innocense: THE "NOT YOU" (mystery)
- 02/03/22 08:46 AM
You have always been aware of yourself and the not yourself as it surfaced here & there throughout your lifetime. Saying or doing something embarrassing or awkward leaves one asking: Why did I say or do that? The disconnect is you glimpsing your real self from the not so real or programmed self. Let's explore this
NATURAL BEHAVIOR
From the infant stage, a baby only knows to respond & react to basic needs without thought or agenda. Noise is how an infant communicates not even knowing what it is saying. The parent reads & responds to the noise. All natural
LEARNED BEHAVIOR
As an infant … (9 comments)
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innocense: BENEFIT of the DOUBT
- 01/05/20 03:34 PM
What does this really mean? You are not alone if you do not know even though you are familiar with it because you have heard it or even used it. The premise is that the person who is receiving the benefit wants it or you want it for them. Consequently the one giving or wanting to give it believes it is worthy or necessary to be given.
WHAT IS IT REALLY?
If someone has done something and another believes it to be true or not but is not sure then this little action may enter in. One may receive it and need to and another may … (11 comments)
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innocense: YOUR EXCUSES ARE YOUR OWN
- 12/14/19 07:05 AM
Here is a subject that causes discomfort starting with the one doing it first and then with anyone else it can rope in. Question: Have you ever heard someone pitch enthusiastically their excuse as if it was the gospel truth? For a person to do this they first had to convince themselves. Then, to make it stick convince you too
OWNING UP
Admitting what went wrong or how it could have gone better doesn't occur to the one who is in denial. NO. A story is manufactured and edited using the mind, emotions and five senses which add drama, scenarios and conjectures. In other words a … (23 comments)
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innocense: WHY NOT KEEP IT SIMPLE ?
- 09/28/19 06:11 AM
Kids have no trouble with this concept of telling or saying it just like it is. Even if they fail etiquette, mainstream or higher level learning standards they still using simplicity make themselves and their wants known and we like children for it. We smile, laugh, encourage and instruct but lets not forget the innocence behind and driving it all
WHAT PREVENTS SIMPLICITY?
1. The ego for one. It has to make itself a part of everything and since it cannot add to what is so apparently working it tends to complicate as/for its contribution.
2. Self-expression which is the persons uniqueness regarding the … (15 comments)
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innocense: YOUR SKILLS BANK WHAT IS IT?
- 06/18/19 06:42 AM
We all have a bank of skills that come with us into this world without the asking. While we can all claim in common quite a few of these skills no two are the same when employed because of this simple fact: The people involved are unique and one of a kind making their use of the gift set exclusive in use. These talents within the person need to be identified, explored, practiced with and refined and then finally put to use
THAT'S WHY YOU HAVE THEM
People who have not discovered their identity or purpose suffer within in the form of a conflict and … (18 comments)
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innocense: BEING FALSELY ACCUSED (my Russian collusion?)
- 03/26/19 07:15 AM
Many years ago I was accused of stealing in the form of embezzling which of course is a hair away from accusing me of lying, cheating and fraud. In other words this is the end of life as I know it assuming it is all true. Now I am going to share my true experiences that I posted in some posts written years ago. What you are going to read is basically my Russian collusion story also known as HOT-AIR
THE PAIN IS REAL
Have you ever been accused of anything? Forget whether it is right or wrong it remains shocking, traumatic and not … (19 comments)
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innocense: IN SEEKING CUPID DON'T BE STUPID book
- 02/14/19 06:30 AM
IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T BE STUPID book from the PEARLS SERIES of books is making the rounds into many lives and not just at Valentines Day but all season long. WHY? Love has its own timing, wants, and needs. The Love driven life is no myth. Quality time spent on researching this subject yourself gurantees a successful rewarding outcome
LEARN WITHOUT THE BURN
DISCOVER THE POWER OF INNOCENCE
COMMAND YOUR OUTCOME
ACTIVATE THE HEARTS DESIRES
Married or divorced....starting out or starting over...We have input and feedback for you!
GIVE IT OR RECEIVE IT either way..... it is waiting to serve you
Over 100 chapters of women centered subjects. Forty … (12 comments)
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innocense: I TRUST YOU UNTIL ...
- 01/06/19 07:28 AM
I have experimented with this subject over the decades and I have found what works consistently over time and in every-ones favor too. It is simply this. I TRUST YOU whoever you are and BELIEVE YOU whatever the circumstance is until I have a reason not to. You see, YOU control these dynamics. I only observe you when you do. I don't doubt what I see or hear either. That's why it works!
CARE-FREE
Being able to enter a situation, event, relationship or scenario without bias or prejudice and relying on the experience in the moment is one of the purest ways to experience life as intended. It allows one to … (6 comments)
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innocense: VALENTINES DAY BOOK SEEKING CUPID DON'T BE STUPID
- 01/03/19 08:28 AM
Yes it s true. PEARLS FOR GIRLS DATING WAITING & SEX...IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T BE STUPID is a biased book. It favors and caters to the woman ages 12 to 60 covering subjects important to their world and well being. Over 100 chapters devoted to the married, divorced, thinking about either one, starting out fresh or starting over again female of the species.
MEN TAKE NOTE
Over thirty (30) chapters on men that reveal to the reader what to look for when entering into this arena. Sorry fellas, but they have to know and this book is for them and their welfare as well as … (2 comments)
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innocense: STOP TO CONSIDER (the real you within)
- 11/13/17 06:23 AM
The life journey is made up of all the little things that take place in the moment that move at a rate faster than one can follow and continue steadily adding up as we try to keep track it all by the minute, hour & then day even unto weeks, months, years & lifetime. It is very hard to keep track of anything as those things do what they want and when they want when presented. We are their guests!
BE
That's why it is very important to learn to become an observer & receiver until prompted to interact or withdraw. Wanting to involve … (8 comments)
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innocense: WHEN YOU DONT KNOW
- 06/13/16 02:48 AM
There are certain subjects that escape me entirely. Some of them are things I don't know about because I had little or no exposure to it and other subjects I could care less about knowing. Both come under being ignorant to the first timer and I am at peace with it. What I don't know, I don't know and that in itself is a type of knowing if you choose to believe it
YOUTH IGNORANCE
In my younger years, when I was eager to please for a various amount of reasons, I was not eager to admit ignorance or not knowing. That didn't get you ahead or make your personal … (8 comments)
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innocense: SIMPLICITY IS THE DEFAULT
- 03/14/16 01:17 AM
That's how all things start out. SIMPLE. Then, once employed or engaged, its people that see how it can run this way or that and to their specific benefit or outcome. That is when it starts to get complicated. Furthermore, have you noticed that mankind cannot be governed efficiently by rules and regulations?
IMPOSSIBLE
Consider it would be impossible to have a code of conduct, a rule of use or to regulate everything to cover the needs, wants, and situations that people find themselves in. That's why we have courts of law and proceedings. They take what has happened and examine it for its intent and purpose and outcome
There are … (12 comments)
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innocense: PROOF
- 01/19/16 07:41 AM
This is the world we live in now. No longer is someones word taken as solid or considered deal worthy, but instead, a signature is required, money to boot and contracts to perform follow. Same with just about everything today. You must prove who you are, what you want to do and how you are going to do it. A type or form of pre-evidence is required
PROOF OF FUNDS
Even if you can pay cash, you have to prove it and a big part of purchasing Real Estate is proof of the down payment. In fact, if you want to see a … (7 comments)
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innocense: DO YOU HAVE A GROWING UP STORY?
- 10/12/15 07:01 AM
I loved to play outside and inside non-stop. Inside involved having those army plastic soldier figures that stand up and you can place them anywhere. The battle commenced on my signal and many were lost until I reset the game. On the outside, I wouldn't come in until I heard my mother calling out, someone saying she is or it was too dark to play anymore
THE NEIGHBORHOOD
That's how it worked in Brooklyn, New York when I was growing up. You see you not only played in front of your own home, but in others too even around the block. Many times you … (15 comments)
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innocense: SEX IS SEX LOVE IS LOVE
- 05/07/15 06:05 AM
Sex is not love....Somehow over the generations of time, sex switched places with intimacy and the world has suffered for it since. Men have still yet to discover how important it is for a man to just hold a woman. Often over-looked is the feeling of being personally wanted and both parties need large doses of this
SEX IS OVER-STATED AND OVER RATED...
Sex plays a small part in the life of two people when it is contrasted to time. It is not the glue that holds the two together, but a small part of where the glue is applied. Human beings require … (3 comments)
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innocense: THE SCARECROW ADMITTED IT
- 01/14/15 10:58 PM
He not only came clean, he made up a song about it much to his credit. That actually led to him meeting others (Dorothy, tin man and lion) who eventually led to his solution and result. He just simply came to the reality of he didn't know and why! I don't know can be an attractive state to be in until you do know
STOP THE BLUFF
To people who fudge, make-up or engage gibberish to disguise the fact that they don't know are fooling themselves. In the earthly parlance it is called double-talk. WHY? Because since it is not truth, it is necessary to have to repeat … (14 comments)
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innocense: IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS
- 11/11/14 10:37 PM
It's the person you are talking with or to... in the moment face to face, breath to breath and how you communicate will determine your outcome or result. That's why it is so important to do personal inner work to establish how to be effective and efficient in navigating through life. It is a people driven event and the more you learn about human nature, the better equipped you will be to journey well
STEP BY STEP
Every human being I meet without exception has tremendous value but in many, it is not being realized or goes untapped into. The blows of life tend to strike deep on … (6 comments)
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innocense: THE SOUNDS OF LITTLE CHILDREN PLAYING
- 07/16/14 03:36 AM
I heard it from a distance. I was riding my bike on a quiet street and heard the soft murmuring and interacting of innocent voices in the near distance all having their say whatever it was and making the most of the moment they were in and it came across as a joyful noise, one of pleasure, excitement and well being. Young kiddies playing at random
LETS GET THIS OUT OF THE WAY
Okay... I remember when my kids were young and they got together sometimes and it wasn't pleasant and yelling, screaming and arguing sometimes reared its ugly head. But hey, that's what parents are … (4 comments)
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innocense: PLEASE & THANK YOU NEVER GOES OUT OF STYLE
- 06/29/14 01:52 AM
Two words and look how powerful they are too. Try not using them and life can become complicated. Use them and navigating through life becomes more effective. Use them like you mean it and a lasting impression is made. Use them recklessly and you get a minimum reputation for being dishonest
NOISE OR MEANING?
These words and their use demand respect and not just noise that comes out of someones mouth trying to get somewhere fast. Some people just throw them out there so as to socially comply and leave people with I said it and now do what I want or what I tell you...The … (0 comments)
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innocense: IF YOU CAN BREATH YOU CAN BLOG
- 05/20/14 12:44 AM
When you get anxious for anything, that is when it takes on another dynamic usually one of stress and then anything can happen. It is fitting to remind us that there is also a good stress that forms and guides leading to perfection or a good results as well
SINKING IN YOUR THINKING?
Trying too hard invokes the deep thinking process and activates the emotions that while you get a sense of rising to the occasion in the moment when this happens you are really going in the wrong direction. The result is you end up sinking in your thinking. Lessen this dynamic … (6 comments)
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You have always been aware of yourself and the not yourself as it surfaced here & there throughout your lifetime. Saying or doing something embarrassing or awkward leaves one asking: Why did I say or do that? The disconnect is you glimpsing your real self from the not so real or programmed self. Let's explore this
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