 07/11/13 12:13 AM
You are more than just a well adjusted and dressed Real Estate professional. You are a walking/talking advertisement. Your peddling your first impression wherever you go. You are doing it whether you know it or not. The motor or core behind the image is YOU. It is always working and influences the way your day will or won't go
WE KNOW THIS
People buy from people first. Then, they want to know what you are selling. Your image is out there working while you stand idle at the grocery store, the office arena, the movies, walking down the street, recreational activities … (5 comments)
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manners: THANK YOU FOR BEING RUDE UNAVAILABLE AND UNPROFESSIONAL
- 06/17/13 02:41 AM
Yes your freedom of professional and personal questionable expression towards people in general, your neighbors, friends, clients, principals, peers and associates that borders on being unproductive, immature and far from inviting is paying off for me. I am reaping um-teem rewards from it and I wanted to thank you. I remain grateful for the contrast
YOU LIGHT UP MY LIFE...?
Your dysfunctional conduct makes my functional conduct stand out. The consumer, client and principal are so happy to find someone who will treat them well as they spend their money and just when they think things are getting better, they run … (11 comments)
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manners: IF YOUR HEART IS MISSING SO ARE YOU
- 05/15/13 11:07 PM
This bears repeating so think about this for a while. This is rampant wherever you go. In college, people are there that do not want to be there. Some people cant stand their place of employment. Others watch children and put up with it. Some guy answers the phone in a department and hates it.....we see this happening all over the place.....
WHY DON'T YOU STOP DOING SOMETHING IF YOUR HEART IS NOT IN IT......EVERYONE SUFFERS FOR IT...
But I need the money... I cant find anything else... The benefits are good... This is only temporary......
Okay, lets start with Real … (6 comments)
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manners: WHAT IS IT ABOUT PLEASE THANK YOU & YOUR WELCOME
- 04/24/13 02:24 AM
Manners...What a great subject to explore, give as well as receive and want to know more about. Moms think it so important that they make it part of your growing up. The business world respects it, the personal world takes note and manners is even welcomed and known globally and if that isn't enough, they can be practiced in any occasion and under all circumstances too
PLEASE...HEAR ME OUT
Please...When this word is used either before or after in a sentence, it has the power to get ones attention, to open doors, to level the playing fields and to get or … (6 comments)
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manners: WILD WEST CODES MADE GOOD SENSE
- 03/31/13 11:26 PM
In the days of the wild frontier, you can break many laws known or unknown, but these you did not or you could end up paying with your life. Every person came to know these rules, every jury, judge, and lawman too. If not paid for with your life, you are a social outcast wherever you go. Saddle up and lets visit some of these protocols
THE CODE OF THE WEST
1. A horse thief was not tolerated by anyone. Even touching another horse required permission.
2. No back shooting anyone. It was murder and you got hanged for it.
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manners: CODES AND WHAT THEY DO
- 01/04/13 06:50 AM
As agents and Realtors, we are all aware of the Code of Ethics and it is a nice little set of awareness principals to do business by and live a good life while doing it. The banks should have a similar code of ethics, but that is another post. On codes, I like the one that the wild west was run on.
THE CODE YOU LIVE BY
The unwritten codes are the best ones. Those are the ones that everyone has come to discover and appreciate as well as practice for themselves and they live them everyday. Others feel the same … (4 comments)
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manners: ACTION PLANS IDEAS MOVING WITH A PURPOSE
- 10/24/12 06:50 AM
To do business one has to be in business. That meant rising to the start-up occasion using an action plan and monitoring the ACTION. It is as simple as having the right tools, communicating effectively and providing a service. From there, you can tweak the endeavor to make it go where you want.
BEING IN BUSINESS IS NOT HARD
Today it is so easy to represent that you are a business. If you go back 50 years, you had to have an office and show up there from specified times, dressed accordingly and be accommodating. Today, you can literally carry your office … (0 comments)
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manners: POOR CUSTOMER SERVICE KISS OF DEATH
- 06/14/12 12:03 AM
You would have to be pretty dense not to realize that running people around doesn't catch up with you or have consequences. When I was in charge of a major popular restaurant, I used to stand at the doors and welcome people and wish them well when they left. I kept that up for 3 months. A strange thing happened. My sales went up
COURTESY WORKS WONDERS
It was time well spent interacting with people on the front lines and that applies in person or on the phone too. After a while, the place would be booked Friday and Saturdays. People … (54 comments)
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I discovered this dynamic called ignoring when I was a child but I didn't understand what it was or why it was or just what was it? It exposes itself as a feeling that pulls or pushes that is not pleasant when it is at work and the natural response as a child is to make a noise, do an action or with draw plus everything in between to counter this ugly invisible force at work in the moment
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